Empowered woman way past the wall tries to understand why she's single. Hamstering ensues.

LaserSoundMusic · 2013-09-04T12:51:28+00:00

if the women that spoke like this were men, they would be called arrogant pretentious materialistic assholes.

Whisper · 2013-09-04T11:55:39+00:00

I don't to read the article at all. I just look at the pictures. I see pictures of a woman who looks like she's made of leather, dressed and acting like a 20 year old.

If you act like a 20 year old girl, but you no longer look like one, well... why wouldn't I just have a 20 year old girl instead of you?

delta_hedge · 2013-09-04T11:20:59+00:00

this is a perfect example of what happens when you tell women constantly to compete with men.

men dont compete with women. men compete with other men - over women.

TRPsubmitter · 2013-09-04T14:31:04+00:00

I like how this woman TRIES to start off by being democratic and all-inclusive, but lo and behold the giant hamster comes out almost immediately thereafter:

[women have] brains, beauty, bodies, personality, success et al. Maybe that's it! We have it all and that is just too much for most men! ...I am always told I intimidate men.

How the fuck do these hamsters make up a reason for their situation that is actually the EXACT opposite of reality? In reality, they no longer satisfy what men want/need in a woman, so instead they tell themselves they are actually too good for men? Meanwhile, their male peers don't want them at all and don't even notice these career women because they are too busy dating 25 year olds. It's telling when you claim to be "better" than and "intimidate" men, yet you still want them.

But glad to see she comes around:

This summer, I finally decided I wanted 'off the train'. I want a more meaningful life with a nice life partner. But I may have gotten off too late and missed my station. My marketability with men has diminished. I am an aging boomer. My male counterparts want young eye candy.

Bingo

RedBigMan · 2013-09-04T15:03:59+00:00

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TRIGGER__WARNING · 2013-09-04T09:28:31+00:00

It's interesting because there are some valid points of introspection. She understands that the men she wants... want younger women. She understands that having a career and education are also unattractive to men.

But then she hamsters and talks about her wild youth and her greatly embellished lovers. She thinks she has it all and that's what intimidates men. She also mentions how all her strong, independent lady friends can't get married either. I guess today's men just aren't prepared for such a responsibility... (/s)

The part I love the most is when she's talking about her successful, fit male friends and how they're single. She doesn't seem to grasp the fact that they're most likely single because they understand their value, not because they're unable to find a partner.

EDIT: I missed this gem:

So why are all these beautiful babes still single? And where are all the "real men" who want "real women"? That is the million dollar question. Please write me if you have the answers.

I guess women who stay at home aren't real women...or ones who marry early... or every other women that didn't ride the carousel way over the wall.

Kepaso · 2013-09-04T10:27:06+00:00

Whenever a woman says she's "intimidating" read annoying and self absorbed. I don't get these women that say they're a great catch then read off their résumé. Why does this seem like a good idea.

Nutz76 · 2013-09-04T19:37:07+00:00

I am not referring to just any women, but some extraordinary women. Women who have it all: brains, beauty, bodies, personality, success et al. Maybe that's it! We have it all and that is just too much for most men!

This has to be one of the most blatant examples of women being delusional I've seen. The hamster is strong with this one. Men aren't intimidated by women like this, they avoid them because they're difficult, and that's putting it nicely.

I am always told I intimidate men.

I'll bet dollars to donuts it's not men telling her this.

I met a lot of great men along the way through my work and single life in NYC. I had a blast back then. Those were the days when one night stands were de rigeur and social diseases like VD and aids had not hit the pavement yet. Life was free and easy. Studio 54 was at the height of its glory.

And she wonders why she's single. By her own admission she was too busy riding the cock carousel to settle down and form real lasting relationships.

This summer, I finally decided I wanted 'off the train'. I want a more meaningful life with a nice life partner. But I may have gotten off too late and missed my station. My marketability with men has diminished. I am an aging boomer.

Gee, ya think? At least she's somewhat introspective in recognizing the sexual marketplace for what it is. Or maybe not...

Fast forward to South Beach, a sexy town for singles. Here I befriended a wild and crazy, but lovable Colombian babe and former Miss Colombia who also never walked down the aisle. And more recently, I have become buddies with a Miami based couture designer from Albania and a former fit model. She too never said her vows to a man. And yet another super sexy friend from Milan who does high finance deals with big boys from Europe and the Middle East flies solo. She too turns men's heads in any room she enters and still has not taken one for keeps. Oh, and a Russian vixen/former fitness model in Miami also scares away the men with her icy attitude.

She says all this as if these are positive qualities men look for. Bitchy ice queens? Nope. Hotties who think they're too good for, and god's gift to men? Nope.

So why are all these beautiful babes still single? And where are all the "real men" who want "real women"?

Because of your own fucked up standards and head full of bad wiring. Nowhere in any of this did I read about her sweet personality, how she treats men more than anything besides a glorified sex toy, and what she brings to the table that men don't already have in spades. Her own downfall is the feminist lie that women of high status are attractive the way men of high status are attractive to women. That my friends is projection.

xstarxstar · 2013-09-04T15:00:07+00:00

WTF did I just read?

The headline to the article: "Why Are Some Of The Best Baby Boomer Women Still Single?"

At first, it appears a mystery to her...

I am wondering why us boomer babes stayed single.

Then she goes on to describe how she rode the carousel during her prime years using guys as her toys. And now she's too old to get the good guys...all of whom in her age bracket can get younger/prettier girls who haven't spent 20 years banging.

Her answer to her single plight:

Maybe that's it! We have it all and that is just too much for most men!...I am always told I intimidate men....I never quite learned how to 'dumb it down'.

You must be kidding. That's the answer? LOL...anytime a girl says she can't act dumb enough to be attractive, you know she's BSC.

For her middle age single guy friends, the answer for their lack of marriage:

These guys are all smart, successful, fit and fun and I think just have been having too much fun traveling the world and leading the good life to settle down or settle.

It's not that they "intimidate" women or some other stupid excuse....it's simply that they've chosen to play free instead of committing.

nojustice1 · 2013-09-04T14:51:57+00:00

"I was the breadwinner and had no interest in 'settling down'." - I won't settle for anyone not up to my delusional standards. She found a great guy that accepted her but he wasn't good enough.

"Those were the days when one night stands were de rigeur ... Life was free and easy." - Not bragging but I was a slut when I was younger and now that I'm all worn out I want someone to grow old with.

Oh the irony, "No patriarch figure has been found for her." I love that "feminist" want to destroy the patriarchy and traditional family until they are old and single.

redpilldude · 2013-09-04T14:07:36+00:00

This woman has no clue about what men want in a gf. She honestly thinks that having a college degree from an elite university and a good career will attract a man. LOL.

2013-09-04T16:28:23+00:00

These guys are all smart, successful, fit and fun and I think just have been having too much fun traveling the world and leading the good life to settle down or settle.

The arrogance is enraging! She impunes men for not giving up and settling (in order to make the lives of her cohorts easier), when she herself refuses to settle despite being a used up husk of a woman! Un-fucking-real.

2013-09-04T15:43:20+00:00

Kinda reminiscent of the thread posted by the 30 year old party girl in AskMen last week... Except that the woman in the AskMen thread figured out what she wanted 20-30 years sooner than the author of this article.

... I also don't think she's nearly as hot as she thinks she is, but maybe that's just my tastes. Slather on that sunscreen, ladies...

Ragna_The_Blood_Edge · 2013-09-04T20:17:51+00:00

Nobody wants a worn out cum dumpster.

NeedRPadvice · 2013-09-04T13:20:10+00:00

Pick 2:

Time Family Money

marriedtocrazy · 2013-09-04T20:48:49+00:00

Why does she think that a good man would want to fuck her career? All that shit is irrelevant. Talk about materialistically focused; whatever poor beta lands her better have a bullet proof prenup.

nojustice1 · 2013-09-04T14:52:37+00:00

"These guys are all smart, successful, fit and fun and I think just have been having too much fun traveling the world and leading the good life to settle down or settle." -Shame on them for having too much fun.

Does she subconsciously recognize she has nothing to offer them?

2013-09-04T09:36:50+00:00

You've gotten old, you're no good no more!

2013-09-04T17:32:56+00:00

Women always play the 'He's intimidated by my success' card way too often. Bitches, we aren't intimidated, we are TURNED OFF BY THAT SHIT. What part of your bank account or job promotion do you think makes my dick hard?! NOTHING, YOU BIMBO. What makes my dick hard and makes me stay around is when you submit like a whore to me, and ONLY to me.

Women have forgotten the art of being women and men have forgotten the art of being a goddamn man. Fucking stick to your script,k theres nothing wrong with it.

"A lady in the streets, but a freak in the bed. " lil jon

SeekingAlpha · 2013-09-04T14:01:22+00:00

Want to vomit. This "real woman" seems more like a man in women's clothing (based on attitude, not appearance). Insufferably self-righteous.

2013-09-04T16:39:20+00:00

I am not referring to just any women, but some extraordinary women. Women who have it all: brains, beauty, bodies, personality, success et al. Maybe that's it! We have it all and that is just too much for most men!

Just keep telling yourself that, lady.

phathack · 2013-09-04T19:54:07+00:00

There might be someone in their mid 60s to early 70's that might find her attractive. But she wont be interested.

I hope she enjoys taking care of her cats.

Stayinghereforreal · 2013-09-04T20:11:24+00:00

Hulk Hogan in drag?

Kombaiya · 2013-09-05T00:03:07+00:00

Here's my response that I submitted to her in the comments section (which she asked for):

Hi Hope,

You blame men for not being manly enough to handle you yet you come across as the most arrogant person I could ever meet. To marry someone, you want to find a companion and most men could never like someone that is so conceited and fake (name dropping, constant bragging).

Secondly you are using worn out tactics that will not attract the right mindset. It's great that your in good shape for your age but that doesn't mean you can compete with 20 year olds. Besides, 20 year olds are like how you were, they want to play the field and wear stuff that attracts men in it for the same reasons. This is an absolute dead-end for a 57 year old trying to find someone to settle down. In other words, dress your age - That way, men will find your more attractive because you have more going on for you than at first glance. If you flaunt your best bits in tiny dresses then it's only disappointment from there on.

If you think you want to find a debonair 40 year old, you're simply not being realistic. Find a person 60-70 and look for companionship, not someone to beat up on and brag about to. Respect him, he's probably been through a lot more than you give him credit for.

Anyway, this is just a start. I really hope this post makes it through the filters because I'm just trying to help you here.

pro_skub · 2013-09-04T16:29:04+00:00

The whole article reads like a parody or a joke. I would call "troll" if it wasn't signed. Almost every sentence is an example of hamstering and vacuity.

KidStrangelove · 2013-09-04T23:48:51+00:00

Please please tell me this is a parody. It's just so hard to tell anymore

salami_inferno · 2013-09-05T09:59:36+00:00

This summer, I finally decided I wanted 'off the train'.

She misspelled carousal.

Lord_NShYH · 2013-09-06T02:05:57+00:00

"Pussy ages like bread, not like wine." -Patrice O'Neal

Title	Empowered woman way past the wall tries to understand why she's single. Hamstering ensues.
Author	TRIGGER__WARNING
Upvotes	53
Comments	58
Date	September 4, 2013 9:23 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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