How am I supposed to hook up on first dates if none of us have our own place?

johnny-faux · 2026-04-20T00:22:56+00:00

parks and car lol.

uhhh, i usually just say “you wanna chill in the back?”. and then we start cuddling and then makeout. check out the decarlo escalation ladder. saved me when i was a newbie :)

Excellent-Archer-238 · 2026-04-20T00:09:00+00:00

Go to a motel. You don't have to suggest it directly because most will act prude and say no right away.

While you are intensely making out in your car, ask her if she wants to come over to your house. She will say "but what about your parents?". You will say "I don't care just don't be loud". She will hesitate and then you can say "well, I know another place we could go and be completely alone...". She will be horny and likely to say yes, unless she has strict values, which some girls do.

Ok_Potential359 · 2026-04-20T00:40:56+00:00

Bro I've fucked in my car, in an actual field, on a truck bed, at parties in other people's beds, fucked in my girlfriend's parents bed, planned a stay to fuck at my house when my parents went away.

If there's a will there's a way. I say this when I was broke as shit, too and was younger than you when I did it.

And living on your own -> get roommates if the problem is bad enough.

juanet2bonit · 2026-04-20T01:30:02+00:00

There are rooms for rent or get lost in a dark area.. if the main point is hooking up, everything else is secondary..

SteveYunnan · 2026-04-20T08:01:10+00:00

Just tell your parents you're having a girl over. Mine never had any issues with it, and she won't either if you play it cool. Other then that, you could plan dates around staying at her place.

Shirley0312 · 2026-04-20T05:29:15+00:00

Heavy_Consequence441 · 2026-04-20T02:50:48+00:00

Car. Sex is not worth the price of a motel for me lol

ManaDeus · 2026-04-20T07:09:27+00:00

Use your car, fuck on the street, easy

Barttheman · 2026-04-20T13:02:14+00:00

Hotel Room

Leather_Check5612 · 2026-04-20T13:58:44+00:00

Get a truck with a 6 foot bed and you always have a cuddle spot for looking at the sky, sunset, stars, ocean, drive in movie etc. also see if there’s any affordable motels/hotels in the area that are decent especially if they have jacuzzi rooms and get a free rewards membership to rack up points.

PrinceDestin · 2026-04-20T04:32:21+00:00

I always used my car, most of My bodies came from the car, only really smashed in a bed with like 3-4 girls one including an ex girlfriend

OilMelodic1987 · 2026-04-20T17:34:28+00:00

Cheap hotel can be as little as £20 a night

FeistyRip9623 · 2026-04-20T21:21:19+00:00

go to the drive in movies

xxxWhoHurtYouxxx · 2026-04-20T09:45:48+00:00

When I was 22 I had my own spot.

I had 3-4 girls each week.

Level up, make more money, Hit the gym, eat right, learn more, speak well, dress better etc.

I can show how to make money 10 different ways.

Neurometabolism · 2026-04-20T00:03:11+00:00

The majority of communication from women is nonverbal. Learn to pick up on it and you'll know when she wants to be taken to bed however start with hand holding and then it will progress from there.

Title	How am I supposed to hook up on first dates if none of us have our own place?
Author	Big_Pea3882
Upvotes	62
Comments	41
Date	April 19, 2026 11:53 PM UTC (3 months ago)
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