I have been seeing this guy for two months. We would see each other once a week or so, going out for dinners, I've made him dinner, or we hang out and watch a movie.

I feel like he has gone distant, and I really like him want him to commit to me. He is really hard to read and I am not sure what he wants. When we watch a movie together we don't cuddle, he won't hold my hand. We sit at opposite ends of the couch, until the movie is done and he just swoops in a kisses me.

We hung out the other night, ordered pizza and watched a movie. We started making out, but he doesn't really touch me, he takes off my top and my bra and then thats it. I do everything else. He isn't much of a giver. But yet always tries to initiate sex and I usually say no. Then I do other things to him, like giving him head. Then we just talk for a bit and then he leaves. He did say that we would get together again within the next two weeks but now I am losing hope. I am a little confused. Does he like me? He is just shy and little inexperienced with women? He is using me? Do I continue to just live my life and wait for him to come to me?

I am currently reading the surrendered single and love it, I am living my life as it but that little monster instead my head sometimes takes over and I get all anxious and start over analyzing everything. I feel really used and a little rejected.