Is the gilded trophy husband the new standard for dating now?

drewster23 · 2026-04-21T03:44:23+00:00

Whatever you been smoking I want some.

And if you haven't been under any influence, stop thinking so much. You're not a philosopher.

llll-havok · 2026-04-21T06:07:37+00:00

Women date up. Even if some miracle you bag a rich baddie, the insecurity will ultimately doom your relationship.

PostAvailable9966 · 2026-04-21T03:48:00+00:00

All female competition is not sexual. It is a status play aimed at other women. I dont even know how that myth started.

Trophy husbands (if that term even stands) are not equivalent to trophy women… like at all. And the guy is not getting the influencer lifestyle benefits you think of.

NicHarvs · 2026-04-21T04:15:35+00:00

Why do you think a 6'3" neurologist would have her pick of men?

That's two things men don't really care for, her height and her occupation. Those are things women select for, not men.

1nfam0us · 2026-04-21T06:08:10+00:00

Stop think8ng in categories. It isn't good for you.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-04-21T06:51:09+00:00

There's no universal "standard". People all have their own preferences and do all kinds of different things.

zorg-is-real · 2026-04-21T08:55:13+00:00

I am the trophy hasband

Tasty-Window · 2026-04-21T07:10:35+00:00

I did that for a couple years when I was in a bind. we were the same age. fite me

SteveYunnan · 2026-04-21T09:24:21+00:00

The kind of woman who would be OK with this is probably not attractive enough for you to want to do it.

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-04-21T06:36:40+00:00

Are you saying you want to be a woman?

Embarrassed-Cellist8 · 2026-04-21T09:35:10+00:00

Pass the weed, you've had enough.

7tweets · 2026-04-21T10:33:16+00:00

I don’t know where you live but this isn’t a reality anywhere, let alone a new “standard”…

Drop me a hint so I can move there and find a wife who gives me this trophy husband lifestyle. I’m 6’3, handsome, and I’m tired of working 40 hrs a week. No joke

coolwater85 · 2026-04-21T12:46:54+00:00

I mean, OP has short moments of making decent points, but those are overshadowed by completely stupid takes on everything else.

OP may be sober now, but the brain damage has been done.

thetimeisripe · 2026-04-21T12:56:49+00:00

Absolutely not lol. By a massive margin men control most of the wealth and always will, not by design or patriarchy, but by the fact they are hardwired and more likely to take risks and/or bully their way to the top. Yes, there are exceptions and wealthy women, but in the greater scope, nothing has changed and the game is still the same. And it always will be

Back2theCouture · 2026-04-21T14:58:05+00:00

There are some examples, but it’s still fringe, not a standard. There are men who stay at home taking care of the kids and the house and their wives work. Again, it’s a fringe. But even when you talk about women’s rights, it’s all rights. No such thing as women’s obligations, socially speaking. Rights are “me, me, me” while obligation is a duty.

This is why when women are encouraged to work or even pursue a career, many of them also prefer their men to still do men’s roles (head of household, etc). Why would you wanna work your ass off for $10k for example, if you could stay at home for the same amount of money.

InfiniteRestaurant21 · 2026-04-21T04:47:26+00:00

Lol and then you woke up

smellssweet · 2026-04-21T09:12:54+00:00

"Basic women stuff"? Go on....

PrinceDestin · 2026-04-21T04:22:36+00:00

What a waste of a post, a trophy husband will always be a man with money status And decent to great looks

Now do you have to have all that to get women?

Nope but sticking to the definition of trophy husband that is what it is

AngelBryan · 2026-04-21T08:33:45+00:00

Things would be a lot easier if what you are saying was true.

Title	Is the gilded trophy husband the new standard for dating now?
Author	Kitchen-Start-3828
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Date	April 21, 2026 3:25 AM UTC (2 months ago)
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