Hey there. You wanna talk about rape? MeToo!

There is a lot of discussion going on about how guys are sick and fucked in the head for wanting their women to be.. I don't know.. enthusiastic in bed, let them call her a bitch a few times while raw dogging and wanting to kiss her and tell her they love her after. I know, it's fucking disgusting. Just another one of those things that appeal to the male fantasy^TM .. so lets talk about something that appeal to women fantasies. Like.. rape, for example. Whats up with that?

I guess we're gonna have to find out. Now, lemme be clear. I didn't want to be biased and put up articles of some dirty old white bastard men writing their sick, twisted and perverted desires that is obviously designed to make women bad and to be jerk off material for pornsick guys.. so I spent a little bit of my time searching for all the articles to be SPECIFICALLY written by women themselves. Some of them are even feminists. Ain't that a kick in the head? ♫

Lets talk about it, shall we..?

"Why do half of women have fantasies about being raped?" by ELLEN SCOTT

Recent research indicates that between 31% and 57% of women have fantasies in which they are forced into sex against their will. For 9% to 17% of those women, rape fantasies are their favourite or most frequent sexual fantasy.

Amy, 26, says a common fantasy is being kidnapped and held hostage, then having one of the guards forcing her into sex to keep her safe.

Tasha, 24, fantasises about thieves breaking into her house and being so attracted to her they have to have sex with her against her will.

"Reclaiming My Rape Fantasies - It’s time to stop letting people shame us." by JESSICA WILDFIRE

"Tie me up, Tie me down - Why do strong women like to be told what to do in bed?" by COURTNEY WEAVER

Whipping, knife play and rape fantasies are a part of her that never gets appealed to in her real life. The power roles are like the threads in a sexual quilt: When one is pulled here, another gets tugged over there. When her "master," whom she refers to as "Sir," donned a ski mask in the middle of the night and fucked her at knife point, "it was the most erotic experience of my life," she told me.

"These women revealed why they’re into rape fantasies" by ALLISON SADLIER

In one study, 90 percent of women admitted to having thought about engaging in sexual fantasies, according to Psychology Today. A large number of those women revealed they've envisioned a "forced sex" situation. Rape fantasies are a fairly common sexual daydreams.

"When rape survivors have rape fantasies" by JENNIFER BILLOCK

Britni joins a legion of people who routinely have rape fantasies and play them out in the bedroom. According to one study, 62 percent of women report rape fantasies. But researchers suspect that number is actually much higher, with many people too ashamed to admit they are aroused by such scenarios; in particular, women who have been assaulted and raped in the 'real' world.

"So You Have A Rape Fantasy? Don't Worry, It's Ok" by SOPHIE WILKINSON

'I was told by a radical feminist who had once been raped that I was a misogynist, and also that women like me were partly to blame for her own rape as the fact some women have rape fantasies enables rapists to believe that rape is totally OK. I think that's bullshit but I still feel conflicted... However much of a raging feminist I may be, my sexuality is apolitical and I can't control it but that doesn't stop me feeling odd about it now and then.'

"Exploring the rape fantasy" by VIZLA KUMARESAN

I am a feminist, sex-positive and LGBT affirmative Clinical Psychologist.

What I have come to understand about the rape fantasy is that it is perfectly normal. By normal, I do not refer to it being “the norm”. What it means is that it is completely acceptable to have it.

When discussing it from this perspective, I found that my cisgender heterosexual male clients also had similar fantasies. They do not articulate this in the language of rape. Instead, they use the language of intimacy.

Yikes, sweaty. At this point, I'm honestly curious how many PPD women here have rape fantasies. I just think the last part is funny. Guys want to be intimate while forcing. Would never think about that but it makes so much sense.

PS: Have this last one because I found it to be funny.

Bernie Sanders wrote an essay in 1972 about rape fantasies - Buzzfeed