I've been improving my text game a lot recently, and had an example that I felt was instructive:
Exhibit A
Background: I live in a deep-blue city filled with shitlibs. Since I'm not trying to waste time, I put "Conservative" as my political orientation. This probably hurts my matches, but as you'll see, it provokes female testing, which, if I pass, works to my advantage.
Gal messages me first, as it's Bumble:
Her: How Conservative? :)
I had to think about this one. The truth is, my views are probably radioactive to this chick. However, I would like to bury my face in her massive milkers.
Incorrect response: Some literal statement of my actual politics. Politics = dry panties.
Remember, SHE MESSAGED ME. She likes how I look. When lacking information, the human brain will fill in the gaps in accordance to how attractive a person is perceived. This is called, "The Halo Effect."
I make that work for me:
My response: Just the right amount. ;)
Now her hamster is busy imagining what her version of "just the right amount" of Conservatism is.
Also: I used to be anti-emoticon. Thought it was "beta." That's totally wrong; a properly-selected, tactical emoticon can be devastatingly effective. That winky face got the sexual vibe going.
Her: I'm a super liberal feminist. Would you get along with me?
My first instinct was to say something like, "Honey, I've been living in <<shitlib city>> for six years. I think I'll be okay."
WRONG. Logical. Bad.
This is a test. The appropriate response is a pressure flip:
My response: I'm not bothered by the difference if you're not.
This is the truth. I don't care if this girl doesn't like my politics, but if she can't control herself and wants to verbally spar, then GTFO.
Remember, SHE MESSAGED ME. She likey.
Her: Im honesty curious to find out
Bingo. "Who is this attractive conservative guy?" That's why she messaged. If my politics were a deal-breaker, she wouldn't have reached out. I very indirectly highlighted that, and it worked.
My response: Well, there is one way to find out. Grab coffee this weekend?
This one was pretty easy, as she set me up beautifully.
Key point: you can probably ask for the date way sooner than you think.
I used to spend 2-3 days trying to build rapport over text. This is boring, lame, and will fuck over your conversion rate.
I learned this from a phenomenal text game guide here on TRP. Link
The worst thing you can do is just make her your pen pal and ask dozens of interview style questions without escalating. She is not an idiot, she knows what you are there for. If after 5-6 messages or so you still haven't found the opening to ask for her number or ask her out, just do it.
And it worked:
Her: Love that. I have to work Sunday though.
Done. "Love that." Shit works, boys.
Now we're in logistics, so I ask her which part of the city she lives in, and coordinate a time.
Key takeaways
- If she's messaging you, she's interested.
- Make her imagination work for you by giving vague answers to her questions.
- You don't have to write multi-paragraph essays. Less is more.
- Pressure flips can work wonders for passing tests.
- Strike while the iron is hot, ask her out/get her number within 4-6 messages.
Questions? Helpful? If you guys like, I can do more of these. Happy hunting.
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