What is the proper way to Red Pill new folk?

BobbyPeru · 2017-03-10T06:25:21+00:00

First off, you are not red pill in 2 months... You've just sprinkled a little alpha on your blue pill. Secondly, you shouldn't even be thinking about it for at least a year.

Soberskipper · 2017-03-10T12:12:38+00:00

Don't talk about fight club is our no1 rule. If a man has a problem he can't try to address himself then he isn't worthy. Simple as that.

BobbyPeru · 2017-03-10T17:22:52+00:00

I want to help him on the path to MRP enlightenment, but how do I do that?

First, you can't. You're not yet capable of that. You don't have the background or depth or breadth of knowledge to help others yet.

Second, you don't help "red pill" others. You can't make others see it. They have to see it for themselves. No Blue Pill man can be helped until he finally determines that something's very wrong and what he's been doing isn't working and will never work.

I was as Blue as could be. Six years ago, you couldn't have told me anything about this Red Pill shit. You couldn't have told me girls hate Nice Guys. You couldn't have told me I needed to self improve. Nah, man, women don't care about looks. Women don't care about whether their husbands get overweight and fat. Women love nice guys. Women love and are sexually attracted to men who are nice and kind to them. Niceness and kindness and foot rubs and back rubs make women's pussies wet. My wife told me so!! Yeah, that wife, the one who hates me and fucks me once a month. Yep, we're working on it! I'm getting nicer to her! It's gonna work dude! Just wait and see! My pastor told me it's gonna work!

Just don't even try.

Aaren_Augustine · 2017-03-10T06:40:58+00:00

It doesn't work. And it's got a way of pulling you away from your own responsibilities. Focus on you're own shit, it's the only thing you can measurably control.

Sepean · 2017-03-10T06:11:21+00:00

It can't be done. Drop the idea, it mostly makes men angry at you. If you must then slip them a copy of MMSLP but you really shouldn't.

commit2rpoys · 2017-03-10T13:24:16+00:00

I (and I'm guessing many others) have felt the same way. No matter how early in your own 'journey' it feels fucking amazing just to be getting your shit together and actually improving, doesn't it?

You start to see friends and relatives through the red lens and realise that they're decent guys, but weaksauce faggots (like us) who could really use a dose of red pill.

To extend the 'pill' analogy as medication, its an anti-venom rather than an inoculation. Blanket dispensation doesn't apply - you have to realise that you've been poisoned and seek this out for it to work.

jacksarmy · 2017-03-10T16:40:58+00:00

They need to be looking for answers before their mind will allow them to see the truth.We were all searching for answers when we found TRP

"Let me tell you why you're here. You're here because you know something. What you know you can't explain. But you feel it. You've felt it your entire life. That there's something wrong with the world. You don't know what it is, but it's there. Like a splinter in your mind, driving you mad. It is this feeling that has brought you to me. Do you know what I'm talking about?"

mattizie · 2017-03-10T08:40:03+00:00

Trust me. It doesn't work. And will do more damage than good. You WILL lose friends over it. You WILL lose family over it. And it will reinforce blue pill thinking in them because you said it and you're an arsehole, and they don't want to be an arsehole like you, and because you're an arsehole anything you say is automatically the wrong thing to do.

I have an uncle who divorced his wife. Went on a trip overseas amd now has a "GF", that he's never fucked but he sends money. He called her workplace because she didn't respond after *12* hours. She said she, "dropped her phone in the toilet", he sent her $500 to buy a new one.

I can't help him, despite the fact that it would be very good for my young cousins, and even himself. And you can't help your friend.

The best you can do is drop subtle hints and let them figure it out for themselves.

But you've only been doing this for 2 months, focus on yourself.

The thing is, you can only really talk about this shit with any credibility when you can consistently demonstrate results. Would you take financial advise from a Hobo? Or a millionare?

DonaldBaelish · 2017-03-10T07:36:22+00:00

The best way to Red Pill somebody is to let him Red Pill himself.

[deleted] · 2017-03-10T12:07:55+00:00

The best way to more deeply ingrain someone in their beliefs is to tell them they're wrong. Instead...it's very much like acta non verba.

Though you're probably going to ignore this advice, try anyway, and piss off some people. Most people do. I did.

ReddJive · 2017-03-10T13:12:48+00:00

2 months in?

You don't.

Still before a guy can even be approached he himself has to express a desire for change in his current state otherwise it won't work.

UEMcGill · 2017-03-10T13:43:51+00:00

One in particular is a single guy who had a LTR for many years where he became a child in the relationship. Mothered every day, couldn't hold down a job, threw tantrums, etc. He's now whining all his friends are in relationships and he's getting nothing.

Law 10: Avoid the unhappy and the unlucky.

At this critical stage in your development, you should be rejecting anything that amounts to quality time with this guy. People should add value to your life, but it sounds like he's an energy vampire.

[deleted] · 2017-03-10T15:25:54+00:00

You're not trying to help anyone, you're seeking validation through consensus.

Best to look within, because you're the kind of idiot that ends up in some news article, talking about how TRP killed you inside, after you fuck up your marriage by barebacking some old flame, because you haven't fucked your wife in a year

RBuddDwyer · 2017-03-10T06:46:33+00:00

This guy actually sounds gamma. Trying to red pill a gamma is a bad idea. Vox Day has written a lot about it.

VengefullyY0urs · 2017-03-10T14:43:00+00:00

You don't. Work on you and change your mentality and life. If you become a man of great value, people will follow you and try to be more like you.

If someone directly asks you for advice, you can give it to them point blank but never reference RP or try to explain it too hard.

bogeyd6 · 2017-03-10T15:03:32+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3tthtb/fr_amoging_the_basketball_dads_in_tingle/ You don't enlighten anyone. We don't recruit here. It's dumb to try and will blow up your personal relationships.

[deleted] · 2017-03-12T17:43:53+00:00

I'll occasionally throw out a comment and laugh to test the water -other than that no way

OldRoke · 2017-03-14T17:26:32+00:00

I don't think you can or should lead anyone to anything. You can't force it upon anyone who is not ready.

nastynickdr · 2017-03-10T11:30:33+00:00

You are not "red pill" 2 months in
We know how you feel. The world just opened before your eyes and you want to spread the word. It doesnt work like that, you are just gonna make enemies
I would suggest gifting him a copy of NMMNG and WISNIFG. MMSLP maybe. You cant make him read it, but if he reads and is interested you can discuss more RP stuff with him

Title	What is the proper way to Red Pill new folk?
Author	AustralianArm
Upvotes	2
Comments	25
Date	March 10, 2017 5:56 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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