Is STFU really this effective or am I doing it wrong?

johneyapocalypse · 2019-09-20T23:31:55+00:00

Women are creatures of habit who thrive on drama.

Historically, you've been feeding that habit by perpetuating a dynamic... simply by virtue of your whining, your arguing, your defending, and your explaining.

I suspect that most women - when they first hear and notice the sound of their own obnoxious cackling - the result of their husband finally shutting his pie-hole and not engaging - well, I suspect that most women don't much like what they hear.

After all, bitching, complaining, shit-testing, and the like doesn't sound very good, whether you're a man or a woman.

With that said, were she to continue the shit-testing in perpetuity and never swing to the proverbial good side it would likely mean that either (1) she is crazy or (2) she's really fucking bored because that cackling is the only way she gets any drama in her life.

As such, if she's shutting her own damn pie-hole after a little while - arguably an impossible act of god himself - it must mean you're doing something right.

0io- · 2019-09-21T01:40:13+00:00

STFU is pretty effective and one of the best go-to tactics. 80 or 90 percent of the time it's probably going to be your best option. When you have something genuinely funny or witty to say, go ahead and agree and amplify or make a joke out of whatever it is, but that's a lot easier to mess up than STFU.

STFU is always better than getting dragged into any kind of stupid argument about anything.

There will be bumps in the road but you're on a good path right now. Keep up the good work. Keep up the lifting and the music and other hobbies.

Sepean · 2019-09-21T07:52:56+00:00

How effective is it really? Is she horny and submissive, playing with your dick every day? The goal here isn’t just to get her to stop yelling.

umizumiz · 2019-09-21T00:21:43+00:00

Yes.

A husband's weak, doughy frame makes a woman incredibly anxious and uncertain on an unconscious level. You are weak. You are doughy. Her instincts are trying to push her towards finding a way out.

It's not that they "stop bitching", it's that they can finally fucking relax and start to grow into your frame now that it won't get her eaten by a tiger.

BobbyPeru · 2019-09-21T01:03:23+00:00

It’s working well for now, but be ready... her shit tests will get more tricky and less detectable. After all, if you pass the easy shit you’ve been failing for years, she’s going to unconsciously see just how strong your new frame is.

So, is it that easy?

Yes, and no. For now, it is. However, as her shit tests get harder, your frame will become more and more solid.

RedPillGlasses · 2019-09-21T13:00:38+00:00

https://theredarchive.xyz/archive/197950

Your 1000 foot rope is playing out, and she can feel it running through her hands, but it hasn’t pulled taut yet.

Once it does, you’ll see the majority of the shit tests disappear.

askmeanything2 · 2019-09-21T16:24:02+00:00

Great comments as usual.

As an exercise consider afterwards how you might have responded with A&A that was funny, yet not bitter or butthurt. This will help you get ready to use A&A immediately. If you feel anger or annoyed don’t use A&A at the time, but if you feel horny then A&A is part of gaming your wife.

simbarlion · 2019-09-21T00:51:12+00:00

STFU is great until you have frame. Once you have frame, you can pretty much respond how you like. Frame is the "won't need to dodge bullets" outcome.

So STFU is a bit of a bandaid solution, which quickly becomes frustrating for wife. You need to slowly move on to less autistic responses, like fogging at the least

Iammrp2 · 2019-09-21T01:25:18+00:00

We talk about women testing men but honestly it's just how all women are. My mom was giving my wife shit today and my wife was complaining essentially passing the shit my way. They've got shit on the brain.

screechhater · 2019-09-21T02:27:51+00:00

It’s pretty fucking amazing when you stop adding fuel to a fire. It dies out.

Don’t kid yourself STFU is for advanced just as much for the beginner

Vegasman20002 · 2019-09-21T00:54:07+00:00

I had a similar experience. Been STFU for about two months now and shit testing is now virtually non-existent. So I think the answer is that it works, until they adapt. That adaptation hasn't come for me yet but it will

torotech · 2019-09-21T00:29:27+00:00

Watch any movie with a strong male 'stoic' type character and observe how everyone (male and female) react to that character's lack of giving fucks. Hell, you could argue that Gandhi defeated the British imperial empire with this tactic. I'm naturally this way with everyone in my life so I don't even notice. I feel so much more productive in my life when not dealing with everyone's drama.

Title	Is STFU really this effective or am I doing it wrong?
Author	SmoovMove
Upvotes	23
Comments	36
Date	September 20, 2019 11:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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