In what ways do women make you feel exhausted?

I feel exhausted because I feel like I'm chilling until a woman pops into existence and reminds me that she is judging me in comparison to other men.

Usually I'm just in my zone copacetic and then a woman pops up in the vicinity and reminds me by the look on her face that I look like a threat. Like "Here's a surprise accusation for yo ass!". For whenever I get too comfortable in public.