Do I really need to be a man whore?

Spaghetti1776 · 2019-10-23T20:10:40+00:00

No dude. Racking up a lay count is no where near as fulfilling as making large advancements in your career, your business, your health and your social circle... get after it

Spaghetti1776 · 2019-10-23T20:16:59+00:00

I think of it kind of like Bill Gates. The guy worked 7 days a week for 10 years when he was building Microsoft. Then at thirty he had so much money he could do anything he wanted. But the people that never get their finances handled will be a slave to a 9-5 for the rest of their life. Fuck that.

brooklynbooked · 2019-10-23T20:07:35+00:00

Live your life the way you want to live it. That said, a benefit to racking up a higher kill count is gaining experience. Not only sexually, but in dealing with different types of women and situations. At 23 you have hardly seen it all and you would be better equipped later in life if you had that experience..just my opinion.

MrBreitling · 2019-10-24T00:46:22+00:00

You will loose money pursuing women

You will never loose women pursuing money

vyrulence · 2019-10-23T20:13:50+00:00

You do you, follow your own moral compass. If you want to be a monk in the Tibetan mountains and never think of pussy ever again nobody will stop you. But this is a community about SEXUAL STRATEGY, so what do you expect?

I like to have my dick sucked by attractive women regularly and RP plus experience helps me achieve that without making stupid mistakes in the long run.

i-am-the-prize · 2019-10-23T20:19:58+00:00

I had a modest N count until age 24. (ie: N was about 12 at that point). It was after my 4th LTR in 6 years (ages 16-24) broke my heart that I said fuck-it/fuck-her/fuck-them-all and had, ahem, fun, and about tripled it in 5 years approaching 40. I am a more complete lover and learned a lot during those 5 years before meeting my wife at 29.

Maybe with 5 Notches, you'd impress a virgin, but not likely a girl who's been around, just sayin....

Each time and type of endeavor (LTRs/plating-lots-of-action) has its own value and drawbacks.

Know that:

men and women are different; as such, the N count vs. divorce rate data I've seen means that a guy is still "able to pair bond" when he has a higher count vs. a woman (divorce rates being the barometer), so I do not think they are the same in men vs. women. Reason: women equate sex with love more than men do.
You will be a better lover ("better in bed") the more experience you have. Period. And you can then lead and show your less experienced LTR/plate/whatever the way.
your desire for an N-count level in a woman of modest levels is normal, although a bit beside the point if you only are in the plate-seeking-mode; but asking for a Virgin isn't normal for a western man, nor realistic. Why?
1. I only know one guy like this, I'm not saying this is you, but his reason was simple, he has/had a really tiny dick, like lipstick size when erect, I've known him since elementary school, it's been his hang up, so he got a nice asian woman (with her correspondingly tiny vagina) and she was a virgin and he got his checkbox.
don't focus on the number (your N count, or hers), focus on enjoying yourself, but be careful looking for LTR directly as you may skip the normal vetting (and boundary setting) process and find yourself in trouble because you were too focused on the end game of marriage/kids. You still need to slowly advance from Plate >> LTR >> ??
your logic about spreading your genes (14 kids) is unaffected by her N-count, so not sure your argument is solid. Take a step back and figure out what you want, and remember that RP goals to get a BP outcome is not what you want for long term happiness.

KamelMedia · 2019-10-23T22:17:11+00:00

I use whores as source of inspiration. Might sound strange. Im picky though, will only pursue her if she's hot and hasn't had kids.

But when i do decide to pursue one it turns the hunting instinct on. I tell her everything she wants to hear, seduce her, she goes through my process until i bang her out and she becomes another plate.

For me, keeping that instinct and game alive and well keeps me sharp in business. Pick up artistry is skills thay transger over to sales. And everything is a sale in business.

I have a seperate apartment for them and everything, i network with their friends and get them on the roster too.

Everyone has their own style though.

proactive-defense · 2019-10-23T20:42:34+00:00

Well, they’re ALL promiscuous at heart. And there is no such thing as a man whore. This holds men and women to the same standard of sexual behaviour, which does not account for the fact that we have different cognitions to accomodate our different mating strategies. Men are naturally polygamous and women are naturally hypergamous. It IS preferable to a man to commit to women who are “not” whores. But that’s the kind of man who commits to women, and isn’t that kind of man a dummy dum dum? Haha

RPthrowaway123 · 2019-10-23T21:15:51+00:00

You don't have to do anything. You're a man. All you have to be is what you want to be. It's within your power to fuck a bunch, or not if you'd rather pursue other things with that time and effort.

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2019-10-23T22:40:45+00:00

Some things you do have to experience for yourself to understand and appreciate but it isn't required for you to become actualized. If you can handle women, know not to put them on a pedestal and can leave at any time then you're only missing something in the same sense someone who hasn't smoked cigarettes is missing something. If you've never had it you won't miss it, is it enjoyable? Yes. Do you need it to reach your potential? Absolutely not.

thebadguy89 · 2019-10-24T02:21:38+00:00

I don't think there's much benefit to being a man whore besides some self-esteem boost if you're sensitive in that area.

I also believe in quality over quantity. For me, 1 HB9+ is WAY more valuable than a HB8 or below. I'm at the age where my sex drive isn't that great anymore and so I just don't have any interest in fucking anything that moves. So I'd rather fuck 1 HB9+ over 100 HB6s, or 10 HB7s. (HB8 maybe 4 and HB8.5 maybe 2 lmao)

gigolobob · 2019-10-24T07:12:00+00:00

OP is a sperg lmao

Spaghetti1776 · 2019-10-23T21:01:54+00:00

Do you man.

Foolishoe · 2019-10-23T22:06:35+00:00

No you don't. I didn't and I never will.

dlee25093 · 2019-10-23T22:13:06+00:00

Anybody that says what you said in that last paragraph- definitely did not have a chance to fuck over 50 women.

scorpionkinggg · 2019-10-24T05:09:05+00:00

most of my friends that had low n-counts turned into pussies once they found a girl they loved. Where-as guys that had vast experience were able to keep level headed in LTRs.

Rooftre11en · 2019-10-24T05:20:35+00:00

I was you. I don't regret stepping over hoes Bruce Wayne style when I was your age. I've been with over 30 women and I will say that they do sometimes rotate in my mind for spank bank material. Once in a while I will think about one I denied and wonder what she would have been like, but it's just a trick the mind plays because even when I'm faced with the same situation today, I still pass up the hoe who seems barely worth my time. I've never had an STD and honestly no regrets.

Hungboy6969420 · 2019-10-24T09:44:42+00:00

There is a confidence that comes with a decent count. I’m at 50 and I am no longer ever nervous before dates whatsoever..

ogkushinjapan · 2019-10-24T10:24:19+00:00

As long as you are redpill aware and understand awalt you’ll be fine. Choose and do/ not do whatever that fulfills you.

You are not living for the redpill, the redpill lives through you.

theherosmyth · 2019-10-23T20:36:14+00:00

Do whatever you want man?

lovergirlaw · 2019-10-23T21:27:42+00:00

I love this, so hot!! Being able to fuck exorbitant amounts of people but choosing not to is just as attractive in a man as it is in a woman IMO.

totesarealaccount97 · 2019-10-23T20:52:37+00:00

You're young and have slept with a small number of women. You don't understand women as well as you think you do. Maybe you're just so Chadly it doesn't matter and you won't get burned down the road. Probably not though.

Airbatic · 2019-10-23T22:32:29+00:00

My thoughts exactly.

Morpheus_TNTB · 2019-10-23T23:24:34+00:00

Managing a wife/ltr is on a new level compared to what you're accustomed to. You may want to spend some time @ married redpill to learn what your in for...

idontmiind · 2019-10-24T05:16:18+00:00

it's a blessing if you don't want to chase poon. Men compulsively do that shit, they can't stop. You on the other hand got lucky somehow

guuy322 · 2019-10-24T08:04:08+00:00

if u wanna fuck then fuck, if u dont then dont. if u can get it whenever then whats the worry?

Gaidsbola · 2019-10-24T12:51:49+00:00

majani · 2019-10-24T15:13:30+00:00

You may have true abundance. Pickiness follows true abundance. However, I'm gonna need a photo to be sure of this.

fannyfire · 2019-10-24T16:33:31+00:00

A trend with this sub is to push the whole ‘you need to get laid aspect.’

You do but once you do it’s not a big deal.

Naturally, I want to cheat on my wife with everything that moves. I have an abnormally high sex drive to the point my wife knows that sex is not an option. It’s a requirement if she wants to be my wife. However, at the end of the day...

it’s just a warm wet hole.

Now, you can rack up as many ‘holes’ as you want and that’s fine, but they’re just holes. They won’t get you that new job, new skill, big bank account or house in the hills. Those holes are just holes and when you realize that, which it seems like you have, you realize there is bigger and better things to do than fill holes. Sure, keep enjoying those holes, but don’t focus on them. They will do their best to drag you in and take time away from your mission in life because that’s what holes do. Have fun and get dirty playing in holes but realize the real work to be done is outside the hole. The holes are there for your enjoyment but they are not the main attraction.

PickUpScientist · 2019-10-23T21:38:15+00:00

is the amount of women you've jacked off to in the double digits? if so, did you really need to be such an imaginary man whore? prob not. you just wanted to be one. its your natural state.

Savior1666 · 2019-10-23T23:05:16+00:00

> I’ve always regarded promiscuous women as beneath me

The big secret of this is:

They're ALL "promiscuous" it's simple biological strategy though. Women are on a level "Beneath you" though, although not really in the way you mean it. More like in a leader, follower kind of way.

BUT, hey, if you want to go abroad and get married in a place where divorce laws and family courts don't destroy Men, then that's probably not really a bad idea.

faustian_talos · 2019-11-12T06:35:04+00:00

There is 0 things special about double digits.

Most guys work on their mission and themselves to be noticed by girls and to fuck them. aka external validation.

After 28 years old you should be able to control your hormones and not fuck everything you can.

c4toyourdoornobeef · 2019-10-23T21:03:39+00:00

troll yawn

Project_Zero_Betas · 2019-10-23T21:19:08+00:00

and finding a verifiable virgin to have 14 kids with and spread my genes, thus succeeding evolutionarily.

Future mass shooter confirmed

Thorondor_Rising · 2019-10-23T23:41:35+00:00

No, but you need to look like you COULD be a man whore, if you wanted to.

Next stupid question.

bodybuilder98 · 2019-10-23T23:34:03+00:00

So how are you managing your horniness right now? Porn?

Title	Do I really need to be a man whore?
Author	Spaghetti1776
Upvotes	47
Comments	171
Date	October 23, 2019 8:04 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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