Bluepill example 10 Things Husbands Should Never Do in Their Marriage

[deleted] · 2014-04-12T19:36:26+00:00

How to make your wife lose every ounce of respect she ever had for you.

lowtide100 · 2014-04-12T19:29:37+00:00

That has to be satire.

GayLubeOil · 2014-04-12T19:57:40+00:00

What an interesting article! So very interesting that husbands have to hold themselves to these high moral standards where as women are free to do whatever the fuck they want. A gender neutral 10 things not to do in a marriage would have been cool, but nope. Women don't hold themselves to any standard the'll say and do anything that fits their interest. There are no rules in a relationship besides: don't get married.

QuazarTRP · 2014-04-12T19:30:37+00:00

I am surprised. I did not know there were people so far down on the end of the blue spectrum.

Haha I like the comment someone left there: "looking forward to 'the 10 things wives should never do in their marriage'."

carrotcake4 · 2014-04-12T19:51:12+00:00

Despite it all, number one is still true.

If your wife does something so horrible that you can't forgive her (cheating/ drug addiction/ abuse/ etc) , then divorce.

But holding grudges is going to make the marriage/ your lives a living hell for both of you. If you resent her for something she did in the past (apart from cheating/abuse/ drug addiction/etc) then you and her will both become miserable and angry and bitter people.

[deleted] · 2014-04-13T13:20:37+00:00

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[deleted] · 2014-04-13T00:37:40+00:00

I agree with #10. As their father, you are not babysitting by any stretch of the definition - you are being a parent.

[deleted] · 2014-04-12T23:03:45+00:00

"When she asks, “What did you do today at work?” Don’t say, “Nothing!” instead, give her all the details."

Ha! What bullocks, a total projection. What OP (she) really means is say, "Nothing, how was YOUR DAY?" So then she can give YOU all her bullshit details.

1701ncc · 2014-04-12T20:13:09+00:00

The more you compliment a women the less value/power it has. supply and demand

evergonitenitenigga · 2014-04-12T22:34:49+00:00

reading that pissed me off a little. is this normal redpill side effect or do i have anger issues.

bradyo2 · 2014-04-12T19:37:38+00:00

This genuinely made me feel ill

FloranHunter · 2014-04-13T00:50:49+00:00

NEVER be critical of your wife in public. There is NEVER an excuse for this. If you have an issue with your wife, discuss it with her, not your buddies at the golf course.

For a given value of "public", this isn't bad advice. Unfortunately that value is not "your buddies at the golf course."

NEVER refer to keeping your own children as “babysitting.” They’re your kids and you are their father … it’s not babysitting, it’s called being a father.

Isn't this overwhelmingly a female habit? Anyway, I don't see how it would mess up or help a marriage.

rporion · 2014-04-12T19:04:23+00:00

My response:

I say it stays up for less than a day, I offer one rep point for anyone who is more precise:

No problem

Dont get fat
Never let my dick go unsucked.
Dont try to manipulate me sexually or emotionally.
I pay most of the bills, show some appreciation.
You chose me because you "could look up to me". That means I look down on you. Therefore this is not a democracy, I lead, you follow.
Never nag. I dont reward shitty behavior.
Be pleasant! Can you do that? Do you even know what it means!?!
Dont dress better for people you dont care about than for the man you supposedly love.
Learn how to cook goddammit!!
Dont get fat, learn how to do blowjobs (yes I know, nobody ever complained, trust me, you suck at it. no pun intended) , learn how to wear a dress, keep your heels on in bed, learn how to cook and STOP NAGGING Q%&$§"""!!!!!

As long as we are keeping it real.....

Oh, and dont frivorce and take half of my stuff and the kids, that would be awesome,

[deleted] · 2014-04-13T00:08:58+00:00

In with the air, out with the lie

[deleted] · 2014-04-13T03:51:02+00:00

"Women should be treated like high-maintenance lap dogs who will shit themselves if you don't always love them at all times forever!"

and

"Women are independent, you're just holding us back! Don't get in our way, men, because women have all the power and don't need you!"

are contradictory and every woman should be ashamed that a list such as that exists.

rp3k99 · 2014-04-13T03:51:02+00:00

Written with good intent but so obviously by a woman! As a woman myself I am continuously amazed at how we don't know shit about what we really need in relationships. We think we want these things but if you gave them all to us we wouldn't be attracted to you anymore, most women just don't know this.

[deleted] · 2014-04-13T12:42:25+00:00

Dude, the title is wrong. This should be "10 things wives should never do in their marriage".

[deleted] · 2014-04-12T23:53:11+00:00

Churchian White-Knightery and Cunt-kissing.

2. NEVER plop your fat rear-end down in a chair after work without first asking your wife if she needs some help with something. Just because your workday has ended, doesn’t mean you can’t still help with hers. Run a vacuum, load the dishwasher, help put the kids to bed, etc. It’s your house too. Get up and do something to help.

If you work all day to support your wife and kids, and your wife is a SAHM, when you get home, the vacuuming, laundry, and dishes better be done already. Just saying. I just got home from work, while she's been at home all day, why am I automatically the fat and lazy one?

3 NEVER be critical of your wife in public. There is NEVER an excuse for this. If you have an issue with your wife, discuss it with her, not your buddies at the golf course.

Fine, makes sense, and I've never talked down to chicks I'm with in public, save for light flirting and teasing. But chicks blab about EVERYTHING to EVERYONE (all her girlfriends know how often you fart, how big your dick is, how good you are in the sack, and of course that you're always the asshole and everything is your fault all the time always), and if my wife were to disrespect ME in public she would find herself without a ride home.

5 NEVER stop pursuing your wife. Work as hard everyday to keep her as you did to win her before you were married. Things like sending flowers, holding hands, leaving notes, etc. It’s called affection. Those things should NEVER end. One of the things you can do is date your wife (at least once a week). One of the worst things you can do for your marriage is not investing any “alone time” as a husband and wife. Find a sitter and take your wife out for supper.

This one is actually true. I had a friend whose (now ex) wife cheated because she felt "lonely" while he was working 4 different jobs to support her ass and put her through vet school. He learned in the aftermath that you have to keep "wooing" your wife during your marriage, that you literally have to put in the same amount of effort day after day that you put into her at the beginning of the courtship. (And, let me tell you, he was a THIRSTY bluebeta, so flowers, gifts, the whole 9 yards). Otherwise, she sees the decreased attention as a threat and goes looking for attention and validation elsewhere.

Solution to this is not to invest a whole lot at the beginning of the relationship. Give her plate status with opportunity for advancement in the company. Don't directly hire her as CEO right out of the gate with a six figure salary, stock options, expense acount, and severance package.

7 NEVER EVER say something critical about your wife’s new haircut. There are a few things women take VERY serious, and their hair style is one of them. Being critical about your wife’s new hair style will only lead to the doghouse, sofa or both.

Oh, if my wife came home one day having chopped all of her beautiful hair off, she WILL know exactly how I feel.

9 NEVER invest more time into your hobbies or occupation than your marriage and family. Your marriage should be FIRST priority, your family second and then your occupation and hobbies. Don’t be dumb enough to put your marriage and family on the back burner and later regret it.

It's called "having a mission", and women find it very sexy and powerfully attractive. If your wife knows she's the most important thing in your life, she'll look for a better branch to swing to. BTW, why are "marriage" and "family" listed as separate entities? Your wife is your family.

smokeybehr · 2014-04-12T20:45:57+00:00

Thanks for my "Dafuq?" moment of the day AKA YHGTBSM. Talk about the deep dark blue pill this guy has going.

Olipyr · 2014-04-13T01:39:15+00:00

I can appreciate numbers 1 and 10 and somewhat number 5.

AgentSmith27 · 2014-04-13T04:11:35+00:00

I agree with #5,#9 and #10.... and they apply to both sexes.

zyk0s · 2014-04-13T17:24:17+00:00

6. [...] You can’t over-praise your wife. [...] No wife has ever said, “I don’t like it when you say nice things about me.”

But we all know here this is absolutely false. There is such a thing as over-praising, there is such a thing as being "too nice" and there are many, many wives who have complained about it.

HeadingRed · 2014-04-14T22:00:17+00:00

Hmmmm, can we flip this and say "10 things wives should never do"

Hamster 'sploding in 3....2....1

[deleted] · 2014-04-13T01:06:24+00:00

God i can't even read the text it is so white.

[deleted] · 2014-04-13T01:20:50+00:00

"NEVER invest more time into your hobbies or occupation than your marriage and family. Your marriage should be FIRST priority, your family second and then your occupation and hobbies. Don’t be dumb enough to put your marriage and family on the back burner and later regret it."

You could do that. Or you know, you can prioritize the hobbies / career / dream, and lead an interesting life, unlike every single man who puts maintaining his wife's needs first. When in doubt, put your relationship on the back burner, work on you, and then if she can't deal with that, you've just saved yourself the trouble of further time-waste.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-04-13T04:16:55+00:00

You are critical of your wife when and where it is necessary. Rarely is that in public but it just might be. The point is this writer has no idea what women find attractive. This was painful reading. It had to be a woman! Any man who follows this will find his woman is not sexually attracted to him inside of a week. Bowing down to her will make her increasingly hostile and erratic as she loses the tingles.

At least the advice for women was better but in that case I agree the omission of proper blowjob technique and enthusiasm ruined the entire piece.

the_fluffy_one_ · 2014-04-13T00:37:21+00:00

On the whole, this sounds like decent advice. Talk to your wife about the things you do, help out around the house, keep the romance alive, don't be vindictive, put your family first and look after the kids. The only ones I actually take issue with are 3,7,8 as there will be times when something is so wrong that you need to comment on it. It's surprising how close to RP the wife list is (also how closely related the two lists are...)

Title	Bluepill example 10 Things Husbands Should Never Do in Their Marriage
Author	Votrrex
Upvotes	34
Comments	69
Date	April 12, 2014 6:42 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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3 NEVER be critical of your wife in public. There is NEVER an excuse for this. If you have an issue with your wife, discuss it with her, not your buddies at the golf course.

7 NEVER EVER say something critical about your wife’s new haircut. There are a few things women take VERY serious, and their hair style is one of them. Being critical about your wife’s new hair style will only lead to the doghouse, sofa or both.

9 NEVER invest more time into your hobbies or occupation than your marriage and family. Your marriage should be FIRST priority, your family second and then your occupation and hobbies. Don’t be dumb enough to put your marriage and family on the back burner and later regret it.