Why do girls cheat because of “female nature/psychology” but guys don’t ?

theRedFundamentals · 2020-11-28T16:31:20+00:00

The average guy doesn’t have even half as many options to cheat as an average woman.

If guys got as much attention for existing as women did, we’d cheat 2x as often.

babayega · 2020-11-28T17:58:40+00:00

People cheat when they have more, better options. That’s why you have average girls cheatin because they have a platoon of guys available. That’s also why you see male athletes and male celebrities in such scandals: because, unlike the average male, they have a shit ton of options

Parkin_Wafer · 2020-11-28T21:14:17+00:00

Guys cheat as well but women have more options than the average dude

Bootywarrior369 · 2020-11-28T19:29:15+00:00

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WeddingCrasher91 · 2020-11-28T21:19:34+00:00

If most guys had the same options girls had, they would cheat. Average girls get so many guys it's fucking scary.

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2020-11-28T20:59:52+00:00

Bc bitches ain't shit but hoes with a bag full of tricks.

BarcaLiverpool · 2020-11-28T19:18:49+00:00

How can you say guys don’t cheat when literally this sub preaches to keep gaming woman even during an LTR.

willwang2020 · 2020-11-28T18:25:59+00:00

Chads don’t needa cheat since girls chasing them. Normal guys have not enough chance to cheat. Not saying we live in a BP reality and males have the nature to benefit females.

daproest1 · 2020-11-28T20:50:23+00:00

Yeah men have this nature BUT...

Men have less opportunity than women
Men are better at NOT giving into their fEeLiNgS just for the sake of it. That’s exclusive to children and women. Not men. We’re taught since we’re little boys to control ourselves. To control our anger. Our aggression. Our hyperactivity. Our rebellion. Basically most of our natural instincts. The list goes on and on. So we grow up used to having to check ourselves. This doesn’t apply to girls. Sadly.

Future_Fisherman · 2020-11-28T17:07:19+00:00

guys do cheat literally all the time. especially gays they are notoriously promiscuous and sexually aggressive.

ay-fuh-q · 2020-11-28T19:03:39+00:00

I’d say guys and girls cheat about the same. The main difference is, the ugliest of women can get SOME guy to fuck them or at least suck their dick.

The ugliest dude has prostitution options only.

And, biologically, men want to spread their seed far and wide.

SkyluxTM · 2020-11-28T23:11:55+00:00

Bro. "Naturally" it is the other way round. Us men are programmed to spread our seeds far and wide. Women are meant to find the man with the best genes, the "alpha" secure him and have a kid with him. Girls nowadays cheat of different reasons, the main one reason that she has so damn many high quality options to chose from.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2020-11-28T16:38:35+00:00

Of course, but I don't date/fuck other men, so not my problem. YMMV.

SliceBeast6339 · 2020-11-28T20:43:36+00:00

It’s an instinctual thing. Think about it. In a tribe or a pack, the alpha male has a following of males and females, now in the animal kingdom usually the males would fight and whoever was victorious often gained the females from the losing pack as they would gravitate towards the more dominant alpha male. It works the exact same in human nature except instead of fighting it’s a subconscious process where a female may find a man who’s more of an Alpha than you are and as a result she wants to live in his frame and experience his emotional journey with him. This is why increasing your SMV works and why focussing on your own journey is so much more important than focussing on women. You’re on your purpose and you have a high value to show for it as a result women follow and would cheat on their current man to experience you and join your pack per se.

2020-11-29T00:16:01+00:00

People cheat when they think they can do better and are faced with opportunity.

The only time I was (sexually) talking with multiple girls when I was single. It's just the way I was raised. Call me cuck all you want, but I just can't do it. That does not mean that I burned all bridges when in a relationship. I just knew my boundaries just as I expected them from my LTR.

I've "cheated" when the LTR wasn't really a LTR, but a shitfest of manipulation and frustrating. But right now? I don't really have any urge to talk to any girl. Never been more content and relaxed in my life before than now.

WonderfulPipe · 2020-11-28T21:47:15+00:00

Both men and women cheat but women have more chances

/thread

Metallicabody · 2020-11-28T23:22:53+00:00

I actually remember reading a statistic on this.

Women cheat more than men before the age of 30

Men cheat more than women after the age of 30

It really ties into what a lot of people are saying, women seem like they cheat more because they have more options, which, they do especially during their younger years, hence why they cheat more.

The older humans get however men (generally) will have somewhat more options, while women will have much lower options when they’re 40+ especially if they have children and need to settle.

Withered_One · 2020-11-29T01:32:49+00:00

I'm still a virgin at 22 and I definitely want to fuck more than one girl. It would be ironic if a girl who's been fucked many times would expect me to settle for her body for the rest of my life

Erwinblackthorn · 2020-11-29T09:16:00+00:00

Women cheat because the man doesn't give them a challenge. When the man is weak and the woman is able to walk all over them, they go ahead and take advantage in a desperate attempt to make the man fight for his manhood and his dominant spot in the relationship.

Men cheat because they wanted some strange. But for most dudes, the cost of strange is worth less than hunkering down and playing video games.

Filmguy000 · 2020-11-29T15:05:07+00:00

Almost all girls can cheat quickly if they so choose. Most men don't have many options besides their LTR. We live in an era where a having a cell phone will get obese women laid within a day.

Noodlesoupe2 · 2020-11-29T16:50:39+00:00

Men actually cheat more when they get older. Younger women have more opportunities to cheat.

BestVersionOfMyself_ · 2020-11-30T18:39:13+00:00

Men has the "be protective" instinct while women has the "chose the best" instinct. I think it has something to do with: Men love women, women love children, children love animals.

You are just a good position for her, while she is a loved one for you.

2020-11-28T22:33:55+00:00

Why guys don’t cheat

theredsperg · 2020-11-29T16:53:33+00:00

men are stupid and loyal

ogpine0325 · 2020-11-28T22:02:57+00:00

Guys don't cheat? Really. What kind of fucking incel wrote this

deeredman1991 · 2020-11-28T21:35:15+00:00

Lack of access and avoiding the risk of losing his girlfriend. A guy who expects to go out, approach 100 girls, and get rejected 100 times isn't going to risk the news getting back to his girlfriend, especially if he lives in a small town. Typically your top 20%ers will spin many plates. Let's not forget, men are approaching them too, not the other way around, if women approached us; (which I think we need to normalize, since they are going to experience way less rejection) things might be different.

cunningcaring · 2020-11-28T21:43:23+00:00

More men cheat than women.

DrMaryStone · 2020-11-28T22:25:57+00:00

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black_decay · 2020-11-28T20:35:21+00:00

Don't know about other guys but I've cheated on her with so many I haven't kept a count either and she thinks I'm the most loving, loyal guy ever

AngTheEphemeral · 2020-11-28T23:25:32+00:00

I can't find the source for it right now, but I remember reading that something like 80% of both married men and women would be willing to cheat if they were 100% sure that they could get away with it. If you're asking why it's more common for women to cheat, like everyone else said, because they have way more opportunities on average.

babebambi · 2020-11-29T02:26:04+00:00

Really interested in how OP get such idea 😃😄

Title	Why do girls cheat because of “female nature/psychology” but guys don’t ?
Author	TheCrusaders510
Upvotes	79
Comments	58
Date	November 28, 2020 4:26 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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