Girlfriends ex coming to town for 10 days. She's meeting him.

Coolbeans024ptf · 2016-04-12T19:02:26+00:00

Girls don't meet up with exes they don't still like. You have a lot to learn. Been there man, got the trickle truth for many years, in the the end my girl banged her ex till her pussy bled (her words).

RichieFinn · 2016-04-12T10:06:13+00:00

but I had to wait for a month to even make out with her

oh wow.

you are in no state to be with any girl never mind this one, they will walk all over you. focus on yourself for a while

lanky32 · 2016-04-12T10:14:54+00:00

She still has feelings for him. If he acts indifferent, she will fuck him to get his validation.

chief_slap_ahoe · 2016-04-12T09:54:01+00:00

So she is going on a date with him. Buy her some condoms.

Tell her to have fun then next her. Or tell her that if she does it is over.

EGOtyst · 2016-04-12T12:06:09+00:00

Look, how many girls do you hang out with just for fun?

None. Neither does this dude. Your two month bull shit relationship is nothing compared to their year long one. She is using you to make him jealous and get back at him for something.

Either way, her ability to bounce to you so quickly after being with that dude for a whole year is a red flag in and of itself...

Tiway22 · 2016-04-12T12:01:58+00:00

I think you mean "ex girlfriend". Did she even ask you if it would be okay?

EvilPenName · 2016-04-12T12:03:57+00:00

That alpha widow is getting plowed.

DforDeadpool · 2016-04-12T10:40:58+00:00

Put on your parachute and get off the cuckplane.

[deleted] · 2016-04-12T11:02:07+00:00

there is no friend shit, she's probably wishing to get his cock, and wishing to get his relationship back.

make yourself a favour, just drop her now, if she really ~~loved~~ respected you she would never keep in touch with her ex, nor she would ever meet him again.

so your game is lost already, you can either move on (drop her) or just stay with her knowing that she's just a plate for you (a set of holes that you can fuck).

as for the ~~date~~ ex-meeting, she's probably going to cheat on you, even if she (obviously) will never tell you that.

if i would be you i would keep this gal, but treat her as a plate (fuck her and nothing more).

[deleted] · 2016-04-12T12:51:37+00:00

Read the side bar and start to swallow the pill. You have a long way to go. This entire post stinks of needy behaviour. I am not against someone being in an LTR, but having to wait to get into a relationship with a girl so that she can break up with another, and then her agreeing to meet 'another' in just 3 months is just off.. She's got zero respect for you. Focus on getting better yourself, and this kind of situation will be less likely in the future. In the mean time, break up, and start improving.

princepeanutbutter · 2016-04-12T14:23:57+00:00

You don't have a girlfriend.

The-Ban-Hammer · 2016-04-12T14:36:47+00:00

Am I in the relationship_advice sub by mistake?

You're with a girl who won't make out with you because she is in an LDR?

This girl will be fucking that guy and kissing him in ways that she won't (and doesn't have to) do for you. In fact, I'd be willing to bet she's got somebody locally that she's fucking as well.

The fact that she's going to see this guy is because you don't "fit the bill," though I'm betting you PAY the bill.

Sir_Distic · 2016-04-12T17:06:28+00:00

She's not over him. Drop the gf and move on.

nastynickdr · 2016-04-12T15:37:21+00:00

She meets him, you next her.

Anyways you dont seem ready for a LTR. Focus on yourself and read the sidebar.

MeatCurtainRod · 2016-04-12T15:47:51+00:00

This is a hookup. But don't worry, she is relying on the fact that YOU are a really nice and generous guy who believes your girl needs the sexual freedoms that she has for so long kept hidden and pent up, which of course she will unleash in the form of ravaging animal sex on this EX that she never got over. Not to worry, your solace is in that you will wait patiently at home wiping her tears that she will put on about her rape story, hugging her sweaty body that smells of man ass and cologne, not pressing charges because she doesn't want to, not pressing charges because it is an alibi, and using you to gain comfort and support to do this again with another chad. Because it isn't cheating if you know about it right?

Either this, or MAN UP and put your foot down. There is absolutely no reason for a girl to meet up with an EX. There is no reason for her to include that 'nothing is going to happen'. You are far too naive to be dating right now, because she is walking all over you. And I'm also giving you the benefit of the doubt and assuming you AREN'T involved in some classic teenage drama.

minuscipher · 2016-04-12T16:06:22+00:00

The mere fact that she is even considering meeting up with an ex should be enough to raise a flag. You're not giving her the tingles, the ex still is, she wants to relive something nostalgic. Plate and move on.

[deleted] · 2016-04-12T17:19:51+00:00

She wouldn't meet someone she broke up with 3 months ago as friends. It's a romantic meeting.

ExiledNihilist · 2016-04-12T18:27:19+00:00

You've got a lot to learn. Dump her.

[deleted] · 2016-04-12T19:00:34+00:00

Dump her.

F_Dingo · 2016-04-12T19:13:09+00:00

She's going to meet up and fuck him, and then use the famous "Well one thing led to another and as soon as I knew it we were having sex, it's not my fault!"

She gets dumped and downgraded to permanent plate status.

Title	Girlfriends ex coming to town for 10 days. She's meeting him.
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Upvotes	12
Comments	44
Date	April 12, 2016 9:48 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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