im pretty new to this game and game overall, insecure when it comes to women and getting laid. meaning, your results will almost definitely be better than mine. with that in mind, let's proceed.
first time ive done this, so, you can imagine the resistance and anxiety, nevertheless, it completely changed my perception on women. the act of approaching seemed like a disaster yesterday, today im an open minded man, confidence goes through the roof, maybe its temporary, maybe not.
u guys told me appearance matters. being an overweight (and slightly muscular) dude i am, i did my best to look decent. shaved head clean, trimmed/oiled beard, grabbed the fanciest coat/boots i have and went to my college yard where chicks hand around between lectures.
my goal was 20, first time, but fuck it, if i could do it, it would be a piece of cake after that. started approaching girls on benches who were reading shit but clearly werent interested in the material.
first five were like "eew, go away, im busy", i was like "ok dont be a bitch im leaving". i noticed a look of disappointment in one girls' eyes when i left without putting up the resistance. this bitch didnt want me to leave. shit testing me right off the bat? challenge accepted.
next ones were easy, made small talk like "what are u studying", "seeing u for the first time around here" etc. as long as she's laughing, u got a chance. i noticed that most of these girls are extremely insecure, so making jokes to get them comfortable around me worked best.
ofc the end game is to get their number, since im no expert in closing i tried different approaches. cutting off the conversation when shes having most fun and saing "gotta go, but i wanna continue our chat, hit me up with ur number" worked best.
hb6/hb7's were nice, hb5/hb8/hb9's were total bitches. hb5s out of insecurity (i guess) and hb9s out of, well, fuck em, gotta nail these bitches in the future.
overall, some girls were nice, but didnt give me their number, some left during the chat, others just kept laughing hysterically, kinda creepy. got 2 numbers (hb6 both) and one fb (hb7 with 3k followers, holy shit).
my 2 cents:
- most of them are insecure, her being a bitch has most likely nothing to do with u
- mood matters, if u wake up and ur in the zone, go for it, ur bitches will multiply (i did this today coz i felt awesome and manly in the morning, thanks noFap)
- they are incredibly stupid, some cant even get semi-sarcastic jokes, keep it casual at first or u risk getting them bitter
- lead all the way, get them talking, but ur the one who has to close, they wont make the last move, ever (unless u are hot as a stove)
- keep talking like ur doing them a favor by approaching, felt easier after first few tries. they are receptive to that, they pick up on that and try harder
- outcome independence (glad i read about that in archive last night), make urself believe that no matter how cute she is, you can walk away any second and chat up a better one. hard as fuck, but brings in most results
- they will shit test you all the time, with casual questions, by getting bitchy. i simply ignored whenever i didnt know how to pass em, kinda worked i guess
- they are not all high smv (even if they look pretty cute), they will give you a few last chances and let you fuck up if you are confident enough and put yourself as a decent dude
- not giving a shit is the key, the hottest one i closed was the last one, because i was tired, a bit frustrated and didnt give much of a shit
- u will feel pretty stupid after u start approaching. i was scared to death, of what? stupid creatures that cant even keep up with me in conversation? disappointing that i didnt try earlier.
- the confidence/energy it gives u is outstanding. i learnt so much after just 20 approaches (half of them ended in "go away" btw). feeling like if i stop doing it i will fall back to my older self. persistence is the key here i guess.
- so much fun, totally made me forget about my cheating ex gf
now for my questions:
some girls get bitchy, pull shit like "i have a boyfriend", "not willing to talk" or just walk away right after i approach and say hello. and i dont look like an ogre, believe me.
hot ones, hb9s are most bitchy, out of 4, none gave a chance to even talk. i was dressed pretty well and wasn't insecure in my approaches. are they immune to cold approaches? lol cant get my head around it
how to break through their defenses when she doesnt want me to leave, but keeps being a bitch, even after i stay calm and ignore the shit they're giving me. at what point do bitches stop this shit test and settle down for "ok, hes the real deal"?
whats a better playground for approaching women? im not into clubs, feels pretty weird when im there. are libraries ok? chatting up girls and closing on the streets must be very tough (when they're in their own world and dont care about u)
thats all, im sure i will do a better job tomorrow.