Ok,

Been a while since I posted a thread. I'm going to take on an unusual subject for a Red Pill Male. That subject is Loooooooooooooooove.

Ah, how sweet.

So, what has a shitlord misogynist with horns and a tail got to say about love while twirling his mustache and applying the pitchfork to all those poor abused and broken women who can't help falling for an abusive asshole ?

Well, for a start... This Red Pill Male, along with most of RP, believes that love exists !

But in order to be able to say that we've got to be careful to define the word "love" as a Red Pill man would define it. There are certain qualities of the "love" we believe in

  • It's conditional. Everyone has their "love bar" and can only love those that clear it. If you cleared it once, in the past, for your partner and clear it no more... You are on borrowed time. It's burning down your fuse. If you stay below the "love bar clearing level" it is only a matter of time before your partner "falls out of love with you". You get a temporary leeway based on past behavior, but don't ever kid yourself that this is anything other than a temporary reprieve your partner is granting in order that "You have some time to get your shit together". This goes both ways, M>F and F>M.

  • It's natural. It's a part of the natural, physical, world we all live in. It ain't magic. It ain't a fairytale. It ain't a mysterious force that does what it wilt. It is the "human pair bonding emotion". It is the emotion your body makes you feel, with hormones and all sorts of other bodily functions, when your genes assess another human as "A good pair bond choice that we want you to pair bond with". We usually say this is the Oxytocin/Vasopressin hormonal system over at RP. But, even if that’s not the mechanism... There IS a natural mechanism at work here.

  • Love and Lust are separate things. That "Heady Rush" you feel in the first 6 months of a relationship IS NOT LOVE. At least, not how we define it. It is not the "Human Pair Bond Emotion" it is the "Human, fuck the shit out of this member of the opposite sex" emotion. They are two different systems. We usually link the lust system to Dopamine over at RP. The conflation of these two emotions/systems is the "Great Disaster of Disney Love". That you need to feel this heady rush of the first 6 months all the time to be in love. That there are NOT two systems (love and lust) but a single system (love) under which you must feel both, all the time, or you are not really in love. This has caused no end of human misery and heartache.

  • Finally, Humans cannot control their emotions. Including love and lust. Your genes decide (through your subconscious mind which is under their direct control, not yours) who you will feel this for. Your rational brain provides your genes information but they make the call. You either feel love or you don't. You can't reason with it... As discovered by every man or woman ever who wanted to love that cool guy/gal who my rational brain likes but who just couldn’t do it no matter how much they tried to will the emotion into existence.

So.... That’s how RP defines love... Conditional, Natural Pair Bonding, "Separate from Lust" and "Not under rational control"

Why do you care ?

You care because, If you take the pill, and you believe these things about love a whole wonderland opens to you. A wonderland where you understand love, and can create it at will.

NOT by wishing it into existence (that never works) but by creating the natural conditions that prompt your genes to make you, or your partner, feel that love. By creating the kind of male/female package that human genes say...

"Fuck, this one is awesome. Here have all the love emotion I can throw at you. This chick/dude is lighting all our good pair-bond mate lights. Pair Bond with him/her. Here is a whole bunch of hormones to make you do just that".

You can create love on demand, by working at it and RP can show you how.

This comes at a price. You have to throw that old "Disney Love" idea overboard. That’s hurting you and everyone else. It's not helping you take the right actions to create the love, and when you got it then it don’t help sustain it, and when you lose the "lust" part (as everyone does to a greater or lesser extent) it tells you "You ain't in love no more. Fold this hand and be dealt another" when that is WRONG and will lead to much heartache for all concerned.

Now, this wouldn't be an RP post without a metaphor.... So here is my metaphor...

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OK, suppose you like rainbows.

You were brought up thinking rainbows were magical things, with a pot of gold at the impossible end.

Rainbows are pretty, you love rainbows. They make you feel good. You want as many rainbows in your life as you can.

Then one day you discover rainbows are caused by light diffracting through raindrops. That rainbows are conditional on there being a source of light shining through water droplets. No magic. No pot of gold. Just rainbow. You feel sad. You feel like the magic has gone. You're sad to have lost your magical dream.

But Rainbows are still as pretty as before, you love them as much as before, you want them as much as before. They really are rainbows ! They are exactly how rainbows have always been through all human history. There never was any magic. No Disney story tale, in loves case.

Just conditional love rainbows caused by light and water droplets. So, why so sad ?

You still love rainbows, they're even more fun now you know even more about them. You get the joy of knowledge as well as the joy of rainbows...and now you know the conditions, you can make them happen and have as many conditional rainbows as any man or woman could desire

You just need to get your light source and raindrops and.... Ta Da... Rainbows. Anywhere you want. Light Source + Water droplets + Positioning = Rainbows !

Rainbows are love BTW.

There is a flip side here. You'll live like it whether you want to or not.

The rainbows aren't magic. Nothing's magic. It's all just the real world.

You can't wish the magic kind of rainbows into the world. Just enjoy the real rainbows, like the ones your parents, grandparents, great-grand parents enjoyed. They all enjoyed the real kind of rainbows too. None of their were magic, whatever they thought at the time. They were all enjoying their “Light Source + Water droplets + Positioning” too, they just didn’t know.

You can lie to yourself all you like. It just interferes with your ability to deal with the real world.

Rather than wish away the conditions, it’s in your best interest to satisfy the conditions. Have as much love as you want.

You can't lose.

Do it the conditional way, and I'm right... You get love. By hard work.

Do it the conditional way, and I'm wrong... You get love. The magic kind you want just appears.

What you got to lose ?

You can kid yourself that the conditional love you create is really a “True Disney Love” if you want.

You can spin yourself any old bullshit to yourself, just don't lose total grip with reality because....

Sometimes that rustle in the bushes is a tiger.

Chomp ! 

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So, what does everyone else think about rainbows ?

This a question for all pills. A discussion. I'd flair it that way if I could work out how the fuck to do so (Seriously, someone tell me. I can't figure it out Figured it out. Trial and Error Biiiiiatches !).

Do you agree with this assessment (I know many RP guys may not) ? If you do, shall we chat about how to create Rainbows ? RP has got it basically figured out.

If not, how do you think of it ? And how would this be useful to other people in creating their rainbows ?