Q4M: What’s it like dating a baby crazy woman? Is there upsides? What are the downsides?

Aaren_Augustine · 2019-08-14T14:02:23+00:00

What’s it like dating a baby crazy woman?

They become obsessed with babies and would not stop talkingabout it and how we are to take care of it (and by proxy, her). If you ever talked with a meth/ecstasy addict and asked about how they feel about it, They will answer it like a baby crazy woman.

Worse still, they will use all the dirty tricks like blackmail and faking it in order to get their fix too. Which is a degree in treason in their part. If I don't want a baby it is my decision. I need this to be respected.

Is there upsides?

Sex. Lots of sex.

And they will behave heavenly when they are determined in having this baby.

What are the downsides?

Everything above plus, a lot of other things from impossible expectations to down right blackmail.

Oh and obviously, costs.

What if you’re also baby crazy?

We would have a baby, obviously, however these are rare and usually way later than women. Men think of children too, they are just not that extreme as women.

Do you still want to date women who may not be as “baby NOW”?

of course, however it is rare to find at such age brackets. Everyone want a revenue or a baby. And both need to them to get pregnant. Thus, the low demand.

What if she just wanted a baby and no marriage?

Way better. However, many women seen to change ideas as they age. Adding that those women usually are also whole other can of crazy, making them terrible mothers, and the child would be mine too so I would avoid this women too.

I preferentially would want a woman who want both a baby and marriage, just in moderation, for mine and the baby's sake. Or better still no marriage nor baby.

petrichordium · 2019-08-14T14:13:35+00:00

Places like this are the closest you can see where women aren’t paying much attention to who you REALLY are and projecting something, much like the way men do on women they wanna fuck. Bonervision (patent pending) warps reality and turns crazy girls into “passionate” people, basically brainwashes men into idiots.

Baby crazed or commitment crazed women are similar. Like i am a degenerate fuckboy who is grossed out by children and biological reproduction, but even despite how relentlessly i telegraph that, women occasionally stomp right past that because of certain qualities and decide I don’t REALLY mean all the shit i say bc they can see this future ahead. In moments like that you realize it’s akin to male lust. It blinds people, makes them ignore obvious signals, just turns them into poo brain twitterpated idiots hungry for disaster.

cooktight · 2019-08-14T14:39:47+00:00

She has a checklist.

If you meet the items on her checklist then she sets about locking you down with manipulation commensurate with her intelligence and skill levels.

The checklist has nothing to do with who you are or even how compatible you are with each other. She'll happily marry you without even knowing what you really care about if you have the family background / job / race /necessary level of looks.

If you're blue pill and have not had much success with women it feels amazing as a women actively trying to be with you, or at least giving the impression of pleasantly tolerating your presence feels a millions times better than ten thousand old rejections.

If you're red pill or experienced with women the manipulation is very in your face. Passing her "job interview" feels as transactional as it actually is.

The baby crazy women I've seen hane been non-fun people. Business like. Imagine dating as a sequence of appointments with the animal breeder (genes), then accountant (finance), then lawyer (background checks), a few dog and pony shows for others to weigh in and then if you pass you meet the salesperson. Each of them not particularly charming, including the sales person. Its a bit like selecting a farm or nhow animal.

Its nothing like the intoxicating experience dating a crazy BPD women is like, at least with the baby crazies I have seen.

darudeboysandstorm · 2019-08-14T15:18:40+00:00

My girlfriend is like... pre baby crazy, in that I know she wants kids some day and she is obsessed with kids and mommy instagrams and shit like that.

IDK why I think its kind of hot, she is incredible around children and I love it.

Shes 20 I am 26 so I figure by the time shes ready to actually have a baby, I likely will be too... assuming we last that long.

sadomasochrist · 2019-08-14T18:05:44+00:00

Basically like NRE on crack. Every man should experience a woman begging for your seed to have your child. Wrapping her legs around you, putting you back in when you try to pull out etc.

10/10

Will continue to impregnate.

[deleted] · 2019-08-15T01:51:37+00:00

If you want to be a father it can be alot of fun lol. Making babies on purpose is kinda hot.

Mr_Smoogs · 2019-08-14T13:59:26+00:00

They get VERY serious about dating and squeeze the fun out of everything. Dating becomes even more along the lines of an interview and less along the lines of something casual and fun.

wingbark · 2019-08-14T14:05:47+00:00

Hmm I’d say my gf is baby crazy but wants to wait until she finishes school. We’re practicing chastity now but before we had lots of sex. She also follows these instagrams with parents and their kids and sends them to me like “this could be ussss”. Oh also I should mention my gf is 23. I’m not put off by it because I want kids.

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pnadlerlaw · 2019-08-14T15:01:54+00:00

My wife just turned 30 recently. The way she describes baby fever is seeing babies or hearing something about babies, and being like, “Aww, omg I want one!”

But then she looks at her checking account and is like, “But I like going on vacations and coming back home and just relaxing.” So, I got lucky in that department.

I dated this 29 year old in college. She was aggressively looking to lock down and trap a man and start a family together.

I legit felt like a mouse in a maze being chased by a cat with laser weapons. Till this day, I think back on it and feel like I dodged a bullet. Would have been divorced and paying child support for a child I never wanted. Fuck that.

Tyler_Gatsby · 2019-08-14T15:08:44+00:00

The only upside is the desire for the process that makes the baby, but other than that, it is probably a turn off. Don't get me wrong, pregnant women can be hot, and the idea of making a baby can be hot until you actually get off, then the stress about it comes back.

I'm fixed, so as soon as baby fever or baby rabies comes in, I know it was a fun time while it lasted, and the relationship is as good as over.

NalkaNalka · 2019-08-14T16:28:32+00:00

Upsides is she acts like a perfect GF in order to snag you.

Downside is it's all an act and once she gets what she wants then her real personality will come out and you are now fucked.

Willow-girl · 2019-08-15T12:47:58+00:00

I'd think the upside would be lots of sex ... 'til she finds out about your vasectomy!

Pontifex_Lucious-II · 2019-08-14T22:28:03+00:00

1) get a vasectomy. 2) fuck her raw in the name of making a baby. 3) peace out when she wants to go to a fertility doctor.

Title	Q4M: What’s it like dating a baby crazy woman? Is there upsides? What are the downsides?
Author	azngirl7689
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Date	August 14, 2019 1:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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