We're talking about practice!?

Deep_Strength · 2018-09-26T19:52:44+00:00

Have you read everything on the sidebar?
Have you read, studied, and meditated on all the Scriptures about marital roles and responsibilities?
How are you leading and serving in Church?
How are you getting better at evangelizing and making disciples?
How are you using your gifts of the Spirit?

Most of the social skills, confidence, leadership skills, and things of that nature are developed by working toward God's mission.

I'm not sure why you want to continue to try to do all this peripheral stuff that may potentially get you a girl but still leave you spiritually devoid and not in a place to lead effectively anyway.

KUZURI271828 · 2018-10-01T06:14:20+00:00

Evangelizing/making disciples is a lot like sales. Improv is a fun activity that would also improve your quick thinking skills. Dancing is great for becoming comfortable in your body. Lifting and Brazillian Jiu-Jitsu are great for confidence. Although salvation through faith is the most/only confidence inspiring message out there. "I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me" Phillipians 4:13

BobbyMckee · 2018-09-26T20:35:21+00:00

what does OYS mean?

Red-Curious · 2018-09-26T22:35:08+00:00

Paging u/macmeeler

macmeeler · 2018-09-27T00:25:20+00:00

Unless you live in a society where Christians are rare, I believe you can approach and meet random women just as you would were you a secular guy. You just filter out the ones who don't align with your worldview.

You ought to be able to meet women anywhere. Coffee shop, class, gym, work, grocery store, sidewalk, it doesn't matter. I would only ever consider it "practice" if it was someone's first few approaches, because they need to get a feel for it. Beyond that, it's just "execution." You're in the game already. If you're completely new to approaching, going out with the sole intent of approaching a woman might be a good idea. Just don't tell her that's what you're doing, unless you're in a place where that's appropriate.

With regards to justifying the discipling-centered mission we often discuss and promote here, I'd recommend reading some of the content in the sidebar.

One truth is clear: Jesus' commands are meant to be followed, regardless of the number of repetitions we can find of them.

Instructing us in how to love is more an attempt at helping us orient our hearts correctly before we do anything else, while the Great Commandment is an attempt at helping us understand what we are to accomplish as Christians while we are here on Earth.

And while there may be more biblical content about love, the entirety of Jesus' lifetime paints a picture of not only love, but of making disciples in our service of God.

_Try_Try_Again_ · 2018-09-27T03:59:02+00:00

Christian women need to be games just like non-Christian women. RP is amoral, so apply your own standards to how it ends, just the sexual strategy of Christian women isn’t any different, they need tingles from their man in order to feel desire, so you need to go thru the steps to improve yourself. No one follows a loser, so make sure you’re a winner within the structure of your morals and ethics.

RedPillCoach · 2018-09-28T02:47:47+00:00

I like the question. Nothing in Scripture prohibits us from talking to women who catch our fancy and I think being a Christian, calm, stoic, strong can be very attractive to women.

we should all be disciple makers as our purpose (I will admit, I've been bad at this

There you go.

Assess your strengths but begin by shoring up your weaknesses. I think your discipleship skills might just be related to your Pickup Skills. Improve one, and you get a twofer but you probably have to improve the right one.

if it's truly what I should be doing

I wouldn't rely on Reddit for that answer. Test the spirits and prayer are better sources.

For me, I see nothing at all in Scripture prohibiting you from talking, kissing, touching, feeling, squeezing, or even fingering. There is of course some authority for engaging in intercourse while unmarried.

Talk son. It is not just practice, it is life. God said be fruitful and multiply. He didn't say elevate women to goddesses- such creatures that we dare not even talk with them. Good gravy. Perhaps you may deign to touch one of these celestial creatures one day?

Title	We're talking about practice!?
Author	BobbyMckee
Upvotes	4
Comments	24
Date	September 26, 2018 7:06 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RPChristians
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