I'm starting to think women can detect your sex life

WoahScienceCool · 2014-10-16T01:00:58+00:00

Not true.

When I was a 20 year old virgin with no experience, as I finally started breaking out of my shell, girls at the time all thought I was a huge player and had loads of women on call despite having literally zero experience. It was bizarre. One even said she saw me with a hickey when I was kissless at the time. The powers of "fake it till you make it" are practically superhuman sometimes.

Glad to have finally overcome such a confusing and awkward time in my life though.

markasstrick123 · 2014-10-15T23:17:21+00:00

You're overthinking this. Women can't read your mind or have some special smelling powers. The problem is that you get nervous and they can tell. when you're getting some you're right in a girls face and your Dick is in her, so simply approaching another one is nothing.

It's like deadlifting 405# then being afraid to do 135#.

re-rebuild · 2014-10-16T03:51:04+00:00

Your frame is lacking actual abundance.

yummyluckycharms · 2014-10-16T01:04:38+00:00

Too many crazy theories are floating around this thread right now. A woman cannot sense whether or not you've had sex, whether you banged a girl just before seeing her or if you made sweet love to your hand the night before. You can spank the monkey 5 times a day or do nothing for weeks, it doesnt matter. Nor should it - if you think about it logically and from an evolutionary perspective.

What they can sense is when you come off as being overly needy. You're probably coming off as being very thirsty and women are not attracted by this. Care less, approach more and profit.

dicklord_airplane · 2014-10-16T00:04:34+00:00

yep, i noticed that as well by the time i was 16. even girls who hated me treated me better once i got a great girlfriend and was getting laid all the time. women can't help but feel more positively towards men who have already attained approval of other women. they can't help but feel repulsed by men who have not won any approval from other women.

it's so obvious in your daily life once you understand it. it's why women give carte blanche to rockstars and celebrities even if those guys are wife beaters or just plain scum. i mean, Beyonce calls herself a feminist, but then she married a former crack dealing, possibly murdering gangster who hit the big time by rapping about bitches and hoes. same shit with Rihanna. remember how the lead singer for that rock band lost prophets turned out to be a fucking child molester, and how tons of his groupies knew about it over the years and never ratted him out? women can become literally crazy over guys if there's proof that lots of other women want them.

IVIaskerade · 2014-10-15T22:36:51+00:00

Quite possibly. (Everything after this is conjecture for which I have no proof, and I'm not going to look for any at this hour.)

Pheromones are pretty important to humans, and it's possible that a man who gets a lot of sex has different pheromones to one who doesn't, due to various hormones being released into the body at different times.

It might be that they can literally smell that you're not getting much. Of course, it's more subtle than that in practice, but there could be something tripping an unconcious switch in their brains from "gets a lot => high value mate => attempt to lock down" to "doesn't get much/any => lower value"

WarmApfelPi · 2014-10-16T00:20:55+00:00

Women will extrapolate about it out of your behaviors. Something you are doing is turning them off. Try only focusing on only one gal for a max of like 15 minutes and move to the next. Just enough time for a couple touches and laughs to establish an interest.

stillnoturday · 2014-10-16T02:54:43+00:00

I think this is a you trying to hard which makes you think that. Relax don't be so outcome dependant and seeking their validation.

The_Americano · 2014-10-16T12:41:39+00:00

If that's the case you might have to go get yourself an escort. Report back on your scientific findings!

relationshipdownvote · 2014-10-16T14:33:50+00:00

Guppies can, it's likely human women can as well. The ability to "freeload" off of other women's sexual selection is an extremely valueble skill as it allows a female to judge a potential mate's quality much quicker.

Now that said, it's only really likely that they would be able to smell "success", not failure. Additionally their ability to tell if other women have mated with you doesn't prevent them from vetting you themselves, so go out there with confidence and high SMV and you should be able to get that ball rolling, then you can take advantage of guppy syndrome to keep it rolling that much easier.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-10-16T15:45:24+00:00

Women have a 6th sense about thirst for pussy. They can probably smell it. This is well established and one of the bases for "fake it until you make it."

Space-Boy · 2014-10-16T16:49:29+00:00

I've been branded as a playboy by women just by them looking at my face. But that usually works in my favor as they know what my intentions are.

kanaduhisfruityeh · 2014-10-16T17:14:10+00:00

Nofap might make it worse. When women sense desperation they reject.

Sandkasten · 2014-10-15T23:19:59+00:00

Women detect this because you are sending this vibe. I don't know what it is, probably something really subtle, but you are showing neediness.

23490865243879526487 · 2014-10-15T23:25:37+00:00

Not getting any for a long time causes you to behave more beta as you become more horny, desperate and willing to do things you normally wouldn't to get some. Maybe you are subconsciously showing signs of desperation. Also unless the science on that has changed recently not ejaculating for more than a couple of days is not at all good for your prostate. Try using porn every other day for science.

SkorchZang · 2014-10-16T00:45:01+00:00

You're onto a definite thing there. I figure they can indeed smell it; the nosey information is somehow filed away for her future use. Though it may never become a conscious fact for the woman, it still alters her behavior toward the man.

Whatever the case is, there's absolutely a pattern that when you're "on a roll", you're practically beating them off with a stick, every woman wants you. But fall into a bit of a dry spell, and suddenly they're all turning their cute nose up at you.

RedPillSafe · 2014-10-16T00:45:32+00:00

I'm trying to use an "owner / pet" analogy here.

If you are an owner and want your pet to do something then you need to be clear of what your orders are but at the same time you need to project a calm authority.

My thinking is that your sexual tension (testosterone) is running rather high and when you attempt to be in control it's coming off as too tense.

I doubt it's lack of confidence, but more an excess of energy.

You need to relax.

Women assume that an Alpha gets orgasm when needed so "at most" they figure you might go a week without it.

Betas will fap every day and women sense that too.

3 months is kind of off their radar, they probably don't know what is "wrong" but it's just enough to make them hesitate.

Fear might be making them see you as more desperate and dangerous than Alpha.

I'd suggest going to a bar and have a beer... that increases your estrogen (taking some of the edge off) and then find some girls to get with.

High testosterone and estrogen is good blend.

Beer goggles makes it easier too.

teeelo · 2014-10-16T01:00:40+00:00

How much are you fapping?

Try abstaining.

2014-10-16T05:08:48+00:00

When you're getting laid on the daily, you gave off a different vibe. Now you probably seem eager when you get approached or check them out more than you used to, probably even your body language has changed. They can't tell your sex life, but they can tell desperation/thirst.

tenthirtyone1031 · 2014-10-16T13:40:09+00:00

It's way easier to realize it's you instead of everyone else.

cellularresp · 2014-10-16T16:36:48+00:00

I'm going through a dry spell (about 3 months) and it's the longest I've had in a few years. I don't watch porn or masturbate. I work out. I don't have money problems. I have a car.

Sometimes I feel like this sub has way too much bragplaining

2014-10-16T20:34:19+00:00

I swear, every time I start talking to a chick in a more serious way, all of a sudden girls I haven't talked to in a forever start popping out if the woodwork and contacting me. Even if I've made no indication on Facebook or anything that I'm seeing anybody. But then when its dry, its hella dry. I just chock it up to vibes. I can't figure a reason for it besides hippy vibes. Kind of helps actually- when i cant seem to get any action, I'm just like 'well, must be the down cycle. I'll just sweep the floors, restock items, keep busy. If the past is any indication of the future, then somebody will hit me up out of nowhere and business will pick up again when its time. Just like any gas station owner will tell you- it'll be dead dead dead, and then out of nowhere like seven people will come in all at once. Like when you get a feeling you need to call somebody really bad, and then you do and find out some crazy shit. Like they were contemplating suicide or something, and then you just happened to call. I mean, we're all emanating electricity and shit. There's water vapors in the air, maybe it carries our frequencies and electropheremones and whatnot. I don't know. Can't prove it, but I bet you can't totally scientifically disprove it. Makes sense to me, and it keeps my brain from logically overthinking and worrying and planning and stressing. Not that I don't do that too. Just remember- stoke dem VIBEZZZ lol

oldredder · 2014-10-17T05:21:39+00:00

Seems obvious you showed more confidence when you were with women. Once upon a time I was like that, more girls had attraction to me when I was with a girl.

Then I got into hard drugs, crazy life, all done now, but at the time I was far more devoted to morphine than pussy. It's a stronger addiction by far & by breaking it I broke the pussy addiction too. I can enjoy it but I'll never be ruled by it. My neurotransmitters have been completely rewired and all the pleasure-centers and pain-tolerances of the brain, spine, muscles, everything. It's like a brand new body not borne of the weaknesses of the 1.0 version.

During the bad-boy phase the pussy was throwing itself at me because I was bad.

Later the attraction still shows because now I'm aloof all the time. I really well and truly don't give a fuck because the part of the neural wiring & psychology that did... has been erased chemically.

Women can sense if you're aloof or not, confident or not, satisfied or not, and will make up their own reasons for it. At work when I was new quite a lot of people outright assumed I was married but I don't have a ring on my finger. I don't carry myself the way a single pussy-beggar would - but since most people are expecting that or a confident man who's got a wife or LTR the last thing they assume is a confident single man who outright gives zero fucks.

That's what I am.

You can be too. You don't have to put morphine in your arm for 10 years like I did. Just remember what you did, how you carried/presented yourself with a girl. Once that same satisfaction with life, confidence, how you dress & groom yourself all match up again you'll see the attention return.

Lu_the_Mad · 2014-10-18T01:01:23+00:00

It's probably your raging boner when you creep on them.

Go get ripped and then to take a yoga class or some shit at a skinny fat gym like planet fitness. Many of the ladies in those classes want to look good but are to lazy to do actual workouts. If you can't find easy pussy there you might need to re-evaluate.

Aiadon · 2014-10-18T02:58:31+00:00

You are actually letting out signals and that happens because you actually make a deal out of it. You may not realize, but it's quite easy to notice how someone is feeling about himself.

Title	I'm starting to think women can detect your sex life
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Date	October 15, 2014 10:29 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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