So called sluts have better lives than the good girls

wtknight · 2020-10-17T15:36:30+00:00

It depends upon what one's definition of fun is. Having strangers' penises inside oneself every weekend isn't fun to many women. Sluts who don't go into prostitution and monetize their fun are just dumb.

HatezWomenzCuzIncelz · 2020-10-17T18:14:02+00:00

Agreed. Men who cheat on and lie to women have better lives as well. Being a nice guy is unrewarding as fuck. It's a shit life.

Atlas__B__Shruggin · 2020-10-17T15:38:33+00:00

Why do women think the only way to have fun is being a whore?

SecondHandMatron · 2020-10-17T16:15:34+00:00

No, the ones winning are the ones in meaningful relationships already in their twenties.

Learning to adult, traveling, and so on in your twenties is ridiculously important for the relationship in your thirties, having children, and so on.

When you're older, there are no excuses, you have to be full adult from day one. If both parties already experienced being dumb or naive together, there is nothing to hide or be ashamed about.

beigesun · 2020-10-17T17:00:18+00:00

Whole heartedly agree.

Once I took the feminism pill and stopped giving a fuck what people think - I embraced sluttery and I'm having the time of my life. There's so many gorgeous, hunky men out there and I can have them all nom nom nom.

Chaddamhusein · 2020-10-17T15:28:12+00:00

Cope.

TheBookOfSeil · 2020-10-17T16:23:42+00:00

You mean people who are care-free and erratic/potentially mentally unstable have better lives than people who are self-aware, stable and have chosen to pursue a more sustainable and healthy life for themselves?

Hmmmmmmm.........

Saint_Coomercel · 2020-10-17T19:27:02+00:00

Imagine thinking that the deciding factor between fun is having sex.

I'd dare to say that having a quality and bonding relationship with one person on more than a sexual level is about 100x more fun.

But yeah if your entire view on life is sex and how many times you get bent over by different guys..

ElectricNerples · 2020-10-17T15:30:32+00:00

It's not like you get points for being sexually repressed. Sex is fun, you can make sure it's safe, and having different partners teaches you to be better at it and enjoy it more. Guys who top, probably even need that practice more than anybody. It's kind of amazing seeing some guys in porn who have sex like a fuck machine, utterly passionless, they might as well be humping a fleshlight, for as much awareness of their partner as they show.

beigesun · 2020-10-17T16:34:45+00:00

I think it depends on what you want from life.

I've never enjoyed being slutty and I have always prioritized meaningful relationships over casual ones. I got married when I was 20 to an amazing man and I can tell you that my life is 100% better now than it was in college.

We have way more money to do fun things and my husband fucks me perfectly since we've had so much practice. I don't have to waste my time on some random dude that can't make me orgasm when I have my husband.

My husband is also provides me with a very strong support network. I have someone with me that supports me and loves me all the time. This is an amazing feeling. It's way better than having a string of fuckboys in your DMs all the time.

_mwk · 2020-10-17T15:32:50+00:00

if the good girls have good friends, they do just fine and have fun with their good friends

2020-10-17T20:39:45+00:00

while the men got away with murder

Only a small percentage got to actually fuck around, most average men never got passed 7 partners. But you’re right it seems like a fun life

ThisIsMyAccount135 · 2020-10-17T15:30:13+00:00

Good girls are usually a little lonely in college. After college they find a good job, a high quality bf who they are emotionally intimate with, and get fucked well by him every night.

Sluts fuck everything in college and get blackout drunk, destroying their bodies.

2020-10-17T15:37:19+00:00

Living authentically to your true desires is what's a "better life". You're assuming all "good girls" (your words) authentically want to be sluts, and also assuming that all sluts authentically want to be sluts.

Ercole_ · 2020-10-17T15:50:07+00:00

What good girls?

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TheBookOfSeil · 2020-10-17T16:14:12+00:00

Maybe initially but they usually have it harder as they get older, unless they can conceal the fact that they were "so called sluts" from their partners.

2020-10-17T17:16:56+00:00

I don't think sluts have better life then "good girls", not even close, but I definitely can say whores have better life then both of them, cuz they are fully exploiting their pussy power. and by whores I mean sugar babies, gold diggers etc, not necessarily escorts. Unless "good girl" is married to millionaire.

2020-10-17T17:20:07+00:00

I'm not a slut, I thing that casual sex is gross. But I do have fun in my life and I'm not a good girl, meaning I don't want to just get married, forget about myself, submit and serve.

I think that "good girls" made a shitty deal, but fucking around would not be any better (making a man orgasm is not that great). You can have a great life without becoming a submissive doormat, and without being a slut.

That being said, I don't think that women who fuck around focus on just that. They probably have time for themselves, work, have hobbita, have a social life and don't have a husband who expects sandwiches and blowjobs without pleasing their wifes. So I guess I agree.

silentium-est_aureum · 2020-10-17T17:35:54+00:00

Okay so youre saying that a woman that doesn't respect herself enough to sleep with men she cares about, is constantly putting herself in danger of STDs and STIs oh and also pregnancy is having a fun life. You think only fun in life is meaningless sex with people that don't know you enough to know what you like. Woman already don't orgasm during sex with their long term partners, what makes you think she will with someone who doesn't know shit about her. To be completely honest I feel super sorry for you. You obviously have a very sad life.

Returnofthemack3 · 2020-10-17T18:01:22+00:00

A relatively small percentage of men ' get away with murder' as far as the smp is concerned, but ok

SlutsHaveDaddyIssues · 2020-10-17T18:06:39+00:00

Untrue. Just look at r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen. Ewww sluts!

Grand_Duty · 2020-10-17T18:38:32+00:00

Women who have had 10 or more sexual partners face DOUBLE the risk of cancer because of STIs and because promiscuous people drink and smoke more, study claims Among men, those who had 10+ lovers had 69% higher chance of cancer later In women, those who said they had had 10 or more lovers were 91% more likely Those numbers compared to those who reported having one or no partners

People in the study, which was published in the journal BMJ Sexual and Reproductive Health, had an average age of 64 and most were married.

The most common category for both sexes was one or no sexual partners – 785 out of 2,537 men and 1,285 out of 3,185 women.

In both sexes, people with a more colourful sexual history also tended to be younger, single and in either the richest or the poorest communities.

And those who reported a higher tally of sexual partners were also more likely to smoke, drink frequently, and do more vigorous physical activity on a weekly basis, the study found.

https://srh.bmj.com/content/46/2/100

Yuppies get on my nerves. High N count leads to divorce and cancer!

[Thank God it's Purge Week] Saying you know happily married promiscuous women is like saying I know an Black American father who is still in their children lives, I know of those cases too, but by in large the statistics show that promiscuous cheat and divorce and black Americans don't have fathers present.

It's like saying "Well, I know Gay people in Nebraska!", yes me too, but the general trend and the statical majority shows that they are in San Fransico, Toronoto, New York, Los Angelos, etc.

Ecocavalry · 2020-10-17T19:27:49+00:00

If you want to murder, nobody is stopping you. Don't blame others for your own choices. Don't blame others for the consequences of your choices.

2020-10-17T20:36:11+00:00

There are no good girls.

DownVotesWrongsOnly · 2020-10-18T00:59:58+00:00

Really? 150 comments and not a single "The wall is undefeated"? I'm disappointed

AnonPinkLady · 2020-10-18T07:54:26+00:00

It's completely true and I've given up holding myself to perfect standards for nonexistent rewards. Now I flirt with whoever I want and sell my nudes and could give less of shit. Dont hate the player hate the game as they say for men and honestly playing that game really is advantageous for me too. I get what I want and I write my own rules and I havent met a man yet that liked me any less for it. If anything me having the freedom to date, flirt, fuck and drop man at any time and as many as I want at a time, just makes them jealous of each other and vying harder for me. Honestly being the good girl is like dropping your life's savings on the first nice car you see instead of taking every car in the lot for a test drive. You'll do a lot less driving in general and sure it might be a great car that you end up with but you wont get to ever find that better car that would really make you happy.

Copperstoner · 2020-10-18T11:45:58+00:00

Depends on their personality and world view.

If a good girl ends up in LTR with a good guy, then both can be happy as long as it works out. There a various reason why it can fail, but that is just life. Would this be the right thing for a "slut"? No, but a the life of "slut" wouldn't bring much joy to a good girl.

Just choose what you want from life and go for it.

Known-Algae-923 · 2020-12-16T10:00:52+00:00

I’ll preface by stating I think casual sex is overrated and not worthwhile to me personally. However I realised at a young age that being a “good woman” does not guarantee getting a great guy. Thus I live my life allowing myself to make choices/mistakes, to learn, grow and to change in response.

sinfulthep · 2020-10-17T16:07:57+00:00

This is a lie, a slut can never be in a committed relationship ever. She has maybe 5 years of a slut phase and the rest of her life is ruined

PickleLine · 2020-10-17T16:53:36+00:00

A lot of women can't actually be sluts because they don't have the ability to let loose, can't handle the transientness and chaos of the partying life and need structure in their lives.

PickUpScientist · 2020-10-17T17:18:34+00:00

football players have a lot more fun in highschool than computer nerds. unfortunately though, there is limited use for football playing abilities in a corporate landscape.

it is sometimes advisable to delay gratification for a benefit that is exponentially greater in the end.

Title	So called sluts have better lives than the good girls
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Date	October 17, 2020 3:20 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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