I’ve read the sidebar of the main sub.
I want a family. I wanted to get married. Now I’m not so sure. I’ve played the field for a very long time. Fucked plenty of women. Now I’m getting older. My goals are different and I have found someone who I enjoy being with.
But all this stuff had my mind fucked up. It’s like everything I read is telling me “it doesn’t matter what you do. She’s going to cheat on you. All women cheat”
This sucks to hear and also confuses me. Now I know you guys are going to probably laugh at this shit but my mother is really religious. I know a couple of women who are. I don’t mean that bullshit church on Sunday. Sucking dick on Monday. I mean legit believe in it (I don’t). My mother would never cheat on my dad. I am 100% positive because she committed and believes that she will go to hell or whatever she believes if she does. She’s so against it. She talks about it all the time how these women cheat and the world us screwed. That all this bad behavior is becoming acceptable. My dad treated her very very very poorly. She would rather “go to God” and try to “fix things” than ever cheat.
I am not sure about a lot. But I’m sure my mother would never ever cheat no matter what. Okay you can stop laughing now. Anyway.
You mean to tell me that even women who have morals and self respect are going to cheat? I know I’m not the best male ever to live. I’m the best I can be and continue to grow like that. But even that isn’t enough? I dated a girl who had tons of orbiters. She didn’t entertain any of them. I did some lame shit and would creep her phone and stuff. She wouldn’t even bat a lash at these guys. After seeing how loyal she actually was I stopped worrying. But now after reading the sidebar it’s like where the fuck are these women everyone is taking about? I haven’t experienced them only what I’m hearing.
It almost seemed better to live naive to all this and thing maybe there was a chance she won’t cheat. Ignorance is bliss I guess. But man I’ve seen women be loyal. I’ve seen a girl who dated a fat piece of shit. Beta. Low life. And she wouldn’t hook up with me because she was still with him. She broke up with him and then she did so I knew she wanted to but when they were together. She wouldn’t. She said she felt bad. She couldn’t do it. “She was sorry”.
Couple days after they broke up she fucked me. So yes I get they will branch swing. But all of them will just cheat? Fuck that’s hard to swallow.
You guys have wives and I’m sure they haven’t cheat other wise they wouldn’t be your wives. So all women don’t cheat. Given the right circumstances they will but if you have your shit together. Leader. Game. Status. Frame. Good father. Alpha beta balance. Etc. are those risks extremely rare to happen?
I know most of you are going to just say. She’s not yours. Its just your turn. I’m trying to be okay and not gaf. But it’s tough. Makes me not want to get into a relationship. And that sucks because like I said. I want children.
I will continue to keep reading. Starting on this subs sidebar now. But damn this reality has put a damper on how I expected my life to be. Now I have this paranoia and it’s causing me to probably look insecure. She could be doing everything right and I’m here thinking she’s lying and talking to chad behind my back. It’s making me sick it’s giving me a headache worrying. I do realize this is me being a pussy I guess but damn I’m trying to process this shit.
Did any of you have a hard time with this? Is it ever worth it date? Anything else I should know?