Why do such a large % of women think less of a guy if he accepts her "offer" to split the bill?

2019-11-29T01:06:22+00:00

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grand_tiremaster · 2019-11-29T09:03:49+00:00

if i'm ever offering to split with a guy its because i'm not interested in seeing him again so it doesn't matter what he says

dxtcfyvgbuhijn · 2019-11-29T00:05:54+00:00

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Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2019-11-29T00:10:52+00:00

uh because shit test?

gee its almost like there's "The red pill" or some shit

rus9384 · 2019-11-29T05:26:27+00:00

Because they are looking for betas.

AF/BB works on the social level. Most women want betas. Then there are sluts who want alphas and don't even like dinner dates. Who also will fuck you the day you have met twosome (she already finds you hot enough to spend time with you).

Taipanshimshon · 2019-11-29T00:07:39+00:00

Because it's a nicety.

The "rule" is she offers so that you know " she's not like that ". Then you just insist you're a gentleman and so forth.

I have had a girl pay for both our meals on the sly.

That one got to take me home

LeJacquelope · 2019-11-29T06:32:54+00:00

It's a shit test. You shit test her back by taking her up on it. If she swipes left she's a low value dirtbag and you dodged a bullet. This is definitely one thing no man should ever compromise on, even at risk of not getting laid.

Women need to be sent an unambiguous, unrelenting and permanent message: paying for her meals is a ship that has sailed and it ain't coming back.

the-lone-squid · 2019-11-29T00:22:23+00:00

Because he's unattractive

xXxINCELFAGGOTxXx · 2019-11-29T08:19:42+00:00

Still depends tbh. If a dude was the one who invited her, then even tho she offered to split the bill, it's better to just pay. You were the one who invited her.

PanderjitSingh_k · 2019-11-29T01:33:13+00:00

His ability to pay without it being an issue is a demonstration of relative wealth. He’s meant to display his ability to support her while she’s pregnant and raising young kids.

2019-11-29T00:57:12+00:00

Free food.

Yes women can be that much of a cunts.

The-Gorillioner · 2019-11-29T00:15:50+00:00

They are programmed to be biologically attracted to the Gorillionaire with the most bananas. Women have no say in that. It’s like a guy saying I will forever be a strong and young alpha retard and never die. Nope, alpha retard is dying and he has no voice in that. Ahahahaha

alilabelle · 2019-11-29T13:23:16+00:00

I always offer to pay. I don't care how well the date went. If the man let's me pay for it or asks to split the bill, he will never be more than a friend. I also insist on paying if I know I am not interested in him and I'm never going to fuck him.

It was never about free food. I am checking to see if he is generous and able.

PPD men that crow about how low value women are for wanting men to pay are the stragglers women do not want anyway. Lacking the provider impulse and trying to demean such men as "beta" does not rewire our impulses. They just look like bitter, unattractive cheap men. Who wants to be with the idiot that chose paying for dates as the hill to die on? He is not worth the sex, effort, or removal from the dating pool where the very base minimum any male can make is to pay for dinner.

Female investment in men over the long run is just much higher. Men who don't pay for dates are worthless and I feel bad for any girl who buy into the mouthiness of redpillers that no one wants.

MasonMan1234 · 2019-11-29T00:11:14+00:00

Women who get offended at a guy wanting to split the bill usually are just using the guy for a free meal.

pngmafia97 · 2019-11-29T00:09:57+00:00

I personally don’t even offer when I want him to pay but I think other women are trying to be polite. Their desires don’t match up with their actions because the drive to act polite/PC is too strong to ignore, but not strong enough to penetrate their actual desires.

Kos_-_Omak · 2019-11-29T06:26:40+00:00

because if you even end up in that situation it's because she thinks you are a beta dupe. and if you don't insist on paying 100% and additionally showering her in gifts it means you suck as a beta meal ticket.

the guys that she actually wants to fuck never end up in that situation. he invites her to his place, she comes over to fuck, no bills are involved.

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jacemano · 2019-11-29T07:58:59+00:00

In the UK this is the norm Go for a date and you alternate rounds

geyejoe7 · 2019-11-29T10:25:00+00:00

If it's the first date, and she gets upset by you not paying for an expensive meal, she is high maintenance.

If it was just a coffee and a first date, she might think less, because you couldn't "treat her" to a simple coffee. Girls like to feel special, so they screen you like that.

If it's in general, and you went out with this girl multiple times, and she never expects to actually split, or pay herself, then that's a bit of a red flag. High maintenance.

Girls that want to find a good guy, don't search for a meal ticket. They just want to have a nice time with you. And that's all that should matter.

Women are equal in todays world, and if neither of you are children, you should be able to to each pay for yourself.

Unless of course, you want to treat her. Which are bonus points.

rhyth7 · 2019-11-29T11:56:35+00:00

It's kinda like when people ask how you're doing and you don't give a quick positive generic reply. It's still just polite social convention, people don't really care about how well you are doing and most women do not really want to pay, cuz the implication is that if a man doesn't want to pay for her, he doesn't really care for her. Which is true, men will bend over backwards to get someone they want.

rhyth7 · 2019-11-29T11:59:17+00:00

First date should be low cost and low stress and man pays, like go to coffee, buy her coffee, then walk around the park. Then how well the date goes and how well you mesh will determine future dates.

LillthOfBabylon · 2019-11-29T13:52:35+00:00

Solution: Dont hang out with fake people.

I dont understand what is so hard about avoiding people who dont say what they mean. Men on here seriously need to get higher personality standards for women.

grand_tiremaster · 2019-11-30T05:57:33+00:00

My country bumpkin ass is scratching my head at all these PPD ladies saying “I always split” are you ladies from the city? City people sure are interesting..

I’ve never offered to split for a dinner date. Dinner dates are not casual for me. I have paid for my own coffee and cheapie street food, though.

BTW women do that to test the men.. gauge their reaction..

andipandey · 2019-11-30T21:14:33+00:00

I think most women offer either because they’re not interested or because offering is a polite social convention like saying “I’m fine” when someone asks how you are when you bump into them. Most women have hundreds of guys trying to take em out all the time and so if a guy won’t even pay for a cheap coffee, it kinda feels like why waste time when there’s men out there who clearly has funds and a bit of chivalry.

Ofourkind · 2019-11-29T01:19:36+00:00

Basic manners.

If you invite me out, I expect you to offer to pay. Even though I always come prepared to pay for myself.

If I invite you out, I expect to pay, but it's polite to demonstrate that you are also prepared to pay for yourself.

Title	Why do such a large % of women think less of a guy if he accepts her "offer" to split the bill?
Author	goldmedalflower
Upvotes	7
Comments	96
Date	November 29, 2019 12:00 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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