Guys,

I am 33, 6', 220 lbs, 22% bf, working on getting down to 12% (was at 240 lbs). I have been powerlifting non-stop since I was a teen so even though I was fat, I have built a very solid base of muscle which is starting to show. On Sat a HB7 I met through social game told me I shouldn't leave at the end of the night when they were going to another party.

Work is good - I get recruitment offers all the time without looking for jobs that pay 200k. I am in the process of paying some CC debt I racked up during grad school. I have a side hustle as well.

Social is good - I am involved with different circles and am very social through groups (e.g. meet ups, non-profits, volunteering, etc.)

Relationship with wife is good. I lead, she is my VP. I can pass shit tests pretty well and I've learned to STFU. Sex a few times per week, BJs not that frequent but 1) that will hopefully change as my SMV levels up and 2). She is conservative, has good family values, good relationship with her dad. Very redpill background.

My question: What the fuck do I do? I have a million thoughts running through my mind and feel like I can't breathe. Already, I am finding myself thinking "you can't do X, you have a baby on the way". Or "you have to do Y, the baby is coming". I need to start saving, life insurance, etc!

I just feel very overwhelmed here. I have the resources and know that I will be able to own my shit. My question is more from a redpill perspective what should I anticipate from my wife, the pregnancy, and my life with a new born?