What’s the point of being alpha if betas get so much play?

TrpKid2 · 2020-09-26T20:23:37+00:00

Sure if you want a sexless marriage down the line because you put the girl on a pedestal and later she cucks you for 50% then go ahead

mc711 · 2020-09-26T21:01:38+00:00

i think the biggest problem no one is mentioning, is that you're in fucking high school. all these girls are immature and under 18.

wait til they're "legal" and have millions of dudes constantly trying to fuck them. they have no idea of the SMV range and the impending wall coming their way. how many of these girls in your high school are even considered full blown 10s?

a simp in high school is pretty much just a easy sugar daddy. it's easy for simps to supply sugar when it's coming from their parents' money. you think these "simps" will be beta bux material without their parent's money?

also simping is used too loosely nowadays. a true simp was a guy who put the pussy on the pedestal above all things. now it's just a guy who buys a girl anything. there's nothing wrong with buying a girl something, it's wrong if you overvalue the girl.

regardless, quit focusing on these simps and focus on yourself. are you even trying to game these girls? if not, then it's pointless bitching about it. if you are, what are you doing to prove your value over these simps?

beardestbird · 2020-09-26T20:31:15+00:00

Betas don’t get play. They are probably good looking simps and their girls think about leaving them all the time.

Ignore the alpha and beta shit for a sec and just improve your looks status and money. Don’t worry what other dudes are fucking

rm7979 · 2020-09-26T20:08:29+00:00

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tikitheman · 2020-09-26T20:11:00+00:00

It is high-school the game and the rules a different.

rm7979 · 2020-09-26T20:45:34+00:00

Same thing about the no text or text for logistics thing. That shit doesn’t work with young chicks, maybe 30+ year old.

Musicgoon · 2020-09-26T20:52:42+00:00

Toss out your stupid labels. They don't help you. The guys that get women are the guys that try and go after what they want.

hockeyaddict87 · 2020-09-26T20:31:13+00:00

So true man. Stuff that I see makes me question TheRedPill. It seemed like all the simps who were popular and played sports got laid in highschool got laid the most

thesatellite23 · 2020-09-26T20:34:29+00:00

First of all, how do you know that they're fucking?

Secondly, I see that you commented that you don't care about sex, just companionship.

You have a long, long way to go until you fully understand TRP. Keep reading, keep lifting, and test out a few girls for yourself.

Rohan98k · 2020-09-26T20:46:14+00:00

Alphas get to choose whom and what they want to spend their time on. Everything for an alpha is a matter of choice. Alphas operate from a place of abundance in every way not just pussy. The beta dude gets the bare minimum. A lot of betas even in their adulthood get sex from their wives but it's once in a blue moon and usually they all end up on forums talking about how their bedroom is dead or how they their wife is seeing other men. Simping for some dudes might get them laid but it's usually from women who are not even getting the time of the day from alphas. They usually have serious self esteem issues and would resort to sleeping with anyone and everyone to feel validated. Does that sound like someone you'd want to even associate yourself with let alone get worked up about who she's sleeping with ? If that's the case you have a lot of work to do.

BlocknGhost · 2020-09-26T20:52:01+00:00

Most guys are simps. It’s just that some are attractive and some aren’t. Popular and attractive guys can get more girls, naturally, they just can’t keep their interest or respect over time.

drunkphilosopher420 · 2020-09-26T20:52:09+00:00

None of those guys you see beta orbiting around girls are getting sex.

Aspanu24 · 2020-09-26T20:30:16+00:00

They’re going after girls who are insecure, and those girls are maybe cucking them. Just because they’re sleeping with them doesn’t mean the girls not cheating on them or treating them like shit. Plus, maybe they’re just more ballsy and actually flirting with them and asking if they want to hang out? Maybe you should hit them up more.. girls like attention. especially young girls

valientote · 2020-09-26T20:50:55+00:00

You are thinking way too much about this shit man. It used to happen to me too, jealousy is a beta trait you need to learn to enjoy life and stop thinking about what's in other plates. In other words stop giving a fuck so much

Jdamoftruth · 2020-09-26T21:06:12+00:00

What’s the point of being alpha if betas get so much play?

Gotta play the long game my friend. The world shouldn't be the same at 17 as it is for you at 27...

They constantly simp and view there girls as queens and the girls love it they also get to take there virginities.

I doubt many of these simpish men are actually fucking.

In public I constantly see thick girls with providers and they get to fuck too

I doubt they are fucking....thick girls are usually fat and will get fatter.

They constantly feed there girls comfort which trp says not to do but they are winning

They are most likely beta orbiters and are just getting a trickle of attention from the women

LLL3peat · 2020-09-26T21:12:49+00:00

high school - you are limited by others around you as right now it's the same as when you get older. population contest, who does what, etc. the jocks are the jocks, the cheerleaders are the cheerleaders, etc. every one of those "circles" has a hierarchy. The little groups of who you identify yourself as is what most people have in high school. if you are hot, take are of yourself, have clothes that fit, and a car usually you are hot stuff to people.

ever hear about the parties the weekend after they happen? if you aren't considered cool, you dont get invited. women are women, and TRP's goal is to make sure you have an actual fighting chance instead of hoping some woman randomly appears into your living room. outside of high school this entire bubble crashes and this is where you see trp works.

literally, get into the best shape you can. body fat and aesthetics mean the most. wear clothes that fit. choose who you want into your life while pursuing your life goals (these change as you get older, but it could be going to college, getting a degree, great job, etc. choose your life decisions to make those happen).

the first real fun crash happens at 21 when you can buy alcohol and after a drink or two you'll see peoples inhibitions really show. women just come up to people and hit on them, one night stands happen, it becomes caveman like. set your self up for choice and your future instead of worrying about pussy in high school. it'll come too.

Fabulous-Craft · 2020-09-26T21:13:32+00:00

Because they have to fuck someone. There are a limited number of alphas out there, and they're getting increasingly rare.

An attractive simp is better than nothing. And if the good looking simps are getting laid imagine the action the alphas are getting.

reyes-shortshanks · 2020-09-26T21:20:42+00:00

Girls do like being treated well, especially when they're young. This isn't entirely in opposition to RedPill thinking. It really is true to say that girls like being made to feel special.

However, this feeling of special doesn't come from what the guy does. Comfort behaviour, 'simping' alone is obviously not enough, look at the unironic 'nice guys' who truly get nowhere. The feeling comes from who the guy is. If you are a high-value male, then a moderate amount of loving/'simping' has a positive effect. "Coming from him? Wow!"

I reiterate what I said earlier - I suspect this is much more marked at high school. I know my high-school gf really melted at the traditional love-stuff. It's the only marker they have to compare to at that point.

Learning how to be the prize, hold frame, be dominant, be high value, will always be useful. I'm not old enough yet to see it for myself. But I trust the experience and success behind which the classic posts of this sub are written.

distraff · 2020-09-26T21:35:30+00:00

Nobody is claiming only alpha males get laid. Maybe these "beta males" are a lot more relaxed and themselves and actually form meaningful relationships with women. Maybe you can still be an alpha while learning a few lesson from them.

CarbonBasedLifeForm6 · 2020-09-26T21:40:32+00:00

Cmon dude Mgtow, really???

If you're honest about your age we're still teens, not old men who have had horrible experiences with women or incels who have given up honestly just stop that shit like bruh.

Also simping=/= beta as there are a few simping chads(as someone here stated) I know irl and truth be told that shit doesn't work on all the girls in highschool sooner or later the simping will have diminishing returns.

One example was this chick who I'd probably rate at least an 8(like most guys would) and this dude was tryna go for her. Guy ended up getting his entire friend group to orbit her every break(like 6-8 guys), eventually he gave up.

Btw this dude was no slacker I'd honestly say his one of the best looking guys I know and out of everyone he probably had the best chance and still failed just because you see these "betas" pulling 5s and 6s it doesnt always mean its gonna work on other girls especially after highschool.

If you're actually tryna chance and implement/internalize the redpill I'd say stop questioning it, stop following mgtow and actually have skin in the game also highschool currently is the perfect place to practice the red-pill,unless you're extremely socially awkward even then you can still turn it around.

YouAlright_Boah · 2020-09-26T21:51:58+00:00

send them my way girls not giving me a single chance where im from since im beta it probably disgusts them they honestly sound like they're blessed men

Sea-Buffalo · 2020-09-26T22:36:20+00:00

If you have to say “what’s the point of being alpha” you are not a alpha. You are acting and putting on a front to try and get sex.

Women can see right through it.

Beats don’t get a ton of play. They get used and get some sex but it costs them a ton in time effort and money.

drsherbert · 2020-09-26T22:37:27+00:00

Just be a wolf in sheep’s clothing. Act beta and fuck like an alpha. It’s fucks their mind all up.

warthundersfw · 2020-09-26T22:49:55+00:00

Young girls are sluttier than ever. Any tingle and they wanna bang. I helped jailbait reach something at the grocery store , she was down. I bet you’re just too pussy to approach. It’s alpha to give girls what they want, and then repeat and leave

Title	What’s the point of being alpha if betas get so much play?
Author	LavonnePaul
Upvotes	21
Comments	58
Date	September 26, 2020 8:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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