Floor in washing room got flooded due to faulty washing machine. To me it's a matter of getting out the wood and replacing it with vinyl (i dont know why the previous tenants choose a wooden floor there) but she got really upset and couldnt think about anything else.
I'm also writing a grant application so I really didnt feel like dropping everything to solve the issue past the immediate matter of drying it. Apparently my aloofness pissed her off as she threw a bottle of mayo around.
I just sat motionless. I tend to lock up in situations like that. I also become hyper vigilant because I've been abused by a previous gf. It was weird but I couldnt even speak. I was loaded like a spring、waiting for the moment she would either start screaming or would move to hit me. Even tho my current gf never hit me I was preparing for it.
What she did do was tell me to sleep on the couch. I was being hurtful for making the face that I made、and if I was so annoyed why didnt I just break up? She texted me this from the bedroom.
I replied that I couldnt help how I felt. But that it was a bit unfair that she could act out and no big deal、 but when I'm annoyed it should lead to a breakup?
After a short back and forth、 she then said I didnt have to sleep on the couch if I didnt want to. I spent the night watching videos and working on my application.
I really do care for her、 and since we live together I dont want to break up over a flooded floor. Especially since I need to focus on building my business. This is an especially vulnerable time because I dont have much financial means and thus have low SMV.
So I have to ask、is my ltr (2.5 years) nearing its final stages? Is this a sign she found someone else and is preparing to branch swing? Is this just a shit test? Is this just her emotions running wild? Did I fuck up somewhere、or not? Where do I go from here?
She just came around again half sobbing and dramatically holding my hand and then letting go again、to then go back to bed without saying a word.