The recent thread trying to prove BP wrong by saying players exist and most if not all women are attracted to players is onto something but confuses reality.

The difference is the game being played.

Players play the game of getting pussy. That's their goal first and foremost. Not to have a relationship. Not to get to know a woman. Not to have fun. But for access to her land of heavenly delights.

Precisely why players are called fuckbois. That's all they want, sex, fucking, and are effectively human dildos used by women for their pleasure and instant gratification.

Players in effect are pussy obsessed and typically have not much more in their life going on other than getting pussy.

Players live for pussy, and ultimately put women on the pedestal as being the purpose of life and the ultimate goal.

Strangely, players are much like nice guys in that way, they glorify women as being some purpose and meaning giving objects. Both are lost, both are immature or unhealthy men, both chase women as if they are some prize to be won and as if it means anything much to be able to have a woman want you.

The Don Juan on the other hand, he plays a different game. The Don Juan seeks to have fun nearly always and everywhere. He doesn't chase women, he has fun with or without women, and getting to know a woman first is in pursuit of fun, sex becomes part of the fun and not the sole purpose of the relationship or interaction.

For the Don Juan the entire process is made fun, getting to know a woman, forming connections, fucking her or not. The Don Juan is always winning, he can spend any amount of time with a woman and have fun regardless of sex being in the picture or not, and so he is truly always winning the game he's playing.

And for women, the man that's always having fun is irresistible. In the Smart, Capable, Handsome thread I made earlier, the biggest requested trait beyond those three was for a man to be funny, have a sense of humor, and/or be fun.

Its the most universally appealing trait, and AWALT.

But, it extends to men too doesn't it. All men want to be around fun men, and the Don Juan has fun with men and gleefully so too.

Why is a fun person so sought after? I think at the end, having fun requires bringing the child within yourself out, and the Don Juan's childself comes out to play connecting with the woman's childself within her.

Make the Don Juan handsome, highly masculine, and kind hearted, and there isn't much more left to desire.

The player gets women by playing the numbers game and figuring out his niche, but the Don Juan doesn't even need to try, he can just be himself having fun, and attractive women will come to him.

TLDR Players try to get pussy, Don Juans try to have fun, and all women want the Don Juan, not the player.