Dipped into the DOT sub...Been a while, it is still hilarious. Guy friend rightly concerned that his female friend is talking to a taken dude since his FB showed 'in a relationahip with'...but nah, OP is a stalker and WHaT iF He Is PolY or FOrgOT to UpDaTE hIS staTUs!

Not sure what it is with people on datingoverthirty and giving endless 'benefits of the doubts' and shutting down anyone who suspects shady behaviour.

Starting to think many people on DOT have and still engage in similarly shady behaviours, hence their justification/minimisation/rationalisations. Or are the opposite - naive and lacking in hard boundaries.