***edit: here is the book below. I am also not done adding to this post, but haven't had time to finish yet

http://bookofpook.neocities.org/

I'm posting these just as a way to get people to understand what the book is about and actually go read it. Before I gave it a chance, I thought it was just about PUA which is why I avoided it. It is he exact opposite of PUA. This "book" or collection of posts is gold and everyone should read it.

I'm posting from my phone so this isn't going to be organized neatly. I took a few key points from each chapter (that I thought were important and basically summarized the chapter in a couple points/sentences). Each key point is separated by just a semicolon.

  • Advice for a suffering newb: be willing to walk away; use gifts as a REWARD only

  • Lesson 1: take action, do not hesitate; rejection is better than regret; you must approach; the choice of inaction is more painful than action

  • Lesson 2: do things with your woman, don't sit around and talk; avoid the friend zone by not listening to all of her problems

  • Lesson 3: judge her by her actions and not her words; women say what we want to hear; if you get stood up on a date, but she agrees to another, remember her previous actions

  • Lesson 4: patience is the refined sense of confidence; you know you area great catch so you are not worried about other guys flirting with women in your presence; the guys that can get women are not scared when other guys are hitting on women

  • Lesson 5: listen to your gut; if a woman is throwing herself at you and you find her attractive and want her, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT (escalate); do not constantly ignore or she will lose interest

  • Lesson 6: always work to improve yourself- learn, travel, workout, make money, have fun; you are the prize, but that DOES NOT MEAN SETTLE FOR WHAT YOU ARE; always improve yourself for YOU; do not get too comfortable, comfort is the death of you

  • Lesson 7: have respect for yourself and be willing to walk away; set boundaries and even if she is your gf, don't start doing whatever she asks

  • Lesson 8: don't be afraid to be a man and express your sexuality; women are sexual creatures; talk like a guy and act like a guy

  • Lesson 9: get out and be naturally confident; don't follow a formula or guide you read; get ideas, but don't constantly read without action

  • Lesson 10: in order to be successful in the world, you must be successful in your mind; confidence produces prince charming, prince charming does not produce confidence

  • Lesson 11: getting a girl is not success, but getting a girl who truly likes you is success; a woman who likes you will be flexible and not break dates; you pick the girl; failure is not being alone, but being in a relationship where she has no true interest in you

  • Lesson 12: live out your imagination; do not be fake and hold yourself back to please a woman; do not let other people live your life for you

  • Lesson 13: charm is treating women like little girls- make fun of her, play with her, take her by the hand and lead her somewhere; young kids before puberty are the perfect example of how to treat a woman- run around, they do not sit and talk all night, they have their cars, dangers, excitements; the attitude in the sandbox is exactly the attitude you need now; think young and live

  • Lesson 14: date many women at once; if you only date one, you will fall for her too quickly; date many until you find the one that can join you in your life; have a backup chick

  • Lesson 15: take risks; "opportunities are disguised as impossible situations."

  • What every skinny guy should know: fucking lift

  • Perfect is boring: girls on dating shows choose horny guys acting like a two year old over a perfect player (in other words, be human, not perfect)

  • Secret of the jerk: testosterone is the secret, they don't suppress it; women are attracted to men with high T; embrace your T, but control it (don't be a criminal); work out, join a sport, eat more, don't take yourself so seriously

  • Fountain of youth: remember how you played, teased, and acted with girls when you were a young boy? That's exactly how you should act with women as a man

  • Kill that desperation: the key to killing desperation is to THINK and BELIEVE that you are the catch, the prize; don't give a woman a reason to think that she is better than you; don't give her too much attention, don't call all the time, don't tell them everything about yourself, don't always be available, always be willing to walk away

  • Embracing sexuality: don't try to destroy your T or suppress your natural sexuality

  • Eliminate desire or not: live, laugh, love; get your life together, make yourself happy, THEN go for the chicks

  • Romanticism- the obituary: marriages are held together by comradery, not romance; weddings are not love

  • Let yourself fail: failure is a necessary component of growth; allow yourself to fail, don't constantly read self help or how to act on a date; do not get trapped in the tortuous cycle of devouring more and more info with no action; do not intend to fail, but LET yourself fail; take action- risk is the key to self improvement; nice guys are nice because they don't want to fail; TAKE ACTION AND STOP READING

  • Aim high: the high standards you apple to your desires must be applied to yourself; improve yourself, work on your goals and dreams; there are no leagues, get what you want but improve yourself to get it

  • On kino: women reflect what you do, so if you touch her nervously then she will feel uncomfortable; go in knowing you already have her so you can have fun and touch confidently

  • What I've learned: go for the number, go for the date; don't talk about yourself, be a mystery; demand respect; don't be afraid to disagree; women are never the priority; be yourself (with self improvement) and have fun; the goal is to NOT make every chick like you, the goal is to make yourself like you; have fun and don't see approaching a chick as a chore, but an opportunity for FUN

  • As you think, you shall become: your destiny depends on what you think; nice guy=boring dinner dates; player=always tries to control the chick, remains a mystery forever, never gets love; DON JUAN=you are the prize and you give off the feeling unconsciously because you are what you think

  • Be a man: women want a guy with a backbone, a guy who will be successful, and a guy who is decisive; don't vomit your feelings and emotions all over the place; just be a man, no need to change your nature, no need to get the rule book out on how to get laid, be natural and have fun; a MAN is a guy who is not afraid of his testosterone; a man follows his passions in life (not just chasing women), he can sometimes come off as arrogant and egotistical, but doesn't apologize for this and his desires; women are to enhance your life, not be it; nice guys, stop placeing your happiness on getting a GF; jerk, quit wasting your life on seduction, don't spend your entire time chasing girls, invest it into your interest and desires

  • Do girls want sovereignty: girls are attracted to your world- passion, goals, your friends, what you do for fun; please yourself and not the woman

  • Feeling down about your love life: the problem is you place your happiness on a girl; be happy, single first and then get a girl; endulge in your passions and work; TAKE ACTION; jerks are not really confident, they put on a show by being aggressive constantly; fear not having no intimacy right now, for with your mindset and skills will ensure you luxurious intimacy for the course of your life

  • Habit is all: a Don Juan is a sum of correct habits; make it a habit to be social, talk to girls, look for dates; be consistent and form good habits- working out, talking to people, etc; create goals and set a TIME DEADLINE, otherwise they are just dreams; focus on the habit, not on the girls; consistency is crucial; habit is the child of mindset, and this is how you think you shall become

  • Let's just be friends: nice guys have fun just being around a hot chick, Don Juan has fun DOING things with the hot chick

  • On mystery: the less she knows the better; don't WITHHOLD information, but make her WORK to get it out; constant changing and self improvement keep you a mystery

  • On patience: hold back your desire for a GF, don't smother and want to marry after a couple of dates; don't thrown too much affection too soon; patience is NOT inaction, but controlling your eagerness; have fun and don't take your outings so seriously; stop appearing desperate; if a woman calls your name, don't immediately stop what you're doing

  • Ooh la la:

This is taking a lot longer than expected...I will edit in the other chapters tomorrow!