Hard next after TRP said something

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September 21, 2019

So it was a Friday night, we were texting about nothing in particular, suddenly she asks me “guy advice.” My heart sunk when she asked me what she should wear on a first date with some dude from another school (he lives kinda far ngl) I’ve been trying to get this girl since May. I’ve seen her almost fuck 2 guys in the same party and now this. I can’t believe it took so much time to realize I had oneitis over here, and that she ain’t the one. So I stopped texting her, no more streaks, nothing. Anyway, count me in The Red Pill Community!

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Title Hard next after TRP said something
Author 6paths_luds
Upvotes 118
Comments 67
Date 21 September 2019 12:20 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/288484
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/d79sjk/hard_next_after_trp_said_something/
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[–]2INNASKILLZ2K18112 points113 points  (3 children) | Copy

Are you interested in her needs, or yours?

Want to be the guy who hangs around doing nice things for her and getting nothing in return, whilst you watch her fuck others guys?

Welcome to the Red-Pill, and welcome to getting your self-esteem back.

[–]6paths_luds[S] 29 points30 points  (2 children) | Copy


[–]IndianaBW 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

Easy there skipper 😂

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Let him have this one

[–]deathhandmachiavelli38 points39 points  (3 children) | Copy

Yeah, lol.

Check out what happened to me, this is my biggest simp moment, and I think its hilarious now.

I'm trying to get with this girl for a long time just like you.

A huge, fat, ugly girl becomes friend with my one-itis, just to try to have access to me.

The fat girl talks to my one-itis and asks if she (the fat girl) has a chance with me.

My one-itis tells her, "yes, yes you do, deathhandmachiavelli is such a nice guy"

That was a wake up call that I was acting like a simp. You got yours as well, lol.

[–]6paths_luds[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ouch I felt that. Well thanks for the wake up call

[–]006rbc7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nothing worse than being called a nice guy. A swift kick in the groin would feel better.

[–]furoshus1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I wish I could up vote you twice...

[–]somejerseydude70 points71 points  (18 children) | Copy

Good for you standing up for yourself. Delete her number and start talking to other women

[–]imtrynaclapnocap17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

4 months is way too long to have gotten absolutely nothing out of it. Next!

[–]IXseed19 points20 points  (8 children) | Copy

When a girl ever brings up another dude when ya'll talking she no longer views you as a sexual interest. Next her.
She ain't the one. You prolly past over some other girls in your oneitis wake.
Congrats on moving on. It's hard for guys and some dudes get "led on" for years.

I've been trying to get this girl since May

How long was it before you asked her out? What was her reaction?

[–]6paths_luds[S] 4 points5 points  (7 children) | Copy

Never really asked her out even tho we went to get lunch one on one Am I really of 0.00 sexual interest now?

[–]Huffnagle11 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

You put yourself in the friend zone by not making it clear from the start that you wanted to fuck her. And for the spergs, you don’t actually say that, you show her, but I digress. I never get put in the friend zone, because if I want to fuck her, I make sure she knows that. They don’t always say yes, but sometimes they do.

She’s too far gone, and you’ve clearly got oneitis for this girl. Your best course of action is to stay away from her. No text, no call, don’t hang out. If she’s in your friend circle, don’t block her, just be too busy for her. If she’s asking you for advice on what to wear on a date, you’re her girlfriend and you have zero chance with her. Go away and start working on yourself.

The sidebar has been mentioned. Red Pill is about truth and self improvement, read it all. No, you can’t read it in 20 minutes, read it anyway.

And get your ass to the gym and lift heavy things.

[–]6paths_luds[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

That’s what I thought also. The road to improvement begins.

[–]IXseed4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Either that or you're so low that to raise it would take WAAAAAAAY more work than it's worth. Any ass you gotta wait for that long is never worth the wait.
Understand that the most valuable thing you have is your time. Women know this alot more than men do. So if you're easily giving up your time to her and aren't fucking her, it shows that you don't view your time as valuable. Hell what dude that was out getting ass would be up texting a girl on a Friday night who he ISN'T fucking. Does that sound like a guy with options?

[–]6paths_luds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good point.

[–]006rbc1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

we went to get lunch one on one

Lunch is the express lane to the friend zone.


[–]6paths_luds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The scene lmaoo😂 Shit hurts tho ngl

[–]DanzNewty1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Not asking her out is your mistake, you didn't (for fucking months may I add) and someone else did.

She might have found you attractive, she might have gone on a date with you, but you never asked. She now sees you as another guy in the friend zone.

Should have just asked her out. Ask. She says no? Mission accomplished, you know you don't need to put any more effort in. She says "let's just be friends?" You respond "I have enough friends thanks" She says yes? Worth your time and effort now. To an extent.

[–]surrealismen10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Never text with girls outside logistics.

[–]GooeyLoveJuice17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

She is not special.

Get the fuck over this stupid whore.

[–]samie_jon6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

I don't blame the girl, it is kinda your job to make your attentions clear. You can't next her if you only been acting like "friends". You have to act like how you feel. If she is not on board with that, only then it's time to move on to the next. Remember you are the prize. Girls respect you more if you are direct when it comes to feelings especially if you have been talking to her for some time. Tell her you are attractive to her and want to fuck her. What you got to lose?

[–]6paths_luds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

A friendship, but it doesn’t matter anymore

[–]Jesusfeminist5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy


[–]SeasonedRP5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'd make it a soft next instead of a hard next, though be careful not to let her use you for validation. You're young, and people's perceptions of you can change as you get older and add to your SMV. Keep working on improving yourself and game other women. Who knows, in a year, this girl might be begging you to fuck her.

[–]6paths_luds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you x100. Ur right, thank you for that advice

[–]318RedPill4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Great job, bro. I remember the first girl I ghosted after realizing I had oneitis for a chick I wasn't even fucking. I loved that I finally got it. That I didn't have to fall down on myself and feel pity and cry about why can't I get a girlfriend and all that other shit. Just ghost her, lift and GFTOG.

Keep up the good work and go kick ass.

Welcome to the Red Pill.

[–]6paths_luds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks man💊

[–]Angelrun4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

She perceived U as a pussy

[–]6paths_luds[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy


[–]ahackercalled4chan4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

really. i can smell your mangina from here.

[–]6paths_luds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]danieltroungesister1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lets get it bro, make sure you apple for a secure credit card today and start building your life up

[–]SoulRedemption1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Good luck on this new journey

[–]6paths_luds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thank you

[–]HaroldTFinch1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Like I wrote earlier, she perceives you add a woman and information machine. Harsh treatment from her. You need some street cred.

That involves doing things you like, exercise, getting money and education.

The truth is when this chick is 30 and you are successfully dating somebody 23 is when the light bulb turns on

[–]MOSFETBJT1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks for not being her bitch pillow anymore.

[–]fswaluszko1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

At least you got unpluged young, i unpluged late 30. Best later than never. Read the sidebar. Welcome

[–]6paths_luds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I’ve been trying to get this girl since May.


I’ve seen her almost fuck 2 guys in the same party and now this.

You need to move on from this slut.

and that she ain’t the one.

NONE OF THEM are "the one".

[–]6paths_luds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy


[–]Lambdal72 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

So you have been creeping on her for 4 months without making a move or showing intent?

You don’t need to be surprised if she loses interest, when you don’t build any attraction.

[–]6paths_luds[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I fucked up

[–]pyth0ns2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Just be friends with her (if you can stomach that) and use the friendship to your advantage!

Just make sure you ain’t bending over backwards for her and being made to worship her

[–]6paths_luds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

True. Thanks man

[–]throaway694040 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

In the same situation, unfollowed her on insta , still have streaks and her number but her bf is ugly as hell so I think I have a chance if she leaves him

Edit; dont crush on her now, moved on to her friend who's in my college hopefully I can game her

[–]6paths_luds[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

U got this. Don’t do what I did

[–]throaway694041 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

😂😂😂😂now you are on redpill dude, appreciate the advice but dont be so nice.

[–]6paths_luds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

alright bruv😂

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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