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"You don't text much" and another shit test

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GirTheRobot
August 5, 2019
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I just said "Yeah I don't like texting all that much" and kept making out with her instead. She said after "well you should cause I'm usually bored at such and such time." She'll randomly text me throughout the day with a "hey :)" and I usually just respond with logistics lol. Like "Hey (her name) I was thinking we do this and that etc." and she'll usually respond with "yeah that sounds fun" or whatever.

I think I'm just going to keep only (mostly) texting for logistics. This was our second date and she seems into me. Actions over words and all that right? And as we all know if I give her what she wants and fall into her frame she'll just be less into me right?

She also said earlier that I "frustrate" her, but she said this while smiling and laughing and pulling away from a kiss. When I asked why she said she didn't know why, which frustrates her more. What does this mean? This was before she mentioned the whole texting thing, which could be why she's frustrated?

Thanks dudes.


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Title "You don't text much" and another shit test
Author GirTheRobot
Upvotes 109
Comments 51
Date 05 August 2019 03:56 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/249306
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/cm60oe/you_dont_text_much_and_another_shit_test/
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[–]lietruth142 points143 points  (2 children) | Copy

When a girl says you frustrate her, that means she's invested.

If she said it in a playful coy way, then she's definitely invested. I'd say it's a good sign that she mentions that you don't text much. Actions > Words as you said. The fact that she mentioned it and didn't put a negative spin to it, means she's not used to it and she likes chasing you.

[–]daymi9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

I agree.

It also means that she noticed a LACK of texting despite all the other texts from other guys she's getting, which means she is obsessing over him (otherwise she won't have noticed a lack or something - try noticing a lack of something, it's not easy). So all around a good thing.

[–]Endorsed ContributorFereallyRed201 points202 points  (10 children) | Copy

The minute you try to appease a girl is the second she starts losing respect.

They're not like us.

They don't want comfort, don't want peace, don't want status quo.

Drama drives them.

[–]deathhandmachiavelli51 points52 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well said. Most guys have a very hard time getting this.

[–]omega_dawg9322 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy

like my dad says, soap operas are on tv and have been on tv for one reason: women need their daily dose of drama to be happy.

[–]Sake996 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Golden words, I'm saving this.

[–]haughtyhay65 points66 points  (6 children) | Copy

Watch what they do, not what they say

Let her hamster spin. She’s frustrated because you won’t let it stop.

Don’t let it stop, until she’s no longer smiling.

[–]Bilderbergerwcheese 1 points [recovered]  (5 children) | Copy

But when shes no longer smiling. Wouldn't she just rage quit and say FUCK this guy? and go out in the field to get pile driven..

[–]MasterPlenty18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

Onto the next one

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well yeah, what’s the problem with that? Women aren’t property, and if you’re into red pill and you emotionally invest in a woman, it’s just silllllyyyyy. Who cares. It’s inevitable. It’s a fact of nature.

[–]PimPedOutGeese5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Plates break

[–]BusterVadge7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

What part of "she's not yours, it's just your turn" don't you understand?

[–]beachbbqlover0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Youd think that, but often no.

But it's still best to let them go if they're genuinely unhappy.

[–]justlibertarian20 points21 points  (2 children) | Copy

Since taking the red pill the amount of girls who have told me “I hate you so fucking much” has literally fucking skyrocketed but I just respond with some intense sarcasm “oh no how ever will I survive without your approval” or something else along those lines

[–]Distractingyou3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Lol that's an amazing blowjob you hit 2 birds at once you show the idgaf mentality while destroying girls worse fear that her vagina powers doesn't work on every man meaning she gets anxiety that she can't control you for being a woman.

[–]InfiltratorMain0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What girl hurt you LOL

[–]idontevenlift3713 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Keep doing what you’re doing fam, don’t try to appease her and don’t let her figure you out.

[–]tinko2233068 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

DO NOT start texting her more. the phone is for setting dates only. Tell her that you are busy or better: act like you're busy

[–]Foolishoe17 points18 points  (14 children) | Copy

Why dont you answer when I call? Because I'm busy with my hands and mouth and ears most of the time that I am not with you.

Call someone else that has nothing better to do than talk. That's not what I do with my time.

That's not what we do with our time. Text your girlfriends or read something.

Dont text me just to text. I have shit I am doing.

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

She also said earlier that I "frustrate" her,

Good.

which could be why she's frustrated?

Because you're not falling into her frame.

Looks all fine to me.

[–]ChubbbyLover391 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don’t think about why she’s frustrated. None of your business. You can safely ignore 75% of the stuff she says and be golden.

[–]salieri1451 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

You need to text her more trust. If you dont you'll lose the bitch

[–]GirTheRobot 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

Think you might be right. She's not responding to texts about logistics anymore...Idk man lol

[–]salieri1450 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Had it happen before

[–]GirTheRobot 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Funny how this redpill stuff can be totally wrong depending on the girl. The whole "text only logistics" thing doesn't seem to be as black and white as we make it out to be.

[–]salieri1450 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fuck texting for logistics, text occasionally but text statements not questions. Also, although I never use emojis I do make an acceptation to allow myself to use a single emoji as a response sometimes. Works well, try it.

E.g. A real convo with a girl I had the other day.

G:What will we do?

Me: Go for a walk

G: Where?

Me: Heaven

G: No

Me: [Crying emoji] (On PC)

[–]mabden2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

> She also said earlier that I "frustrate" her, but she said this while smiling and laughing and pulling away from a kiss. When I asked why she said she didn't know why, which frustrates her more. What does this mean?

This means she has not "figured you out yet." You are keeping her on her toes, she both likes it and doesn't like it. It "frustrates" her because she cannot control you, she likes it because it is keeping her attracted.

As soon as she "figures you out" you dead.

[–]Cryptoguru7770 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This should sound like music to your ears. Don't give in entirely. You can text slightly more but keep it distant like you have.



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