In that women expect most High-SMV men to be exciting and stimulating vs. boring (self-improvement). I'm able to constantly, consistently engage myself with the second. How do these two reconcile? Should "self-improvement" include dedication to more conventionally exciting hobbies?
I'm assuming tight game---> that covers an aspect of exciting/stimulating that I'm not talking about.
Why is self-improvement boring for you?
I don't find it boring at all. I'm referring to others' perception of the above, and what's considered "exciting" (which is undeniably important to Game)
girls want the final product bro, not the marathon
^ Several comments have said this.
The marathon is never ending---but whenever a girl checks you out, she sees a final product. The question is how to make that final appearance look as interesting as possible (even if it already is), when the self-improvement process itself looks disciplined and boring (in a way)?
Frame's wrong, hot stuff. Don't be givin fucks about others' opinions, man.
^ Few have said this as well. I don't do stuff unless I choose to, want to. The fact remains, women are hot---and I want in, literally.
Girls often prefer fun hobbies in male. Some men, too, would probably recommend I branch out into more fun hobbies. I somewhat agree with that, but I don't know to what extent yet. Trying to figure that out.
tldr: FUUUUCCKKKKKK (For real tho. I've had this thought in mind for a while, and this discussion really helped me nail down what I want to do).