Have you ever met an Alpha-Bucks in real life?

GridReXX · 2015-10-22T20:08:47+00:00

Yes.

All of them are cool, funny, physically attractive in some way, has a career path, not insane, pretty fun/nice to chat with.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2015-10-22T20:47:58+00:00

There are way more beta fucks than alpha bucks. I met several of the Philadelphia eagles. When an NFL star marries, that's alpha bucks

blametheboogie · 2015-10-22T21:36:56+00:00

That's a tough one because all of the guys that I think could be like this married relatively young to women they met in high school or college.

None of the guys I know who were still single after 25 or so have the alpha part down and also have the beta part down.

Iforgotmybucket · 2015-10-23T04:11:43+00:00

I dated one. He was amazing.

He looked like captain America, had excellent social skills, was uber confident, well educated, witty, hilarious, hard-working, humble, one of the kindest and most generous people I've ever met, mediated daily, well-liked, spoke openly about his feelings and vulnerabilities, affectionate as all get-out, honest, and did I mention gorgeous?

We broke up a decade ago due to me moving across the country, but remain in contact. He calls me once a month to check in and talk. He's every bit as amazing as ever, and has a gorgeous wife who seems every bit as special as he is. He's one hell of a man.

TheGreasyPole · 2015-10-22T21:49:03+00:00

Sup. Whaddya wanna ask me.

alreadyredschool · 2015-10-22T20:18:51+00:00

Yes, takes what he wants, incredible social dominance, can't be intimidated, has more money than anyone I know and is not afraid of giving it away if he likes you.

quixoticme1 · 2015-10-23T02:35:33+00:00

I've known a couple, a few were young new military officers, often African American. They were early to mid-20s, fresh out of a poli sci degree and had money but were crazy fit. I've known maybe one or two doctors who were like that too in the really high-profile hospital where I worked. Honestly life is easier for beautiful people, and if you're a man who goes into a field young you can be both for a while

SirNemesis · 2015-10-22T20:14:43+00:00

Good question.

Most of the guys I have seen that people would describe as "Alpha bucks" turn out to be "high value betas with some alpha qualities" if you get to know them better.

anacrassis · 2015-10-22T20:37:55+00:00

I've met lots of AB lawyers. I'd say a large percentage of biglaw lawyers are AB.

Xemnas81 · 2015-10-22T20:52:54+00:00

Yeah there was this guy in my old uni who looked a bit liked a young James Bond. Lots of girls liked him and he had photos from a yacht.

gopher_glitz · 2015-10-23T00:43:58+00:00

I know one. Makes loads of money, HIGHLY intelligent, 6'10" 300lbs, former pro athlete and a complete cokehead and mean alcoholic with few friends left.

Katies_Stilettos · 2015-10-23T08:12:12+00:00

The alphas I know and have known are to restless to settle down for long.

They either quickly move from one woman to the next or practice serial monogamy. I do not think they can be happy in a committed relationship and at best they find a woman to have their children but the marriage is more a business model than a loving relationship.

Some people continue to work at their jobs after winning the lottery but not many. People are often corrupted by what they have aquired or been endowed with.

In my opinion a beta man is better at thinking long term and has very different values than an alpha.

Two men on opposite ends of a spectrum. You may find a blending of the two but he does not know he is an alpha as the power that he possesses.

An alpha with an innate humility could be the blending you talk about. I think this is probably very rare. I have never met one.

My father is an alpha and it works for my mother because she has many of the same tendencies as a sociopath so each has met their match in the other.

Beautiful people to the outside world who envys or idolizes them but I know the truth of what they really are.

They are not bad parents but they should never had become parents. They are to much in love with themselves to know how to love others.

I am nothing like them and I'm very glad for this.

They have been very good parents as teaching me what not to be.

lbspredh · 2015-10-23T07:14:19+00:00

I know one man who fits this description, and he does not make a good wingman.

MuslimGoku · 2015-10-23T08:01:09+00:00

I've met many men like that, actually. Mostly friends. I spent most of my life with a silver spoon in my mouth, so most of my friends are also well off because we came from well endowed families. Some of them also happen to get girls easily because of their game and personalities. So yeah, I think they fit your criteria.

jm51 · 2015-10-23T10:59:52+00:00

Tom Jones seems to be AB.

Knocks up a 16 yo, marries her, gets rich and famous but stays with her.

[deleted] · 2015-10-22T20:13:16+00:00

Every man possesses A and B traits....

redmachines · 2015-10-22T20:25:22+00:00

No because he doesn't exist. All of "alpha bucks" that I knew personally had fucked up relationships with women and their children that they hid very well. Social situations is just an act; some are better at than others. In the end, you can't be a manager, a father and a husband at the same time and you need help from your wife. Anyone believing that he is capable of doing all of that crap on his own without a half decent woman behind his back is delusional.

[deleted] · 2015-10-22T21:17:03+00:00

I've met several. They have larger than life personalities. They're ruthless with those who cross them and magnanimous with their allies. They have good looking, devoted wives. They are very well off financially. They are extremely good at their jobs. They care very much what their allies and colleagues think of them; and give no fucks what their enemies think. They are leaders of men and respected everywhere they go and whatever they do. Most of them are "naturals", a few of them got there through force of will and personal changes.

Title	Have you ever met an Alpha-Bucks in real life?
Author	gavinok
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Date	October 22, 2015 8:04 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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