should we teach how mating and sex really are to prevent other incels acting out?

I think we should teach kids that sex is a privilege reserved to a minority of men rather than something natural that everybody can find easily and in large quantity like you see in fiction. we are a polygynous species like the overwhelming majority of mammals where females carefully select the most fitting males so it makes sense that there's only few chads for a large number of betas. too many men grow up with a distorted idea of sex and women where they think sex is easy for everybody while it's not and that's one of the main cause of the frustration that leads a growing number of incels to acting out.