I found this in a sex advice column recently, instantly thought of you guys. I know this isn't AF/BB but I can't edit it out of the title. I translated it as good as I felt like, it's not perfect but you'll understand it.

"I know I'm good in bed" - Ragga answers woman who desires MORE

Hi I have a little trouble to realize what want these days. I'm a 24 year old woman and for the first time in my life I'm in a good, spiritually rewarding and loving relationship. Before I've only been in short relationships based on sex, sex and sex again. I've always found great pleasure in sex and have experienced myself as a strong sexual being even a bit of a "slut". I know I'm good in bed, frisky, etc. When I lived in these sex relationships, I was beginning to desire to be cared for on a beautiful and good way. Now, the issue so that I have a wonderful man with the wonderful nice touch. The desire to be a "Slut", to be taken and FUCKED raw become overwhelming! My boyfriend is simply not confident enough to be able to provide me with such treatment, it's his specialty to be a soft man. Can I live with this? Should I do something else? It is normal to have such a strong need in this way? Adultery would fulfill all the dreams, but I think that would be unfair to my boyfriend, and I think that he would never agree to open relationship... the question is whether it is fair to myself to do it? Yours, Slut

Hello Miss Slut In your footsteps I wouldn't throw myself into adultery, which would certainly provide a moment's pleasure fulfill your love dreams and probably leave miserable guilty and discomfort after - since you have this nice, soft man who has commented that fidelity is what he desires. Rather, I would advise you to try to lure your boyfriend gradually into your rich fantasy - without slamming the truth in front of him. Be a little clever and resourceful, tell him juicy stories or write them for him.

Give him this in small amounts and see if he does not pick up ... so as a result it would perhaps be going in a fun role play. There are worse things to do with the time. Of course, this will end up being your own evaluation and your decision. Do you want a soft man or be in an adrenaline attack day in and out because of a sexhunk which is maybe not even good to you? Think about it and give a good guy a chance to show you a new side. If nothing works, and it turns out he's not into the sex that you need and desires, he may not be the man for you. Sincerely, Ragga