Girls love to be choked during sex..?

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June 14, 2019
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Fuck, this post feels weird to type. Last 4 girls, which I can recall, I had sex with REALLY like to get choked during sex. I'm a pretty dominant figure and it somewhat happens automatically when I have sex with women but I started to see a pattern this time.

Yesterday when I slept with a new one and after sex she told me good job, choke me harder next time. I'm like what? It wasn't even really a concious decision to do so and I already went pretty rough but always hold back to prevent rape charges or whatever, you never know these days..

This made me wonder.

- Do all women like being choked during sex? Rape fantasies, or did I just pick some crazy chicks?

Is this related to daddy issues? Cause not all of them were without a father.


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Title Girls love to be choked during sex..?
Author Cryptoguru777
Upvotes 81
Comments 67
Date 14 June 2019 06:40 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/242004
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/c0gwth/girls_love_to_be_choked_during_sex/
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[–]tikitheman116 points117 points  (19 children) | Copy

Yes they love being choked.

[–]Cryptoguru777[S] 10 points11 points  (18 children) | Copy

But why? I wouldn't want it happen to me. And why only during sex?

[–][deleted] 66 points67 points  (14 children) | Copy

They find being dominated sexually arousing. Even the thought will give them the gina tingles. Read sex god method

[–]Cryptoguru777[S] 12 points13 points  (10 children) | Copy

I guess. It just seems a bit crazy you know. choking someone to the edge of passing out watching her eyes roll back and her giving thanks???????

[–][deleted] 61 points62 points  (2 children) | Copy

Well don't bloody kill the poor girl. Simply your hand round her neck with some gentle pressure whilst fucking her should be sufficient. Hold her using her hair, slap her ass etc etc

[–]Cryptoguru777[S] 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

No of course not but the fact she requested me to go even harder striked me as weird as it would become nearly violent at that stage.

[–]ReformSociety17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

Everyone has different pain thresholds.

Set up cameras if you're scared you accidentally choke her out and she tries to sue you.

She'll reach for your hand on her throat if she finds it uncomfortable.

[–]lifeisweirdasfuck11 points12 points  (2 children) | Copy

Mate you should probably read the sidebar cause you make me think you are entirely bluepilled.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev22 points23 points  (2 children) | Copy

She should be required to thank you for that shit.

Look, people get off on weird shit. Either you want to indulge their kinks (and they yours) or you don't. If you don't, they will find someone who does.

You should be pushing the envelope to get her to do whatever nasty shit you like.

[–]Lambdal72 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It makes them feel safe in a way.

[–]Internet-Troll2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Heck yeah, if you tell me I can feel good doing none of the hard work I would be down too.

[–]linkofinsanity191 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I second the Sex God Method.

[–]sebastianconcept0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Read sex god method

I'll take a look! Thank you for the reference

[–]Bear-With-Bit7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

I wouldn't want it to happen to me.

You get laid but you don't understand. Women want sexual domination. It's different from just sex.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

But why? I wouldn't want it happen to me.

Are you a bitch? No?

Then there's why.

[–]RedHoodhandles22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because we are the decendants of rapists and sex slaves.

[–]lifeisweirdasfuck26 points27 points  (1 child) | Copy

If you don't understand why they love it, it means you are still blinded due to social conditionment.

Whenever I do not fap for 10 days or more, I start imagining how hard I'd fuck women. And choking is just a small part. You need to get in touch with your animal side. Until then, you will never be free.

[–]Cryptoguru777[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well obviously I already have been for quite some time, it just happens automatically. It was weird to see a pattern in all girls that not only like it but want more.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev44 points45 points  (11 children) | Copy

So I saw some news blurb about how most of the porn searches for "Rough sex" or "violent sex" are made by women.

Also:

Uncle Vasya’s Guide to Submissive Women

-How to lead when she wants to follow.

Of Human Bondage – Uncle Vasya’s Guide for Men Who Like To Tie Up Young Ladies.

-The Field Guide to playing knotty games with naughty girls.

Of Human Bondage, Part II: Slave Girls Are Fun

-When Life Sends You a Slave Girl, Put a Collar on Her.

Be Her Darkest Sexual Chapter

-How Alpha Widows Are Born

[–]caius10028 points29 points  (3 children) | Copy

I just find it funny how most of the guys replying give links to posts of others from trp. My man over here simply links others to his own posts. Fucking great

[–]0io-15 points16 points  (2 children) | Copy

When confronted with a decision in Life or in Love, first ask yourself what would Uncle Vasya do?

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev19 points20 points  (1 child) | Copy

ask yourself what would Uncle Vasya do?

Fun Fact: Friends of mine IRL actually do this. Then they call me to confirm.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

I believe it.

[–]tb0n11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

“Women are 113% more likely to view "hardcore" porn than men. They're also more likely to search for such terms as "gangbang," "rough sex" and "double penetration."”

https://www.mic.com/articles/122962/pornhub-study-reveals-women-want-hardcore-porn

[–]ReformSociety17 points18 points  (1 child) | Copy

I see Uncle Vasiliy, I upvote.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

Have an upvote, sir!

[–]Yourgonnagofarkid1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

Can you give practical details to bondage for someone to use? Cuffs don’t really work since my bed has nothing to tie her to. Rope?

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Your bed has a bed to tie her to.

The restraints connect to a nylon cord thing that goes under the mattress or under the bed frame. There are other systems out there, I am sure, I just found this one with Google.

I prefer to use neoprene cuffs rather than rope because there is little/no danger to circulation with those. Rope you have to be careful with. There is plenty of stuff out on youtube for rope - look up "Two Knotty Boys" and you will see.

[–]Yourgonnagofarkid0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Love it. Great work on this. Without getting into too much detail, what would you do to a girl in these restraints? Just tease with blind fold for 10-15, the duck her?

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Read the links. Everything you need to know is there.

Also, get her talking about her fantasies. Women seduce themselves.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy

Do all women like being choked during sex?

most do

Rape fantasies,

most have

or did I just pick some crazy chicks?

No, you got the normal ones.

Is this related to daddy issues?

No, they like to be dominated.

BUT ...... be very careful. Don't be rough at first. Don't be rough with crazies. "She asked for it your honour" is not a defence in court. Be careful.

[–]Cryptoguru777[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Solid man, thanks.

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed[🍰] 34 points35 points  (10 children) | Copy

Men are dominant.

Women are submissive.

No rocket surgery necessary.

If you present as a dominant man, then she will present her submissive self.

Might even be a shit test rolled up in there, too.

[–]ElvisDimera1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

What about the women that think they are the dominant ones? A woman I know keeps saying how she is narcissistic and proud of it and doesnt like sex unless she orgasms etc. I wish she cared more about me orgasming.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

Female submissiveness is the natural state. They are evolved to be that way.

Any time a woman acts dominant it is just that - acting.

[–]BackOnGameJP3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

And the more dominant they appear, the more they want a man to put them back at their place and dominate them.

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed[🍰] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Then you're living in her frame and are the submissive one.

Why don't you take charge?

Oh yeah, you're not dominant.

[–]Casanova-Quinn1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

women that think they are the dominant ones

That's a shit test to filter out the soft boys.

A woman I know keeps saying how

Why are you listening to her? Actions speak louder than words. You can be the dominant one, you just have to actually do it.

[–]thrwy754791 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If shes admits to being a narcissist, then believe her.

[–]DigitalDragonSlayer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

OP is autistic

[–]Cryptoguru777[S] -4 points-3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Thats not the discussion here. I don't see the direct correlation between being submissive and enjoying being choked to the egde of braindeath, especially not in all women. But I can't change reality, it is what it is. If I do come across one who rejects it or whatever I will have to re-assess.

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed[🍰] 8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

What's more submissive than someone else holding your life in their hands?

That's the psychological.

Auto asphyxia, breath play, choking, deepthroating all cause a reduction of bloodflow and oxygen to the brain. This, in addition to rapid CO2 buildup (the brain is a huge O2 consumer) causes euphoria and heightened sensations, reality disconnections, etc, all leading to more intense sensations.

That's the physiological. (Theoretical... not surprisingly it's hard to find scientific journal articles of near death experimentation) (David Carradine)

For a lot of girls, you don't (and shouldn't) go physiological with them. The simple pressure of your hand on her collarbones (no choke, but close enough) will activate the feelings of submission. It's also a great indicator of whether she's into it.

[–]Endorsed Contributoritiswr1tten9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Remember, only squeeze the SIDES of her neck, never the throat or esophasgous

[–]SwoleyMoleyFrijoley10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

In other news, water is wet.

[–]Greaterbird4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

They do, but only when they see you as the more dominant one. If she feels in charge, she won't feel like she can trust you to be in control and the most you'll get is a reluctant starfish.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Some do. They want to be dominated. They want to feel like you desire her so much that you’re willing to push boundaries.

It’s important to have good technique. Which means a broad grip, use the tips of your fingers to push into her neck and don’t push the webbing of your hand into her throat. This means you won’t be cutting off her supply of oxygen too much, but it’s still intense.

Needless to say, do it safely. Have respect. Don’t let this shit bite you in the ass later via a lawsuit.

[–]Cryptoguru777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah I know I've never had any close calls or whatever but I've seen some eyes rolling back but that just could just be the orgasm.

[–]hmjuice4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

They also liked to be called little sluts and bitches whilst having sex. They like to be used and fucked like they should be. We like to fuck like animals, go figure? Read sex God method

[–]kaolin2244 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Of the ones I've been with, at least 80% love it. If not choking, then being manhandled, ass slapped hard, hair pulled, bitten, rough sex in general. The ones who don't usually have been through real trauma before, but even they still enjoy some of it.

Most also came from good homes, so it's not daddy issues.

My person opinion is that everyone has fantasies, and most people are kinkier than they'd like to admit. They just need the right person to bring it out of them who isn't going to judge them afterwards for liking what they like.

I've been on the receiving end of this judgement before and it's one of the worst feelings on earth.

For example, I'm into some weird shit, but one of the lesser weird things (and pretty common from what I've read) is that I really like the naughty schoolgirl thing. Every hot chick should have this outfit in their wardrobe for sexy time.

Now, one girl I was dating got super weird about it when I told her and wanted to dive into the deep psychology of why I liked it, what about it exactly turned me on, and all that. It took all the fun out of it and I felt like a weirdo.

Lo and behold she was molested by her father her entire childhood.

I think the choking thing for girls is about a rape/domination fantasy. As much as they deny it, many of them like to feel feminine, small, and out of control (but not really). Also, according to them the orgasms are way more intense.

This is going to sound misogynistic but I'd go so far as to say that fantasy is built into their DNA somehow.

Ever since the dawn of time the most beautiful women were spoils of war. While most of the time this was bad news for them, there's definitely an appeal to being desired by the biggest, strongest, most powerful men on the planet, least of which was getting your brains absolutely fucked out of your skull.

The sweet, slow, tender lovemaking is great once in a while, but all people, especially women, want good, fast, hard pounding that leaves them breathless and curling their toes for five minutes. Choking offers that feeling in spades.

[–]PolukranosEatsWords1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah instincts tell them to breed with the biggest baddest motherfucker they can find. Means her and her offspring will be well protected.

[–]omega_dawg936 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

yes they love choking or any other act that conveys raw passion and desire.

but if she's black, whatever you do, do NOT engage in any activity that involves her hair! no pulling, getting it wet from sweat, etc, and God help you if cum gets in her hair.

[–]ZachMeadows1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I chuckled at that.

[–]bethanyisawhore2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

They love being choked, slapped, spanked, pushed and shoved around, having their hair pulled, called dirty names and much more. They want a man who has his way with them, someone who will literally 'fuck' them, which is more than just penetration.

[–]Overcast301 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I had the same realization a few months ago after every single one of my sexual partners liked being choked. I think it is because the neck is a very vulnerable spot, arguably the most vulnerable spot on the human body. That's why the same girls that like being choked will also like neck kisses. It is the contrast of pain and pleasure that these women crave and my ex girlfriend told me she liked it so much because I had the potential to cause extreme harm to her with my hand on her neck. I don't think it's necessary the restricting of airflow that is arousing to most people, but the power dynamic and control that if I wanted to, I could kill her.

[–]scorpionkg0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If the girl like chocking, try to put yours fingers in her mouth till chock her, and the next step is to spit in her mouth. Go on. Trust me.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Whoa whoa.....

[–]__TheDon__0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Father issues is a big part of it

[–]travlingsomewhere0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

No way!

[–]rpmc830 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Last few requested I choke them too. Never had such a request the 10 years prior. Maybe there's some "social media Influencer" lots of girls are looking up to who advocates this? I've seen some of their memes glorifying it.

[–]Theorymeltfool10 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Submissive women often like to be choked. It's not always "daddy issues."

[–]dadfrombrad0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Always always always put your hand on her neck when you beat her walls in. Give it a squeeze when you get bored

[–]Eatslikeshit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Weirdly enough, yes. When I was first starting out towards the end of high school, this was something I felt ashamed of but did anyway, as I had a strong inclination toward the whole domination thing. Light choking, slapping, and playful name calling always seemed to get them where they needed to be. I had a few since that didn't respond well to it, but it's super common. More common than not actually.

[–]Imperator_Red0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Totally normal.



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