This is just some late night philosophy, not an uegnet problem I have, just want to pick you guys’ brains on this one.
About an hour ago I had the realization that the in love feeling in the start of a relationship is never gonna come back the same way. It’s common knowledge and I knew, but now I know. It hit me quite hard as I was tickling my girlfriend of 4 years and we were laughing, weird timing to find out.
Now in fear of sounding like a beat I have to say my connection with her is deeper, so we’re evolving as a couple, and we compliment eachother nicely and I appreciate that.
I’m wondering how you who are in successful LTR’s and marriages keep the spark going. I mess around with her, tickle her, spank her randomly around the house etc. She responds well and we laugh, sex is often and great. It’s just this internal feeling I’ve been having a while.
Few stats we’re living together and have a 15month old child, she’s 23 I’m 25. Economy is good. I’m a weak bitch but look aesthetic, I’m 180cm 74kg, Benchpress 55kg x 5 Deadlift 75 x 5 squat 65 x 5