Men, what is the ideal age to lose your virginity?

ifelsedowhile · 2016-11-23T03:54:37+00:00

as soon as you become sexually active.

LittleWindowpane · 2016-11-23T04:33:53+00:00

16, maybe? My lack of success in romance has taught me some wonderful lessons and helped me grow and mature as a person; perhaps it might be all the best that I'm still a total virgin at age 21. It might even be for the best that I die of old age with no relationship experience. I don't mean to be clichéd, but the experience of watching all your peers have romantic relationships when you don't, people suspecting you of being gay or something far, far worse, your parents asking you if you're gay or transgender, and having to dance gracefully around the topic of romantic relationships will build your character if you let it. You realize that your self, your character, is all you really have in this world, and that when you are alone, stigmatized, and isolated, that you really have to avoid doing anything which will bring you shame, as shame and guilt will destroy you.

trpobserver · 2016-11-23T14:53:41+00:00

I want everybody in this thread to answer when they would want their children to lose their virginity, and compare the two answers.

[deleted] · 2016-11-23T17:56:45+00:00

Old enough that it couldn't have been a priest. young enough that it couldn't have been a hooker

SirNemesis · 2016-11-23T03:45:51+00:00

14 for me personally. Probably like 12 for men in general.

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Sharpshooter3456 · 2016-11-23T03:55:22+00:00

I wanted to lose it at 14, best I didn't tho because I might have knocked a girl up at that age..

Like chef from south park said. The current answer is 17

Sharpshooter3456 · 2016-11-23T06:20:44+00:00

I actually lost it at 16, but I'd have preferred it was a year earlier. I had friends starting up at 14, but I still landed squarely in the middle of my social circle with the last holdout making it all the way to 19 before sealing the deal. Youngest I know of was 13.

At 14 I wasn't thinking about it, but by 15 (sophomore year of HS) puberty was in full gear. But I didn't get it done until the summer before junior year, just after my 16th birthday.

Sharpshooter3456 · 2016-11-23T12:14:14+00:00

16 - old enough to be fairly responsible, young enough to get that experience in early.

I lost it at 17 so not far off.

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Sharpshooter3456 · 2016-11-23T03:50:53+00:00

I would have wanted to lose it at 17, in my senior year of highschool.

exit_sandman · 2016-11-23T08:40:50+00:00

14ish.

That way, as his logic went, he would be able to concentrate at school (Engineering student) and not "waste" his time trying to do it during university.

Actually, I concur with his line of reasoning. I know even of guys who explictly picked a female-heavy subject because they assumed that this would help them (which of course it doesn't if you're oblivious about the dating basics).

Entropy-7 · 2016-11-23T11:02:29+00:00

It depends on the potential partner in question.

KV-n · 2016-11-23T11:38:25+00:00

13-14

FrozenHearth · 2016-11-23T12:42:59+00:00

Eighteen. Even though I was a crazy horny dude at 14, I didn't want to lose my virginity that early. Besides, I plan to stay a virgin until marriage, lol.

Falkner1992 · 2016-11-23T14:05:57+00:00

Twenty-two. Had to pay cold, harsh cash for it.

sunkindonut149 · 2016-11-23T17:00:14+00:00

I am a woman and a sperg. 25-30 is the best, I lost mine at 28. But it seems that non-autistics around me were losing it at 16/17 for most people and 18-24 for people whose parents are immigrants.

[deleted] · 2016-11-23T18:29:38+00:00

Before 25 because people will judge you pretty hard for it. I'd honestly encourage men who are worried about it to just fuck a hooker and get it off their neck.

JackGetsIt · 2016-11-24T10:04:17+00:00

Losing your virginity earlier doesn't really help you concentrate any more on school. Too much sex can also be a distraction. Women in general are a distraction. Having strong male roles models and going to an all boys school would probably be the least distracting environment I could think of.

Sharpshooter3456 · 2016-11-26T12:13:59+00:00

15.

I lost it at 23. I spent my whole college years feeling like I was completely out of the loop. It was more stress that I couldve done without.

Irouquois_Pliskin · 2016-11-23T04:45:13+00:00

I'm a bit of an odd ball when it comes to this question, I think the right time for anyone, man or woman, to lose their virginity is early teens, around the time that girls start to have their period and boys start to produce usable sperm, reason for this is simple, that's nature telling you you're ready to have sex, so that's when I believe you should start having it, although I think that you should start fooling around by kissing and touching a few years earlier, like ten or so, that's when most kids get curious and if they're able to start learning about sex and physical enjoyment at a young age they'll most likely have less reservations about sex and be better at it.

BPremium · 2016-11-23T18:40:14+00:00

13 for me. Ditto for other guys

Title	Men, what is the ideal age to lose your virginity?
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Date	November 23, 2016 3:44 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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