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Blue Pill example - Do not be desperate

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July 31, 2018
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The following text is from a plate I recently dropped. She was one of the first gals I met on Bumble after my separation. 6/10 - good personality - another man would probably love her but not this one.

This is the text she sent me after I called it off with her. Couple things:

I do give her credit for her "female awareness" on the situation. Kind of nice but also somewhat expected.

Begging is an absolute turn off.

You cannot negotiate desire.

Abundance and OI are very important.

How many of you have sent this kind of communication to your wife/LTR?

Make you wanna puke?

Her text:

Thank you for replying. I’ll always respect your decision, but is there any room for discussion?

I was not ungrateful. Far from it. That’s not where my mind was at at all. I was intending to share that, although I loved the ice cream date, I just found I still wanted more time with you. Time to kiss and be close. Which is a great thing to want with your date. In the ice cream shop just wasn’t the place to do it. Apparently I didn’t communicate that well and I’m sorry. And I felt a little guilty because you seemed so tired and like you wanted/needed to be doing something else. I’ve said many times how much any time spent together means to me. Time and touch are all I need.

Sigh. I was passive aggressive this weekend. Patience is not my strongest point. I know this will get easier for both of us when school starts again. And I know you are busy getting kids ready for their trip. I guess I was just really missing connection with you. And I need to ask for it like a big girl.

I respectfully ask that you give us/me another try. I still see a big potential for us. And I, for one, want to see if we could be good together. I’m not drama and negativity. Far from it. I am the best girlfriend you could ever hope to have. What I’m not good at is this middle of the road, not sure where I stand part. 😕

What do you say? Can we have that bowling date and talk it out?


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Title Blue Pill example - Do not be desperate
Author red-sfpplus
Upvotes 14
Comments 31
Date 31 July 2018 06:08 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/204139
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/93gvix/blue_pill_example_do_not_be_desperate/
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[–]ellifino11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

$10 says when you send her that final text of saying it's done for good, or just don't respond for a few days, she goes off the deep end and you'll see the crazy arrive.

[–]DeepReindeer10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good luck finding someone around here to take that bet, the shear length of that text indicates a strong likelihood of crazy.

[–]fuckmrpRed Beret7 points8 points  (2 children) | Copy

I had a past plate recently pop up out of the blue, she sends me a selfie that I had sent her, tells me she's thinking about me and counting my abs.

idk bro, reads like these chicks are lining you up for LTR from the start and that's on you not them...

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

I would agree with this one. Out of the gate, not having dated in over a decade I was sending mixed messages.

Broke six hearts in the process. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[–]fuckmrpRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I find most chicks have an agenda, they just don't say that shit. They'll go along to get along but after awhile they want more. The single ones that is, married chicks just want to live out shades of grey and they almost never have free time for more than fucking.

[–]civilizedfrog6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

"I am the best girlfriend you could ever hope to have."

Ooh! So close. She was so close.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

You chose wisely, pilgrim. (nod)

[–]screechhaterRed Beret2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Basic tenants of the laws of power, of course material reading, in the sidebar

It’s imperative to stand back and fully digest the level to which the OP is operating in his frame after years of trying to make “it right” for his wife. A review of his history lays it all out as her either being bat shit crazy, or AWALT

Whatever it may be, OP has taken back his life, is fulfilling his mission, and living in “frame”, therefore, able to kick shit to the curb.

His helpful insights of his journey, and coming to realize the drain of the crazy ex on his life, as many others have come to identify is quite refreshing.

A couple of questions I have for OP and some others, that have lived this, do you think now, was she bat shit crazy, when you met ?

Or, did your drunk beta behavior create an ungrateful, shrew of a nightmare ? Not a judgement. Just an honest to god question

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I was with her 20 years.

Out of those 20 years I was drunk captain about 18 months. Tops. 3 years ago.

I think that the drunk captain phase trigger her AWALT where it had been dormant forever.

My hypothesis is, once a woman goes AWALT with a man, thats it she is done. An Alpha can never go beta and back again. It is lost.

I also have zero fucks to give anymore. I am 38, prime time with excellent physical shape and career. My kids are 10,9.

Not waiting around when I can be fucking Mandy in the bathroom at Corner Cafe over lunch.

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

I thought you were supposed to make the bullets stop as opposed to dodging them.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I cant tell if this is a compliment or a digg.

Either way, so long as I don't get shot - winning right? LOL

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly!

[–]RuleZeroDADRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

TL:DR

Whaaaa, me no like being a plate...😕

[–]helaughsinhidden0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

What makes people think that kind of crap would even work? Is it in movies? Books?

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (4 children) | Copy

I don't think that they really believe it will work. It's more like a hail mary - may as well give it a shot and see if the guy is BP enough to crawl back.

[–]weakandsensitive4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Pure, unadulterated neediness coupled with no self respect nor abundance. Extremely unattractive in both men and women.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

It's not really a thought process, just a process, like a shit test. Bait and switch, Selling bags of shit and calling it chocolate. Problem is, they believe their own bullshit.

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I feel like I just watched a romantic movie starring Jlo

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Your wings are clipped right? Vasectomy?

Dam, 10 years and now your back out there. So much potential. I look forward to your updates.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yep. Got the boys snipped 5 years ago.

I literally just met my #1 plate Mandy for lunch.

Fucked her in the unisex bathroom at Corner Cafe. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Life is what you make it.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy

i literally just had this experience a couple weeks ago. i told her that kind of behavior was beneath her. that no hot girl should ever pursue any guy like that, ever. that she must not know she's hot. and to go read "why men love bitches" and never text me again

[–]DeepReindeer4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

What good did telling her all that do?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

well, she left me alone. and that was the goal

[–]Rian_StoneMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

heh, never seen anyone actually to the 'go full beta, they dry up and leave' before.

glad to see it actually works

[–]WolfofAllStreetz-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I dunno, a bowling date sounds horrific to me. I have never sent shit like that to me wife. If I did, she would think it came from someone else.



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