The Power of the Pussy by Kara King - game for women?

passepar2t · 2019-03-30T12:08:22+00:00

Is that not already the default normal female behavior?

Redslif · 2019-03-30T12:24:54+00:00

Essentially her premise is that a single woman should date multiple men, effectively making them competitors for your time and attention.

This would repel any guy with a spine.

A woman again making the mistake and projecting her way of thinking onto the man. Women typically like it when they see a guy who has multiple options choosing her. Men on the other hand, will see this as her rubbing it in his face that she has other options. In-built uncertainity of paternity kicks in and she's out of his mind.

chaddad9000 · 2019-03-30T12:08:25+00:00

Absolutely no problem with this. Women been doing this shit for eternity already. Consciously or subconsciously. Nothing new. It's the reason TRP exists, to counter female hypergamy and "female games" and open eyes to many frustrated men who "just don't get it".

Women are simple. They are not complicated. And if they are, you walk away. You do this until you find your unicorn. Or don't. But spinning plates (fucking multiple women and not commiting to anyone) is the best strategy for males.

Just like having multiple orbiters* and withholding sex as much as possible is BEST STRATEGY FOR WOMEN.

(*Hence I said "orbiters" but not "fucking multiple men" since high n count is detrimental to her strategy if she wants to find her own unicorn. So carousel riding only is advised by most idiotic feminists, rarely if ever by legit female dating gurus.)

Our strategies are always at conflict and not surprising. We both want different things, are arouse by different things etc. One side has to give in, at least on some stuff (not all, definitely). And that side which gives in is a pussy. Ideally it should be a woman. But nowadays pussy men are a majority. They will do anything for a pussy.

poppy_blu · 2019-03-30T12:38:43+00:00

There is a phenomenon called 'Pre-ejaculation ass kissing' (PEAK), where a highly aroused and sexually frustrated man will do anything for sex.

<3 <3 <3

Grab the popcorn and watch the TRPs blow a gasket at the idea that women play strategic games with men while they simultaneously defend following an ideology that teaches men to play strategic games with women.

DartagnanDema · 2019-03-30T12:15:32+00:00

She's a moron. Ok.

People will adapt to this. Dating multiple women, lieing about wanting relationships etc. At worst you're just reinforcing the problem you were trying to get rid of. But... maybe this is truly the nash equilibrium: both lie and cheat and abuse to compensate for the other persons lying, cheating and abusing.

Here's how you find a guy: pick a good, average, regular man, see if you both enjoy each other, fuck, marry, die old. Easy. I really don't get women complaining about players. You can smell players from miles away... but maybe their visual attractiveness blinds women.. I don't know. Same for guys complaining about BPD women... you can smell them from miles away.

I'm not opposed to having people in reserve as long as you're just making sure you have a healthy amount of friends with other potential candidates.

crackrocksteady7 · 2019-03-30T13:00:07+00:00

There is a phenomenon called 'Pre-ejaculation ass kissing' (PEAK), where a highly aroused and sexually frustrated man will do anything for sex. After being teased and frustrated for a few months, you set out your demands when he's in PEAK mode. The 'players' will have left, thus weeding out guys only after sex.

Any man who makes it to here is beyond pathetic cmv

CamoWoobie100 · 2019-03-30T12:00:13+00:00

Yeah, this is why it's important for guys to be dating multiple women at the same time as well.

The counter to "PEAK" is smashing other bitches on the side.

Then once you get what you want from her, dump her for even pulling that shit in the first place.

Check and mate.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2019-03-30T12:53:29+00:00

Works on thirsty beta husband material, not on men with options. literally Victorian scarlett o'hara game, pre sexual revolution

RoyalAugur92 · 2019-03-30T13:56:46+00:00

Don't give him any sex until he's clear about what it is you want. There is a phenomenon called 'Pre-ejaculation ass kissing' (PEAK), where a highly aroused and sexually frustrated man will do anything for sex. After being teased and frustrated for a few months, you set out your demands when he's in PEAK mode. The 'players' will have left, thus weeding out guys only after sex.

The only men who'll stick around for that long are ones without other options - i.e. the type women don't find attractive to begin with.

gunbusterxl · 2019-03-30T11:51:10+00:00

This is highly disrespectful. Any man that falls for that crap deserves what he gets. What the hell happened to couples simply liking each other's company?

goatismycopilot · 2019-03-30T12:19:21+00:00

Seems like a reasonable approach.

Joey_Lopez · 2019-03-30T12:21:27+00:00

This bitch is out of her mind, and any chick that follows this 'advice' is just stupid. A female cannot 'date' multiple men because men will just label her a hoe and then no man of any worth will take her seriously.

She also doesn't know that the red pill is spreading and if she thinks a man is going to sit around desperate waiting she's out of mind. At best only the most desperate of losers will stick around. Most men will simply write her off and move on to the next girl.

Arobin08 · 2019-03-30T13:06:44+00:00

After being teased and frustrated for a few months

lol what kind of man would stick around for months without getting anything from her? What makes her worth that?

Willow-girl · 2019-03-30T14:01:15+00:00

Haha, I like the 'Prince Charming' test.

PMmeareasontolive · 2019-03-30T17:18:18+00:00

First and foremost: women don't need game. You can have sex and/or relationships if you want them. Although it is some work sifting through the chaff.

2 "...date multiple men..." Yeah, I think you should date a lot of people until you settle on one. The way she puts it, cramming them all in, seems bizarre.

3 "...After being teased and frustrated for a few months..." I can't imagine what world this would go on for so long in. I would conclude very early on that you weren't into me, or your libido was extremely low and the sex, if it ever did occur, was likely to be awful.

4 "... see if he will drop everything to come to your aid..." Well, yeah, I do that for friends if they have some emergency, so I'm not sure what this is supposed to accomplish.

Reading things like this make me think women's idea of men is such a caricature that it's impossible to get past the cartoonish view of men and relate to them as people.

[deleted] · 2019-03-31T02:29:04+00:00

Intriguing! So you're reducing men to interchangeable pawns whose only purpose is to provide you with free labor, cash and prizes, but yet your demands of each of them is their proof of fidelity to you as a person.

Also exposes that human sexuality only really exists for women to exploit men, something that women naturally wish to do.

The only problem with this is that men started to get wise to it a couple of decades ago.

rachmaninoffkills · 2019-03-30T12:04:38+00:00

You should always have men in reserve ready to take the place of your chosen guy, should things not work out.

Yeah this all sound healthy af.

diffdedbed · 2019-03-30T12:12:00+00:00

How to get a beta's beta. If thats your goal sure.

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[deleted] · 2019-03-30T12:15:40+00:00

It sounds like a ruthless strategy, but as a guy I do sort of like a chase. I get bored with easy women, and it's the teases I like. This probably takes it a wee bit too far though.

[deleted] · 2019-03-30T16:55:41+00:00

Or I'd just move on.

[deleted] · 2019-03-30T17:48:23+00:00

Isn't this the book called The Rules? Oh wait, it's a copycat.

DartagnanDema · 2019-03-30T18:00:51+00:00

It's not tough to date multiple men concurrently and leverage it in the way this book positions. It's just a tactic to seem popular, in demand, independent, worth chasing, etc. You never tell the guys about each other. No idea what she recommends but for myself and men/women I know who have juggled you usually let them know you're busy, maybe even state the activity you're doing but fail to mention that it's part of a date. A healthier approach would be to actually be busy living and enjoying life (hobbies, volunteer,etc) vs spending all of it manipulating thirsty dudes.

Zippo-Cat · 2019-03-30T18:37:02+00:00

Essentially her premise is that a single woman should date multiple men, effectively making them competitors for your time and attention.

Unfortunately, men who would not immediately break all contact after learning they're just "competitors", are not the men women want to date.

blackedoutfast · 2019-03-30T22:28:21+00:00

After being teased and frustrated for a few months

stupid. the very high value men who all you chicks want to lock down aren't going to put up with this shit. this strategy isn't going to eliminate players, it's going to filter out all the guys who are high value and desirable and will select for the desperate guys who don't have any other options.

the truly high value guys have an abundance of other options, and one of them won't be playing this game.

you shouldn't slut it up for every guy the first time you meet him, but dragging this shit out for months is going to be very counterproductive. it may have worked 50 years ago, but in the sexually liberated hookup culture world that we live in, the vast majority of guys aren't going to put up with your nonsense for an extended period like that. only the most desperate, pathetic loser males will chase you to that extent.

the "date multiple guys" thing is also kinda assumed in the modern dating world (how old is the author?). practically it makes sense for a woman to do this, but it's not going to make you more attractive to men if they know you're dating other dudes. it will actually dimish their value somewhat in their eyes (pre-selection doesn't work for women in the same way it works for men). a lot of guys will see you as an attention whore / tease if you're dating a lot of guys and trying to make them compete for her. and again, the high value guys that you want aren't going to put up with this shit, they'll just move on to some other girl who isn't playing games.

the thing about seeing if the guy will drop everything and come help you is also stupid. asking for favors can make a person like you more - Ben Franklin effect. but if you're just testing a guy and seeing if he will drop everything for you, he is going to be annoyed af. and it will make you seem very needy and high maintenance. no bueno.

like a lot of advice for women, this is mostly shit. it's not realistic and won't have the desired results because it's not based on what happens in the real world. the author is taking the things that would work on her when men do them, and then assuming that those things would work the same way if women did them to men. they don't.

NockerJoe · 2019-03-31T00:34:11+00:00

I remember a girl tried something along these lines with me in high school. I bailed immediatley. The thing about competition is the girl has to be worth fighting for.

SeemedGood · 2019-03-31T04:10:17+00:00

Sounds like a guide for how women can “catch” a man that they don’t really want in the first place.

Title	The Power of the Pussy by Kara King - game for women?
Author	NoSophie
Upvotes	4
Comments	108
Date	March 30, 2019 9:31 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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