Anyone has experience with dating men hater women ?

RasputinRuskiLoveBot · 2026-01-27T12:26:22+00:00

Dated one for about a year, she will eventually start calling you a Mysogynist and a narcissist the moment you start standing up for yourself and calling her out on bad behavior and she will never take accountability for anything. You're gonna start tiptoeing around her and try not to piss her off but one day you will lose it and ya'll will break up and then you will blame yourself for the breakup.

She's also probably part of toxic Internet groups mostly on tiktok for women that push their agenda of hating men.

She already has crazy mood swings and she is definitely great in bed, she probably is bi as well.

Low-Investigator2953 · 2026-01-27T12:01:25+00:00

For whatever reason she hates men , don't take her seriously

JackSquirts · 2026-01-27T13:16:20+00:00

Dated? Hell no. Smashed? Certainly. Never take anyone like that seriously.

nickjames1986 · 2026-01-27T13:31:38+00:00

Stop talking to her and find someone else who isn’t batshit crazy..

Tall_Fudge6289 · 2026-01-27T12:22:02+00:00

They're all incredible when they get on top so just don't take them seriously.

Use them and find someone by the side.

chobolicious88 · 2026-01-27T12:23:17+00:00

Good for flings only

Realwoujo · 2026-01-27T12:55:54+00:00

Avoid them. Why create headaches for yourself? The point of having abundance is to get women that make your life fun, not women that make your life shitty.

Back2theCouture · 2026-01-27T13:20:08+00:00

I’ve met women like that before in my life. Some of them are genuinely haters, probably from past traumas or influenced by their circles.

But one thing I found a few of them say it to kinda trap you, to make you try to show them that “oh, I’m different. I’m not like other men I’ll show it to you.”

Then you’re gonna go above and beyond in oder to please her and prove her wrong. But once you only do 99% instead of 200-300% like you always did, they’re gonna gaslight you and tell you that you’re just like other men lol.

Rowka · 2026-01-27T13:24:06+00:00

She turned out to be abusive narcissist.

ethe_ze · 2026-01-27T13:26:04+00:00

my sister is sorta like that. god she is so annoying

pittburgh_zero · 2026-01-27T12:02:31+00:00

These women are great in bed…. Just be like able and desirable. She will see you as not one of whatever group she hates.

cruel_frames · 2026-01-27T12:07:16+00:00

Are you a man?

kajohansen · 2026-01-27T12:11:51+00:00

What does she say specifically?

DrFrosthazer · 2026-01-27T14:12:45+00:00

Misandrism is getting filtered out first. If I see her talk badly about men in general, I know she has unsolved psychological issues. And biased way of thinking.

jblue44 · 2026-01-27T12:08:01+00:00

Just don’t give in on her ideas Treat her like a lady, with manners and like a gentleman

Even if you disagree try to have a proper conversation and eventually she will tone down

rpphil96 · 2026-01-27T12:14:15+00:00

You're in for a world of hurt with her.

ZootedInc · 2026-01-27T13:43:25+00:00

If im trying to make her my gf I dont let that slide, I always call it out and correct them. Either their feelings are strong and get annoyed and leave or they come around to your way of thinking. I make them explain why..

If you're just trying to hook up just disregard it like it was never said or play it off light heartedly

saryiahan · 2026-01-27T14:16:06+00:00

Don’t put your dick in crazy.

grass_monkey · 2026-01-27T14:21:00+00:00

That sounds like a terrible idea. Just why?

Kylearean · 2026-01-27T14:47:04+00:00

Why waste your time?

HungDaddyNYC · 2026-01-27T16:01:00+00:00

What?

clawhatesyou · 2026-01-27T16:07:34+00:00

What a fun coincidence. I’ve been hooking up with self proclaimed “biggest man hater in the world” for a few weeks. She’s been fantastic in the sack, and isn’t interested in being monogamous. No complaints so far.

stick_it_in_your_bum · 2026-01-27T16:36:16+00:00

They’re the most broken people I’ve ever dated. They will destroy your identity. Use you for all you’ve got and discard you. Stay away. Date wholesome girls.

shinn497 · 2026-01-27T16:56:22+00:00

In my experience man "man hating" women have just been deeply hurt by men. Most often they were in a relationship with a man that gave them the impression of a certain kind of relationship and then the reality of how that relationship went was very different. They then have gone through the process of breaking with that men and feeling very hurt. Or, even worse, a continued process of breaking up and getting reattached.

Now I am not attractive to women , so I have never dated these women. But, in many cases, I have listened to them extensively and sat with them as they vented to me all of their issues. I have heard many many tales of how they had dreams of being loved and experiencing parnership. Or having a family. In many cases, these women are the ones that desire men the most.

Now I try to not moralize this. Sometimes the break up is the womans' fault, especially when she assigns an expectation to the relationship that was never promised or even indicated by the man . Sometimes it is the man's fault, as he will promise, often inadvertently or in a way that is deniable, a certain future for the woman. But I always do what I can to let these women not feel the burden of what they experience. I always avoid saying it is their fault because they are very vulnerable when remembering these emotions and I especially especially never give them advice I less they ask for it explicitly (and even then with some resistance).

I think I kind of specialize in dealing with people that have experienced this sort of trauma. I see them as broken but not permanently. Many of them have hope, want to be happy, want to be loved, but are just really hurt. And I try my best to remind them that they are not alone or that someone is willing to listen to them. At this point, I can also remind them that they share a similar experience with other women.

Sometimes I reflect on this and become deeply sad myself, as a man because I feel as though I take on the negativity these women face. And it is an experience that many of them will always go through. It is a consequence of the human condition. But listening to them l, and creating connection, is the best I can do.

Aniket_Nayi · 2026-01-27T13:26:10+00:00

Who hurt her ?

Title	Anyone has experience with dating men hater women ?
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Date	January 27, 2026 11:54 AM UTC (5 months ago)
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