10 tips for dating a single mom

Yurwrstntmre · 2014-01-10T15:14:11+00:00

or just remember one tip instead of 10:

Don't.

PerniciousOne · 2014-01-10T16:00:51+00:00

This deluded single mom, believes she has the same SMV as she had as a hot 18 year old. She thinks that she could do better than a nice beta lawyer?? At 31 she has past her expiration date, and has children. Geez.

I would never date a woman with children, maybe a widow, but not a single woman by choice.

Daddy45 · 2014-01-10T16:47:26+00:00

It was a blind date, and the guy was nice and all, but I probably won’t go on a second date with him.

A couple of years later, after a bottle of chardonnay, she'll be desperately trying to track him down on Facebook.

I’m a heckuva lot pickier this time around, because it’s not just me anymore.

Such an attractive quality. "I have way more baggage than before. Despite that, I expect you to jump through even more hoops."

otisofro · 2014-01-10T15:46:29+00:00

Do
Not
Consider
Dating
A
Single
Mom
Of
Any
Children

There's your 10

attaxx · 2014-01-10T15:55:57+00:00

Don’t expect sex on the first date: I’m a mom. I know where babies come from. The end.

Translation: I already got knocked up, now my bad decisions in life forced me to look for a provider.

Clauderoughly · 2014-01-10T18:32:57+00:00

Tip Well - I want you to show me you have cash I can leech off you, as I treat you as a walking ATM.
Don't Ask about my ex - I don't want to be reminded of all the bad boy alpha cock I could be riding, instead of having to settle for you.
And never defend him - Don't try and make my Ex out to be anything like you. You'll ruin the tingles I have for him. I secretly think you're pathetic.
Do ask me questions about my kids - I want you to get attached to my kids, so it makes it easier to suck money out of you while giving you as little sex as possible.
Don’t ask when you can meet them - I want full control in this relationship, and I am not sure I can overcome my sheer contempt for you just yet.
Do ask to see pictures of my kids. See 5
Enjoy your work - Make a lot of money and enjoy what you do, as you are going to be working a LOT of overtime to pay for me and my alpha spawn...... sucker.
Act interested in what I do too. - None of the alphas who I fucked cared, but I want to make you work for this pussy, because again... I have a deep seated contempt for you, and the longer we talk about other stuff at dinner, the longer I don't have to think about the revolting thought of having to give you average, mediocre sex
Don’t expect sex on the first date. - No sex until you have laid out a shit load of money for me beta bitch, and even then you are going to get anything other than very average, missionary. I only do the kinky stuff with my alphas.
Be yourself - Fully demonstrate your beta-ness ! I need to know how to manipulate and bleed you dry, in the shortest time possible, so I can get back to fucking my alpha baby daddy ASAP !

itzth3d00d · 2014-01-10T15:23:13+00:00

all the best red pill comics, Patrice O'neill, Bill Burr, etc address this exact issue : women can't tell you why or how only what. "My ex husband is an abusive jerk". "Well, why did you two fight so badly". "Because he is an abusive jerk". The end is the means, correlation is causation, their is no lead up or reason only the fact(feeling). This article echoes these statements totally. "Don't ask me about my marriage, don't ask me about my ex". Also, Tip well and no sex on the first date, from a single mom. I'm in a LTR but if I was single again and on a date with a single mom my age (which I would just never, ever do) she should put out before I spend money on her. This article is beta provider hunting for single moms 101.

zyk0s · 2014-01-10T19:01:46+00:00

I feel the need to mention Sailer's Law of Female Journalism and to point out this broad has her own category at Dalrock's.

TL;DR: Jenny Erickson is a christian blogger who loves God and her family so much that she ignores her marriage vows and detonates her family, and chronicles every single step for the world to see. She then realizes her internet reputation, her age and especially the fact she has kids do not make her very desirable in the eyes of men. Finally, she starts writing advice columns directed at men to convince them of how awesome she and her fellow single mommies are.

karmasutur3 · 2014-01-10T20:04:25+00:00

I'm probably the only man here that wants a single mom. I do have limits (no more than one kid). But I'm a single dad and I would like my daughter to have a mom some day. Women with out kids just dont get what my life is like.

Daddy45 · 2014-01-10T17:32:11+00:00

Read the comments. Running heavily against the author.

After you've been on your 100th first date, you're going to regret that you didn't agree to at least a second date with a man who is nice, cute, hard-working, and aced many of your unspoken Rules. Instead you'll be crying to your girlfriends about how all the good guys are taken.

All these rules just to be number (n+2) in your life? Do the math. No thanks.

Too many women have an unconscious life strategy of getting pregnant by a bad boy, then marrying a good guy to take care of her and the kids. Why would a nice guy play this game? This is literally a cuckoo idea.

Perrodepaz · 2014-01-10T15:16:40+00:00

Make sure you read the comment section. The author is getting some pushback.

Or better yet, leave a comment

wrez · 2014-01-10T20:01:19+00:00

I hate when I read shit telling men how to behave, obviously written by women looking to milk a man of his time, money, and ego.

Crackerjacksurgeon · 2014-01-10T19:58:54+00:00

Translation.

1) Show me how beta you are.

2) Don't ask how bad of a decision maker I am

3) Be on my side no matter what, beta

4) You need some basic information to be a good wallet.

5) Remain a wallet.

6) Seriously, remain a wallet, but here's an emotional hook.

7) Prove how beta you are by being a perfectly content corporate slave. And don't burden me with the thought of what it costs you to provide for my spawn.

8) I'm interesting, gimme attention!

9) Be beta.

10) Be very, very beta.

EDIT: I like how one of you already reposted my response here in that comment thread.

RainingDown1 · 2014-01-10T16:23:28+00:00

1) dont 2 ohh no wait thats it.

trudatness · 2014-01-10T20:19:04+00:00

In case the article was TL DR; Here's the short version:

I have baby-daddy-momma-drama baggage from hell, but my hamster is deluding me into believing I'm still a special snowflake that belongs up on a pedestal.... Here are my demands:

Bullshit, bullshit, bullshit...

Cyralea · 2014-01-10T21:58:19+00:00

Chick is a 5 at most

Unattractive, old single mom wants a rock solid 10 alpha. Hope your kid likes cats lady, I see a lot of them in your future.

Lord_Perseus · 2014-01-10T17:10:24+00:00

You want 10 tips for dating a single Mom?

Don't
Don't
Don't
Don't
Don't
Don't
Don't
Don't
Don't
Fucking DON'T !

trudatness · 2014-01-10T19:38:48+00:00

Come on, guys, it's okay to date single mothers. I mean, they don't want a new man to be a dad to their kids, they're strong enough, the kids will love you and not resent you at all, you won't need to spend any money on them because their real daddy is footing the bill, she'll always make time for the two of you, you won't be left out, and ultimately it'll all be worth it and you won't have any regrets- er, hang on.

POOR_IMPULSE_CONTR0L · 2014-01-10T21:43:40+00:00

DAE get turned on by the idea of vigorously fucking a young mom from behind while she moans in pleasure with her eyes closed. Then, through the cracked open door her son sees you, and you just look him dead in the eye as you pump away with a fistful of his moms hair in your hand and as you stare think, "that's right, I'm six inches deep into everything you hold dear and I am pounding it like an animal. And you just smile at him."

Doctor_Mayhem · 2014-01-10T22:34:14+00:00

Heh... this one was ultimate lulz

Don’t expect sex on the first date

Ha! Protip: They almost always put out on the first date.

That, and the lulz you get from nexting them are the only reasons to even bother.

cagethepepper · 2014-01-10T16:30:51+00:00

Thank god for this article. Such a life-saver.

pwrfull · 2014-01-10T19:27:00+00:00

I was raised by an Alpha single mom. If you as a man have children yourself, the choice is yours to date a single mom. If you don't have children yourself, avoid single moms.

thedanielmasterson · 2014-01-10T18:32:22+00:00

Guys guys guys. You can safely date single moms. Its no big deal, just dont fall into the provider trap bullshit. Make her carry her own weight. Her life experience, her ability to be self sufficient can make her a better partner than some floozy.

Source: Dating a single mom, not in the provider role.

PlusGoody · 2014-01-11T01:41:56+00:00

The sad part is that this works. There is NO LACK of 30-something guys with good incomes who have been Stolckholm-syndromed into thinking this is what they deserve ... worst part is that many of them enjoyed years of beautiful fun loving girlfriends when younger and lost the balls to stick with it.

mighty_mogomra · 2014-01-10T19:54:33+00:00

Let me give you my one tip you need to know for dating a single mom:

Don't.

Some Light Reading for your enjoyment.

Meglomaniac · 2014-01-10T23:57:15+00:00

Dating a mom with another mans child is like playing someone elses save game.

Dont waste your time unless she is a fucking unicorn and a HB10

carrotplanter · 2014-01-10T18:32:17+00:00

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LastRevision · 2014-01-11T06:06:50+00:00

Non-my space angle: http://www.jennyerikson.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/Jenny-and-Ashley-July-2012.jpg

It's worse than you think...

phathack · 2014-01-11T06:31:38+00:00

If you're old guy like me then the rules change.

If the kid(s) are over 18 and don't live with mom then OK otherwise NO WAY.

Title	10 tips for dating a single mom
Author	Perrodepaz
Upvotes	31
Comments	82
Date	January 10, 2014 3:08 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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