your method to flip 'reds'

ProfessionalGoat551 · 2026-02-18T17:45:28+00:00

Serious question. Why would you want to flip a red ? First time hearing of this lingo.

Nothing beats raw green attraction. Because once you leave her presence, what do you think could happen?

The game is about you, trying to convince a chick to go from cold to hot is betraying yourself. It’s a time waste. A woman that you have to convince to be interested in you maintains an extremely high chance of being uncooperative and difficult. Even the woman that have high interest are at times uncooperative.

So why subject yourself to sway a woman your way.

The game is the game, but trying to talk a woman into being interested feels like I’m lowering myself. Too many women out here for that.

This is why a lot of women flake. Because a lot to you guys run behind women with luke warm interest instead of bagging the woman that have HIGH INTEREST.

poly_nerdy_panda · 2026-02-18T23:01:13+00:00

that's the lames shit ever! if a girl isnt attracted to you move on next

PostAvailable9966 · 2026-02-18T17:43:28+00:00

Despite the fact that the definition of "reds" is not compatible with them coming around. The first question you need to ask yourself is the one of opportunity cost, not of outcome.

Current PUA debate is whether it is worth it to care for Ambers or filter them out, much more for caring for reds. If it ever works, the effort is rarely worth the reward. You will be also stuck with a girl that fundamentally doesn't fancy you and you rely on 100 other factors to make her stay.

Trip_seize · 2026-02-18T21:41:39+00:00

Y tho?

optimal981 · 2026-02-18T17:49:10+00:00

Some ‘ambers’ will appear as ‘reds’ due to the situation. Those can be flipped.

For example, I once met a girl at a party in college and we flirted a little bit and exchanged numbers. Later in the night, I made out with a different girl on the dance floor. The first girl had to act like she didn’t want me anymore due to public optics, who wants ‘sloppy seconds’. So at the party she had to put on this front, but when I called her a few days later to ask her out, she said yes.

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-02-18T19:18:56+00:00

I saw a few infields and all of them practically make you position yourself as the guy who wants to have sex and has the money and status for her to consider them

ChicoBrillo · 2026-02-18T21:02:52+00:00

Whats the point? Unless you just like the thrill of the chase that much. I feel like life is much easier just going for people who like you off the rip

epimpstyle · 2026-02-19T09:22:38+00:00

claimed their method was negs.

There are so many misunderstandings about negs. You need to actually learn what a neg is and understand the concept. A good resource is HERE learn from the guy who originally introduced it.

vertascend · 2026-02-20T18:46:17+00:00

This is why it’s called a numbers game; and for the record, any girl that’s on the market can be got, if she can’t means that she’s not on the market… so either she’s in a relationship or not looking to date whatever… if she’s red based on the fact that she is on the market… there is most likely a means to be gotten, I’ve approached a couple of thousand girls, less than a hundred would be what you consider red and that again would’ve been circumstantial…, the other 95+ percent were able to hold decent conversation, talking depends on the approach and the vibe you bring

jackthehat6 · 2026-02-18T18:01:00+00:00

infield from pros shows that this literally never happens. 'Reds' always end up in their rejection compilations. They pull the 'greens'.

Check out what mark manson says in models. "You can't negotiate attraction. Only amplify 'existing' attraction"

norwegiandoggo · 2026-02-18T19:00:07+00:00

It depends on why she doesn't like you. If it's something you did or she made the wrong assumption about you - that's potentially fixable.

If it's just your general vibe / face or she's just not interested in who you are - that's not fixable.

The challenge with trying to "flip" a red, is that it can quickly get much worse. It can enter into sexual harassment territory quickly.

Imagine: Man approaches woman, tries to pick her up. She responds negatively / angry. Instead of respecting her no, he thinks he can "flip" her. And continues trying and trying. And this is nothing but sexual harassment. Dude does not respect a NO.

So you need to have a good sense regarding why she is negative towards you. Let's say, you meet a girl at a party, and she's mad at you and angry because she heard that you fucked her friend and did not call her after. OK, now she has this idea about who you are. And that story might be wrong. So you might be able to flip her. In this situation, you know why she doesn't like you. And it's based on behavior or mistaken perception. So that's potentially fixable through communication.

In general, you should therefore never try to flip a red unless you know why she doesn't like you, and you happen to know that it's fixable through communication.

Title	your method to flip 'reds'
Author	fireqwer
Upvotes	9
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Date	February 18, 2026 5:38 PM UTC (5 months ago)
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