Treating women like children isn't so bad when you consider the fact that women already treat most men as below them anyway, so really "women are children" is balancing the tipping scales

Orange_Paisley · 2019-06-21T20:57:44+00:00

Women already consider men without money below them.

It's relative. I'm not a millionaire so I don't expect a millionaire boyfriend. I do expect him to take care of his own bills and contribute to any joint expenses, like an adult would.

Women already consider short men to be below them, both literally and figuratively.

No we don't. We might not want to date someone shorter than us, but that's because of our own insecurities not the guy.

Women already consider ugly/unnatractive men as below them.

We don't want to date people we aren't attracted to? The horror!

Women already reject/ignore most men who approach them.

We have to, otherwise we get pumped and dumped or otherwise hurt.

Women ignore men who aren't even hitting on them. Just making friendly conversation. I had this happen in a bar the other night. I actually consider myself out of HER league and yet she was ignoring my small talk as if I was some fly she was waiting to buzz away.

Blame your more aggressive dudebros for that.

Earth to women: Not every guy who says words to you wants to fuck you.

Of course not, but if I don't know you and you're making small talk at me at a bar, it would be a reasonable assumption to make that you are hitting on me.

Women treat men like garbage even when they do workout. When they are attractive.

Not wanting to date you is not "treating men like garbage." There are other women out there - hit on one of those.

You cover for women at work but they never want to cover you back.

I cover for my co-workers, male OR female, because that's part of the job. You're a team, act like teammates. Don't make shit up in your head that women don't cover for men - we do, quite often.

You pour your heart and soul into a relationship and then they dump you like they're taking out the trash at Taco Bell.

Men do this to women too. It's not an exclusive woman trait. Some people suck, and that's universal.

If all men vanished off the planet and all that was left was the 10/10 males, I don't think women would blink and eye.

What is this incel garbage?

Treating women like children isn't so bad when you consider the fact that women already treat most men as below them anyway, so really "women are children" is balancing the tipping scales.

Treat me like a child, and I will not give you the time of day. Then when you piss and moan about "women treating men like garbage" - you'll know there is a very legitimate reason why women are treating you that way.

buartha · 2019-06-21T21:02:19+00:00

The majority of this is such a generic victim rant that it doesn't bear responding to, but with regard to women not wanting to make 'friendly conversation' with you, not everybody wants to be your 'friend'. I'm a man and if I wasn't in the mood to talk I would have treated you the same way. People who feel the need to force conversations on you when you're 100% not into it are annoying as fuck, and I can only imagine how much worse it is when you're a woman at a bar and a solid 90% of said annoying fucks are trying to get into your pants as well.

sublimemongrel · 2019-06-21T21:22:07+00:00

Women having the audacity to not give you the attention you feel you deserve does not mean they are treating you poorly. Treat them how you would like but don’t expect people to not assume you’re an asshole if that’s what you act like to them.

IHeartDay9 · 2019-06-21T21:26:10+00:00

I'm sorry, since when are people obligated to make small talk with everyone who attempts to engage with them?

crackrocksteady7 · 2019-06-21T21:07:36+00:00

Who hurt you?

I had this happen in a bar the other night. I actually consider myself out of HER league and yet she was ignoring my small talk as if I was some fly she was waiting to buzz away.

I see.

ChadThundagaCock · 2019-06-21T21:53:06+00:00

Women already consider most men to be below them. So treating women like children/teenagers really just seems to make sense at the end of the day.

Source?

Women already consider men without money below them.

Yeah, I tend to be judgmental of single adults (men or women) who cannot earn enough to support themselves (or aren't otherwise on their way there - college, etc.) Then again, I'd say that's a rather low standard.

Women already consider short men to be below them, both literally and figuratively.

Women already consider ugly/unnatractive men as below them.

Not really? I mean I don't want to date a man I'm not attracted to but that doesn't mean he's not worthy as a person...? Is fuckability all you look for in people to determine their entire worth?

Women already reject/ignore most men who approach them.

Oh, so now it's my obligation to open my legs for y'all?

Women ignore men who aren't even hitting on them. Just making friendly conversation. I had this happen in a bar the other night. I actually consider myself out of HER league and yet she was ignoring my small talk as if I was some fly she was waiting to buzz away.

Perhaps you need better social skills to determine when a person wants to be approached altogether. A man who thinks women should be treated like children is an automatic 1/10 to most anyway, so I seriously doubt the latter part of your claim.

Earth to women: Not every guy who says words to you wants to fuck you.

And thank God for that. I don't even believe in God. That's how grateful I am.

Women treat men like garbage even when they do workout. When they are attractive.

I'm pretty sure people are treating you like garbage because you're showing blatant hostility at an entire gender . To be quite honest, you don't strike me as a pleasant person to be around, and I don't owe it to you to be nice if you treat me like a child.

You cover for women at work but they never want to cover you back.

Sounds like a case against a particular woman/set of women based on your limited experience. Me and my (female) coworkers cover each others' shifts all the time just fine. We want to work. We need the money.

You pour your heart and soul into a relationship and then they dump you like they're taking out the trash at Taco Bell.

Newsflash: All abusers and terrible partners are women. Men are always the victim. No man has ever broken a woman's heart, or dumped her in a humiliating fashion. /s

If all men vanished off the planet and all that was left was the 10/10 males, I don't think women would blink and eye.

I assume you mean 10/10 in dating potential but the thing is, a large percentage of my loved ones would be gone. Funny how people can love and appreciate other people regardless of their potential as a romantic/sexual partner. You should try that.

Treating women like children isn't so bad when you consider the fact that women already treat most men as below them anyway, so really "women are children" is balancing the tipping scales.

Source?

nemma88 · 2019-06-21T21:47:22+00:00

Most points can be covered with not dating someone is not the same as treating them as garbage. Judgement or thought crimes if you want to go that far, is also not the same as how you treat them.

Other than that

You cover for women at work but they never want to cover you back.

I'd just suggest not covering for those individuals in future.

If anyone feels the need to 'act like women do' to get back at them then yeah whatever, it's one of the things I always found a bit funny on RP. I'm not going to stop people digging their own graves, I'm sure being more feminine will help.

LeJacquelope · 2019-06-21T21:53:38+00:00

I've seen a million kinds of bad behavior from women over my almost fifty years of life but one thing I have learned is that treating all women badly because of the acts of some is not the way to go through life. I do too much protesting of women like that, I'm not aiming to become just like them. Fuck that.

Ofourkind · 2019-06-21T22:04:18+00:00

I treat annoying men like children all the time. It's actually a super effective strategy.

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wtknight · 2019-06-21T21:45:29+00:00

But if you're with a woman who doesn't think that you're below her, then that would mean you probably shouldn't treat her as a child. Personally, I don't really care how women treat men who aren't me, and I've found that most women, even the ones who aren't attracted to me, treat me respectfully. Therefore, I don't consider it justified to treat women like children based upon your reasoning. It makes me think that the men who do get treated like they are below women probably deserve to be treated that way for some reason or other.

FlavFal · 2019-06-21T21:47:42+00:00

Earth to women: Not every guy who says words to you wants to fuck you.

At some point you end up tired of wasting time with dudes who swear they just wanna be "friends" and then try to date you.

ChadThundagaCock · 2019-06-21T21:52:10+00:00

r/niceguys

Nuke42 · 2019-06-21T20:51:18+00:00

Not really when being treated as a child has advantages over being treated as sub-human.

SqueaksScreech · 2019-06-21T21:02:47+00:00

I have a bad habit of being the group mom. I will literally carry shit that I know my friends will need. I try not to do this but it's a bad habit.

Edit: I had a spelling error

Sir_Koopaman · 2019-06-21T22:05:48+00:00

Women are children because gynocentric society allows women to get away with acting like overgrown teenagers. If a man acted anything remotely like how the average woman behaves, he would be (rightfully) mocked by every single man and woman he came across.

On that note, I would strongly advise you to stop pandering to women with your behavior. They're like children: they think they want a friend but what they really want is an authority figure. Look at it this way; hypothetically, would you treat your child like you treat your best friend?

Joey_Lopez · 2019-06-21T21:52:09+00:00

The difference is that females basically are children because they are coddled and taken care of for most of their lives. They don't have to struggle and overcome like we do.

banananutbranmuffin · 2019-06-21T22:07:26+00:00

I don't know if "consider" is the best word.

It's more of the fact that the shitty things women do to men and can do to men are considered more socially acceptable.

Women can get away with a lot more nastiness than men can because the expectation is that men will keep their emotions in check and just man up and deal with it whenever bad things happen to them or when things don't go their way.

Women and society in general actually holds men to much higher standards than it holds women to.

houcem29 · 2019-06-21T21:52:27+00:00

You tell them what to do , and never take them seriously . Woman are literally inferior and like children , men shouldn't let women run the show , it's not healthy and even women do not want despite saying that they want to take the lead .

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