A huge shoutout to u/bankruptedcasino

He changed Tinder around for me. Around the Xmas time I had deleted Social Media and naturally was in reboot mode. Yes I got bored.

So I reinstalled Tinder (through a business facebook account with 0 friends and like 3 of my best photos) and the results were amazing.

A couple numbers later, and dates and so on, when Tinder was fucking shit for me before.

The difference? I texted less. I was a whatsapp whore. I was texting and whatsapping all the time. Don't do it. Call them, or if they text or message you. Do the same. Some of the hottest chicks on my phone book are responding incredibly well to this.

As bankruptecasino said let the other guys dance, monkey dance. All that "how is your day bollocks" or "saw the sun, made me smile" all that horseshit.

I even text my mates less as its just genuinely bullshit. But trust me, you come across less needy, and more endearing. Just talk on the phone, keep it simple, if she texts reply, but not straight away. A tip for this is to keep your phone in another room.

When I watch sports, a movie, go out for a drink, eat, etc I turn my phone on airplane mode/do not disturb. Especially at night. You will build up an abundance to not giving a fuck to texts etc over time.