Has anyone been in a position where someone strongarmed you into ending it instead of saying it

buttercup_010 · 2020-08-27T23:04:48+00:00

It’s happened to me too. Manipulative, weak people do this. You’re better off without someone like this in your life.

ilostitireallylostit · 2020-08-27T23:25:55+00:00

He’s abusive. Save your pride and dignity and block him. You deserve much better!

eveninghope · 2020-08-28T00:33:38+00:00

I love this romanticized "you deserve better/one that got away" bullshit. It's their fucking fairytale they can tell themselves so they can wallow in self pity. So immature.

BrooklynBabe33 · 2020-08-28T00:22:20+00:00

Coward

basalganglia_ · 2020-08-28T02:38:58+00:00

He's absolutely abusive. NOTHING about you is off-putting, abusive people prey on empathetic and kind people actually. Stay strong and sending you love.

hikurangi2019 · 2020-08-28T00:00:34+00:00

Recently experienced this myself, it’s awful. I can relate :/ you’re better off without him, unfortunately it’s still gonna hurt ☹️

brittany20204 · 2020-08-28T02:49:45+00:00

He simply played you. Took advantage of you. I’ve been there and you did the right thing to move on. Now it’s time for you to focus on your dreams, focus on building yourself, and focus on being the best you. Guys like this don’t feel an ounce of remorse they are always looking for the bigger better deal because they insecure. I had a guy to do this for months came with the same lines accept i love you. He asked me if I loved him I said yes. That’s when he became more cold and distant. 6 months later he was in a relationship. I know it hurts but you dodged a bullet. Best of luck with your journey.

RiteWriter · 2020-08-28T00:04:00+00:00

He is playing his own broken record.

heleninthealps · 2020-08-28T07:20:48+00:00

Yep! I got "I'm not saying that we're never going to move in together in the future... I'm just saying this relationship has limitations...."

Me: What limitations?

Him: Moving in together or get married, that won't happen ...

Me: So... we're ending this then?

Him: No... that's not what I said, i just said that this relationship has limitations. :) You're a good girlfriend and this is a good relationship, it will just... not go anywhere further.

Me: So... it's over.

Him: Nooooo..... it just..... has limitations.

Me: (Laughing inside of confusion) Ehhhmmm.... so ok then we will break up.

Him: If that's what you want and you are sure?

(After 20 months together)

7Cuervos · 2020-08-28T18:20:20+00:00

Only weak people do this. He aint worth your time.

Title	Has anyone been in a position where someone strongarmed you into ending it instead of saying it
Author	Apprehensive_Prune21
Upvotes	43
Comments	11
Date	August 27, 2020 8:28 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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