Spending all this time mulling over the whole 'redpill' thing, I think I can say that my greatest grievance for women is that men's desire for sex can cause them to do stupid things. That's no secret.

For men, however, it is that women are always looking for the better alternative to them. You always have to be improving, or she will find a man who will be. It's sort of the same as how men desire an attractive body and might very well dump their girlfriend or divorce their wife or even go to jail for it. But it's a lot more subtle and just as life-wrecking.

I've realized that it's not male or female nature, these two things, but human nature. And that simplifies it a lot more. We all want the higher idea of vows and fidelity and building a future with a partner. But when these two things of male polygamy and female hypergamy almost unconsciously affect how you make decisions, it seems that higher idea of building a future with a partner, is dying more and more every day.

So I think it's a simple matter of discipline and conscientiousness. Conscientious enough to see when that urge is coming, and disciplined enough to say 'no' when the time comes. But I don't think a lot of people nowadays have those two quiet down.

So, men and women, how aware are you of these things? Also, how about your friends and family?