She’s entitled to a Rich guy and afraid she’s getting older and at 33 she can’t sleep. Where are all the rich good men gone? Why are guys not putting enough effort? I believe in equality but it doesn’t apply to what I want. Muh precious wedding

Pimp87 · 2020-10-11T06:13:41+00:00

Matched with 1000 guys. 1000 CC. So you mean to tell me that out of 1000 guys one wasn’t good enough? Oh I forgot, chasing them top 2% of men is a hard work. May even match 10,000 dudes and they still won’t be good enough. I don’t think she has realized the problem isn’t the guys

CuriousIncel2 · 2020-10-11T06:54:54+00:00

I'm approaching 33 now and I'm terrified

Why? I thought she "earn really well for my country". After all, isn't that what women always wanted? To become strong and independent who needs no man.

And it seems like guys don't put any effort

It's almost as if rich guys don't care about how money a woman makes. Nah just kidding, obviously guys are just trash these days.

GayyFieri · 2020-10-11T07:58:47+00:00

>guys don't want to put effort

Most men put in effort a couple of times until they learn that, no matter what they do or how kind and giving they've been they still end up accused, screamed at, physically attacked, had cops called on them, had their shit stolen, etc. After that they stop 'putting in effort' around age thirty.

From the sound of things she helped a few men get it out of their system.

agatiniwa · 2020-10-11T08:21:08+00:00

I earn really well [...] I only date men who earn more

Yet another case where women have shot themselves in the foot with the cannon that is feminism.

It has advocated for and normalized a woman earning more than many men, but it has done nothing to normalize a woman earning more than her man.

Myopic? Cognitively dissonant? Straight-up stupid? Yes to all 3.

RedditAdminsRCunts66 · 2020-10-11T09:18:25+00:00

Just FYI anyone who has spent significant time on dating apps and had 1000 of matches is a REDFLAG.

Not only because it indicates that they are either too picky or fussy or petty or whatever, but also the biggest take away is that she is now permanently damaged into believing there is this never ending catalogue of choices, so the instant she encounters something she doesn't like about you (no matter how minor) you will be sent "back to the shop" under the delusional belief she can just re-order a new/better one.

the more people date, the more damaged they become, all people are imperfect everyone has faults and flaws and issues, the more you believe you have lots of choice the less satisfied you will actually be.

be warned.

Blogginginvicecity · 2020-10-11T07:08:53+00:00

Having read couple's dynamics I only date guys earning equal or more than me.

Ah, it seems her hands are tied. Not her fault she can't get with a guy who makes less. /s

panzer22222 · 2020-10-11T08:32:49+00:00

I work and socialise with these sorts of women, successful in their field, top 10% income types, late 30s to early 40s.

After a few drinks they are pressuring me if I know any single guys. I know lots earning that sort of money, when I ask these guys if they would be interested they all just laugh, none have dated for years and very happy. These guys have never heard of MGTOW, they just got to that place themselves.

Martellus732 · 2020-10-11T06:27:36+00:00

I guess with her making good money, she can look forward to being able to afford purebred cats, non-box wine and 4K Netflix.

_Nequis_ · 2020-10-11T07:18:29+00:00

Some actionable advice would be to stop being an insufferable cunt who screens people based on income especially when she's making "good money".

MGTOWtoday · 2020-10-11T07:59:11+00:00

30-40 years from now there’s going to be a hoard of old ladies who never got married and spent the bulk of their lives alone and miserable all because they didn’t have the sense not to be the town bicycle.

fxcknorthkorea · 2020-10-11T09:13:39+00:00

Guys don’t put in much effort? Women have so many options that they put zero effort in because they simply don’t have to. 1000 matches huh. No woman is alone unless she decides to be

Daddir · 2020-10-11T09:52:23+00:00

It’s funny how women think their subjective “good salary” is what men want from them. How about naturally attractive/minimal make-up (6/10 upwards), weight/physique appropriate to their height, ability to cook/clean/launder (clothes/home) and some “good head”?

notsingle #notanincel #notawomanhater #lol

Makhmalak · 2020-10-11T08:29:14+00:00

Smart women lock down men in their 20s and not when they lost all their value(which is only looks).

urbana1 · 2020-10-11T09:10:19+00:00

They don’t even hide their gold digging, self entitled narcissism any more.

InevitableOwl1 · 2020-10-11T10:17:22+00:00

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coloradocaniac · 2020-10-11T08:49:07+00:00

"equal or more than me."

and I stop reading right there.

if I earn more than you, you'll never know about it and it's mine.

Downtowndex72 · 2020-10-11T06:25:51+00:00

Only a time machine would help you now, sweetheart

NoShitsGivenAtAll · 2020-10-11T09:55:27+00:00

"I only date guys earning equal or more than me"

Forgotten part: but I fuck every guy around me and don't count them as boyfriends.

mr_kuk · 2020-10-11T09:49:45+00:00

Rational Feminist Actionable advice: Dear slut or whatever your name is. You've gotten yourself into quite a mess. I'm here not to help you, you can't be helped. I'm here to help you rationalize your...I wouldn't call them decisions, rather impulse actions. You see, a decision requires forethought, but we're missing the point here...

You need to blame men. Men love to take the blame for everything and by love I mean they have no choice and when I say men love to take the blame I mean women love to blame men. Does it make scene? It doesn't have to, don't dwell on it. Move on to blaming the patriarchy. The patriarchy hates women and this explains why your life is not as good as and not better than EVERYONE ELSE ON THE PLANET WHICH IS YOUR RIGHT THAT THE PATRIARCHY STOLE FROM YOU!

Dear slut, never forget to slut shame younger women and blatantly display the very same sexism you claim to abhor! Call them whores, sluts, thots, Thotianas. When you name call other women, you are showing the world how much better than them you are. Hey, if it worked for Tami, it works for you.

Remember, working on yourself (you've on how many hundreds of dates without success?) and making changes are tools of the patriarchy.

asdf333aza · 2020-10-11T14:56:15+00:00

Only dates guys equal to or above her income.... Typical.

This is why guys don't care about female's career or money or financial abilities. It makes no difference to men, because women don't share their wealth with men. They hoard it like bridge trolls. You don't see Oparah Winfrey out there looking for a guy do you? She makes too much money. She has financially put herself in a position where long term dating is impossible. As women don't risk their finances and success for men.. She's not trying to be Adele. 97% of alimony payments are men paying women. Only 3% are women paying men. Vast majority of women will not be willing to financially support a man. Men on the other hand will use their wealth and finances to provide for the female and the family. The men share their good fortune with their significant others. Women don't do this. The female is morally against it. They don't want to take care of anyone, they want to be taken care of.

These females will exclude guys based on their own achievements in life. And after spending 10 years of life excluding 90% of guys they end up 30+ and hit the wall. Then comes the harsh realization that they have to fight 100% of all women, even the younger and less successful women for the top 10% of guys. And because female success and finances don't matter to men, those younger girls are waaaayyyy more attractive as a partner than these 30+ career oriented women. And that's just talking about careers and success, by that age she's likely to be fat and have kids by some other dude and still be demanding a hvm's attention.

silly_birb · 2020-10-11T07:31:02+00:00

We should by stocks of some pharmaceutical company that sells good antidepressant.

TachyonPhoenix · 2020-10-11T09:16:28+00:00

Clearly has a lack of insight that her wants exceed her value to the fantasy men she thinks exists..... They probably don't exist, if they do, why would they be on a bloody dating app

evergreen35 · 2020-10-11T12:42:50+00:00

Matched with 1000's and cannot find a single good man? The problem is YOU. More proof that women are incapable of Love.

CentralAdmin · 2020-10-11T13:42:22+00:00

She wants actionable advice now?!

The train has left the station and she's only trying to buy a ticket now. Why wasn't she asking for actionable advice a decade ago?

Let's assume maturity is the issue, as in when people claim they were too immature to figure out what they wanted. Then why does she deserve to have her desires met if she took so long to mature? Is the world supposed to wait for her to figure out what she wants? And y'all know had it been an immature man, women would be shitting all over him for not growing up.

Out of 1000 guys, even if she dated the top 1% she'd still have her pick of 10 men. No man is that lucky with women unless he's top 1% material himself.

This is a woman who is still in denial about what her value is and hasn't yet accepted that she'd need to lower her standards to have a glimmer of hope at seeing her dream come to fruition.

It's almost as if women have placed such a high price on access to sex with them that the men who show interest don't qualify by default. This woman already believes she deserves a man who earns more than she does but hasn't figured out she's aiming too high. Do women not see the indirect prostitution going on here?

Magicus1 · 2020-10-11T13:44:56+00:00

Okay, so some engineer math here...

She said thousands... this means that by her wording, it’s at least 2,000 unsuccessful dates.

This is 0.05%, which means she’s looking for someone rarer than 500 in 1M.

To put it another way, in wealth, 0.01% of the top US high incomes have a net worth of more than $100M.

I’m sure that she’s probably not looking for that kind of guy (but it wouldn’t hurt), she’s probably looking for Doctor Love.

Even if she’s just exaggerating (which I’m sure she is), it just shows that she’s been on a ton of dates and has a checklist that she’s going off to find her potential suitor.

The biggest one is earning power.

I don’t know what that is, but let’s put it at a reasonable number that’s relatively high — $80k/year pre-tax.

In 2019, the range of how much your average plumber made was between $46k - $78k.

Even a plumber who can make a killing isn’t good enough for her.

This woman is not grounded in reality.

Especially if you consider that she is at the end of her fertility cycle and she’s closing fast on the high risk pregnancy years.

In fact, even if she meets a quality guy with a good head on his shoulders at 33, she’s gotta get to know him & he’s gotta get to know her and they need to meet their respective families.

This means the first kid is pooped out at 35, maybe late 34. The second kid will be a high risk pregnancy.

Does not bode well for her...

Miserable-Lemon · 2020-10-11T13:12:28+00:00

Matched with... thousands. Machine tenderized meat see less action than her vagina

therealpkg · 2020-10-11T07:33:30+00:00

Actionable advice? Lol, might I recommend a time machine 😂

TheTastelessBatman · 2020-10-11T11:18:18+00:00

Some actionable advice? Adopt multiple cats, bitch.

MathematicSchematic · 2020-10-11T10:32:29+00:00

Lmao

Dumloko · 2020-10-11T15:03:51+00:00

I had always dreamt of my wedding [...]

The party day is the only thing in the mind of this kind of women. They never invest two braincells to think about the marriage itself, a lifelong commitment to the guy she's meeting at the altar.

I can bet all my money that a married life with this woman, instead of a dream, would be a nightmare.

someevilwhitemen · 2020-10-11T12:03:20+00:00

i like cats !! beautiful creatures , i would advice her to take care of some cats, nowadays she can even marry a cat if she wants the wedding

you're welcome honey problem solved ;)

Redhood616 · 2020-10-11T13:56:54+00:00

Potentially 1000 dicks. Holy fuck, that’s not the cock carousal, that’s the cock carnival

Also notice how she only talks about a wedding but no mention of a marriage. This further prove women want children but don’t want to be mothers, they want a wedding but don’t want to be married.

Chemical_Karma · 2020-10-11T14:10:45+00:00

Actionable advice:

Dear whore for tingles,

Maybe if you would have picked someone you wouldn't have these issues.

You are inhuman and lack the ability to bond with someone and you lack emotion and emotional content in your life.

You have fucked everyone in town and demand more. It doesn't work that way. You wasted your life, and there is no going back now.

Suffer!

Just do it in silence so we don't have to hear you mewling.

0mrcynic0 · 2020-10-11T15:04:30+00:00

I bet when she finally dates a god-tier man that exceeds all of the qualities that she likes about a guy, she'll still call him a piece of shit. You've been matched with 1000 men and you can't find even one that's good enough for you? If you're always worried every day about not getting in a relationship, that alone speaks volumes of how pathetic you really are inside.

TheApricotCavalier · 2020-10-11T16:11:46+00:00

Actionable advice? Change who you are

Preoximerianas · 2020-10-11T15:42:50+00:00

been on so many dates matched with 1000s of guys

Aside from everything else, lady, if you haven’t found anybody after 1000s of guys the problem isn’t dudes.

It’s you.

couple dynamics

ffs 🤣

Captainbuttman · 2020-10-11T14:12:55+00:00

I almost feel bad for her because she doesn’t really have any good moves. If she tries to date a man earning less than her, her hamster will spin herself into a frenzy and eventually leave. And continuing to chase after guys earning more than her just wont work because its such a small pool of men especially considering that they would probably prefer younger women.

Who wants to bet that she won’t get any good advice like get a lower paying job? Lol nobody would do that it’s financial suicide.

RealMcGonzo · 2020-10-11T15:46:29+00:00

She's got the primary attributes she's looking for (high income, high self confidence, no-nonsense, can-do attitude, don't take shit from anybody, has to have things her way, etc.) So why in the world can't she find a guy with all that who's also 6 feet tall, competes in Iron Man competitions and wants to immediately marry and have kids?

Boy, it's a huge mystery. If only there were some websites or forums that discuss this. Darn. Oh well, better head over to Dating After 30. Maybe some comisery and incel-shaming will help.

Overkillengine · 2020-10-12T01:58:04+00:00

A man that wants healthy children and a healthy mate and is willing to commit to a relationship or marriage to get it, is not going to pick a 33 year old over a 23 year old without some heavily mitigating circumstances.

Statistically she is going to be less healthy and fertile than younger women who also want the same things in a man that she wants.

So due to age alone she is going to be out-competed by them when it comes to male allocation of effort and attention.

She either needs to massively up her non fertility related offerings as she ages (and they have to be things that men would want), or lower her expectations in men, or keep ending up exactly as she is now.

Alone.

Quod erat demonstrandum.

NosniboR_Tommy · 2020-10-12T12:08:55+00:00

'Looking for some actionable advice here'... stop demanding that men earn equal to or more than you because it makes you look like a gold digger.

KingRobotPrince · 2020-10-13T02:29:29+00:00

Having read couple's dynamics I only date guys earning equal or more than me. I earn really well for my country.

Translation: I'm only attracted to guys that make more money than me. Even though I earn enough money that it isn't even a practical requirement that he has more money than me. I found a book that agrees with me and gave me justification and now I pretend that I made a conscious choice and it isn't just a shallow judgement that I should try and work through if I ever want to be happy.

Massacher · 2020-10-14T07:13:34+00:00

"I'm tired of dating". Then why is she bothering?

uberduger · 2020-10-17T02:27:39+00:00

I only date guys earning equal or more than me.

Girl, you wanted equality. What if a guy only wants to date girls who earn the same as or more than him? That means you and he can only date if you earn exactly the same.

AdeptBerry · 2020-10-11T10:58:52+00:00

It's "couple's dynamics a specific book?" or???

newaccttrial · 2020-10-11T12:17:16+00:00

Eh, I wouldnt want to date down either. Being someone's ATM or benefactor doesn't appeal to me.

Not looking for financial control of anyone either.

I'd want someone equal as well.

Taeqwondeles · 2020-10-11T15:19:30+00:00

looks falling off a cliff, wrinkles impossible to hide, gut expanding, ovaries drying/dried up, chad nowhere in sight. lmao. it is hilarious to watch women go through this by the million.

sve2104 · 2020-10-11T15:32:33+00:00

Ahh... another woman who thinks her marriage is special...She does know that the so called effort goes both ways right?

Bobolink911 · 2020-10-11T16:20:57+00:00

"This does put a smile on my face"

Rayzor_debiker · 2020-10-11T16:57:04+00:00

It's as if men don't want a strong, independent woman.

Gasp

Old_snowboarder · 2020-10-11T17:09:27+00:00

When she said 'I'm looking for some actionable advice' she wasn't actually being serious.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-10-11T17:10:44+00:00

bad boi: "AYO LEMME SMASH"

her: WAP

2020-10-11T17:28:01+00:00

lmao, "actionable"

That right there should tell you exactly what this woman is, a career woman to avoid.

Tsnacker77 · 2020-10-11T23:33:46+00:00

Earning "equal or more"

The womens rights movement brought us here. Thanks Beta Bucks!

kokofiki · 2020-10-12T00:27:11+00:00

Actionable advice: Buy a litter of cats.

Ishabaka · 2020-10-12T22:02:05+00:00

Note: she always dreamt of HER wedding, she never dreamt of her husband.

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notsingle #notanincel #notawomanhater #lol