Friends gf on tinder

andrew_little1 · 2019-12-09T06:05:50+00:00

You: “I found your ex on tinder, haha” Him: “Which one?” You: “—-“ with screenshot

He about to learn...

PumConqueror · 2019-12-09T07:23:28+00:00

Tell the man. What's so hard about this that you have to make a post?

FBGOVO100percent · 2019-12-09T14:46:55+00:00

She will just manipulate him and say “I had it before we were dating, forgot to delete it” etc.

SirNemesis · 2019-12-09T09:54:34+00:00

She used to complain how he didn’t want to fuck her, he was a virgin.

I mean it's kind of on him if she has to resort to tinder then...

Cheeseydick6969 · 2019-12-09T07:27:18+00:00

You wanna start some shit. Send her a screen shot of the acc

McVaghunter · 2019-12-09T10:01:34+00:00

She used to complain how he didn’t want to fuck her, he was a virgin... possibly is though.

Please lord, let me catch my son not fucking his girlfriends! That would be ass whooping time.

You friend is destined to be a safety net for a girl who wants to enjoy her sexual life without the fear of ending up alone. Telling him won't change shit; if he confronts her she's gonna dump his virgin ass on the spot and he'll crawl back to her, begging for forgiveness.

furcryingoutloud · 2019-12-09T13:23:41+00:00

Swipe right! Buy some popcorn!

psychotropy · 2019-12-09T14:40:30+00:00

Be a good friend and tell him the girl he's trying to fuck is looking for another penis. And show receipts (i.e. tinder screenshots). Talk to him about how these hoes ain't loyal, and introduce him to the redpill.

Sweetdreams18 · 2019-12-09T13:47:54+00:00

Fuck her then come to make a post on AWALT to get some good reddit karma

whammyface · 2019-12-09T11:41:29+00:00

All you gotta do is send him a screen shot

Internet-Troll · 2019-12-09T15:46:02+00:00

Black mail material , hypothetically hyperbolically

Don_Draper27 · 2019-12-09T16:24:02+00:00

just tell him. No one's being nosy. She popped up on Tinder. No one went hunting for her.

He probably won't do anything about it and he's going to believe whatever BS she spits up but I would definitely want someone to educate me if someone I was seeing was still on dating apps.

kfd_capital · 2019-12-09T17:10:11+00:00

Swipe right anyway, part of you is also curious

Irtotallynotrobot · 2019-12-09T08:45:22+00:00

Keep in mind that those dating apps still use people's pictures after they delete their accounts. I wouldn't get involved in he said, she said kind of shit.

BurnoTaurus · 2019-12-09T13:10:04+00:00

Wow and instead of just doing it you were so hesitant about the decision you came here to get other opinions?

Friendly-Casper · 2019-12-09T13:28:59+00:00

He's your friend? Then why haven't you already shown him?

Nergaal · 2019-12-09T17:58:26+00:00

always screenshot shiet like this

TheDero · 2019-12-09T18:05:55+00:00

Take a screenshot and send it to him. That's it. Just send the photo with no context and gauge his reaction.

dr_warlock · 2019-12-09T18:23:32+00:00

If they're not having sex, they're not dating. If he's not man enough to do basic escalation, he doesn't deserve a warning.

PhaedrusHunt · 2019-12-09T18:35:04+00:00

Interesting situation.

On one hand it's kind of not your business. and if I were the bigger man that's the tack that I would take.

However, trouble maker and merry prankster that I am, I would definitely stir the pot, if nothing else for the sake of my own entertainment.

So let's run through some permutations.

You don't tell the guy: -nothing happens -he finds out you knew at some point in the future and gets pissed off that you didn't tell him -You're a complete dirt ball, you fuck her and blackmail her that you're going to tell him hahaha

You DO tell the guy: -nothing happens -he dumps her makes a metamorphosis into super Chad and becomes your all-time best wingman -He cries himself to sleep as you lovingly stroke his hair -He goes through all the emotions of grief but somehow blames you and decides you're at fault. You end up in a barrel full of battery acid.

The point is no one gives a shit. You just never know in these situations. I'll give an example. As part of my friend's group in college there was a girl that was my age and a guy that was a couple of years older that were dating on and off since maybe halfway through our freshman year. This girl was a cool chick she was not a big hoe but she was definitely not a prude either. This guy however came from a really religious background and didn't want to have sex until marriage. So they're kind of on again off again and they're dating other people and when I say dating I mean he's taking girls to the movies and having clever banter and she's getting railed by hot guys.

Now this guy was in my friend's group and I like him but he always kind of got on my nerves and I definitely always saw him as beta as hell even when I didn't have the language to describe that (late 90s). She even went abroad for a full year, had her fun in Europe, meanwhile this guy's graduating working a crappy job and just kind of waiting on her to get back. They get back together her senior year. I'm actually roommates with her and one other chick so I get to see first hand the relationship for a year. she's horny as hell and he still won't fuck her. He lives about an hour away and comes out pretty much every weekend, he won't fuck her. I was pretty dumb not to in hindsight lol but honestly I'm glad I didn't because we're all still friends to this day.

We graduate. He's still never fucked her. They've been on and off for 4 years at this point and he's never fucked her. He's like 23, 24 at this point.

She eventually demands that he fucks her or she's going to break up with him. So he does, and they go on to have a presumably normal relationship.

They got married a few years ago. They've got a kid now. I'm assuming she's still the only woman he's ever fucked. They seem happy I guess.

OP, if your friend is refusing to fuck this girl somebody else is going to and he's got no one to be mad at but himself. It's not her fault she wants to have sex. Should she tell him? Yeah I guess but if he weren't such a fucking chump he wouldn't have to deal with that in the first place.

Actually the more I think about it fuck your friend. He's a little bitch and he's going to stay a little bitch.

You can try to red pill him but I think he's a little fag and you should show him this post and tell him Uncle Phaedrus thinks he should go choke on a sausage

PreEntertain · 2019-12-09T18:44:39+00:00

Swipe right and saw a piece of that ass off

Domebeers · 2019-12-09T19:44:56+00:00

Dog swipe right! if she matches you, you show your bro!

PhaedrusHunt · 2019-12-09T14:30:55+00:00

Don't tell him. In my experience guys that beta will do anything to protect their disney reality.

He wont confront her immediately, he will let it fester until it grinds away all his self confidence. Then he will confront her and she will manipulate him into believing its all one big mistake and you're trying to break them up out of jealousy.

It's your call, but I'd prepare for the day he finds out, be a bro, call the boys and take your friend out for drinks and rebuild him.

Sin-Silver · 2019-12-09T12:14:37+00:00

I believe Tindr keeps your account and advertises it even if you don’t use it. It is possible she hasn’t used it in a whilst.

no_re-entry · 2019-12-09T14:59:24+00:00

maybe they're into it...

InsidiousCurve · 2019-12-09T17:07:47+00:00

Had the same thing happen with my buddy recently, but I think he broke up with her. And now we get to see her pathetic insecure self immediately beg for attention on tinder and instagram. It's all in the pictures.

Kabuki431 · 2019-12-09T17:11:16+00:00

MYOB

Title	Friends gf on tinder
Author	RedRealer
Upvotes	91
Comments	74
Date	December 9, 2019 6:04 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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