Average men of PPD: do you think you’re inferior to Chad?

PPD-Angel · 2020-02-11T23:18:35+00:00

To trollish. Removed.

NOTSM · 2020-02-11T22:58:25+00:00

This isn't how men work, we don't look at other men and think "he's better than me in every way"

"Chad" is clearly better than me at getting women, I'm better in other areas.

2020-02-11T23:11:32+00:00

People get old, it is temporary shit.

abaxeron · 2020-02-11T23:12:10+00:00

I "don't see myself in comparison"; I actively exclude such people (who surpass me in everything with no chance for me to ever catch up) from my circle. Even if they like me and want to be friends. I hate being the useless one.

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WOLFofwallstrYEET · 2020-02-11T22:53:19+00:00

Being around Physically intimidating men always puts other men at risk of displaying non dominant behavior, that doesn’t necessarily mean that much though.

the_calibre_cat · 2020-02-11T22:59:21+00:00

I am definitely insecure about being around Chads, and I know some. Never heard of "being mogged", but generally I can keep pride in myself, but also recognize when I'm not the center of attention.

Barely-moral · 2020-02-11T23:03:50+00:00

how do you see yourself in comparison? Do you see him as superior to yourself?

By definition, he is.

If you had to be around him, do you think you’d subconsciously show signs of being mogged (bowing your head, closing up, deferring to him etc)?

Quite likely. That is the reason I avoid those people. I don't like competition. I would rather be in a market in which I am the best option available. When choosing between changing the place I play in and trying to improve and compete with those people one option is clearly easier.

Do you believe that you’re less of a man than he is?

No. All adult males that are economically independent are equally "men" by my definition. I am less attractive than him though. No point in denying the obvious.

That being said "chad" is pretty much a platonic ideal. Few men can be considered chads and even those men aren't chad all the time.

MrHerbSherman · 2020-02-11T23:03:52+00:00

Nah, I live a life I’m proud of and that’s what matters to me

Emervila · 2020-02-11T23:04:50+00:00

I'm sincerely way less attractive than him BUT my value as a person is not less than his and I get to be happy living my life the best I can.

I don't see him as the pinnacle of humanity. The human essence is way more than looks but he is the breadwinner in the SMP, his king among women and will remain like that until the next cultural revolution comes.

When I'm around synthetic alphas it's like nothing. They get I'm different (I'm sigma) so they won't pick on me or bully me or any aggression would be involved but they also get I won't be a thread since pussy will be always his. I usually don't feel a woman who falls for Chad that easy as a subject of interest to me. I care and like for women who take their time to meet the person behind the looks (they are really rare) so it's like we don't compete for the same but also they actually don't care that much since they can get pussy anywhere. If you get to befriend with a Chad, they tend to spare some pussy for friends if you meet a nice Chad.

xXxINCELFAGGOTxXx · 2020-02-11T23:08:56+00:00

If he's physically "bigger, faster, stronger" then yes, obviously. I mean, that's non-debatable.

jax006 · 2020-02-11T23:11:57+00:00

I am obviously inferior to "Chads" when it comes to getting girls, ya. He is more handsome, taller, in better shape, more confident, more charasmatic, not as boring

But we're discussing real people, not pipe dreams. I have known "Chad" type guys. I was better than basically all of them at plenty; I'm financially savvier, have a wider breadth of knowledge, am more educated, have cooler hobbies, I get more PTO and get to do really cool shit at my job

Sometimes it's hard on PPD to really give the kind of weight to non-sexual aspects of life that they actually deserve, due to the point of the sub itself. Sure I dont slay puss, but my life is pretty decent

DangZagnut · 2020-02-11T23:15:03+00:00

"Chad" is a meme, not a reality.

I don't feel inferior to memes made up by incels as a response to the lack of their succeess.

Also, someone has to be pretty sad to care who is and who isn't fucking. Go hire a prostitute if it bothers you so much, you have an entire planet to explore. You don't need to be so pedestrian that all you see on the entire planet is things to stick your dick in.

NockerJoe · 2020-02-11T23:15:07+00:00

Not really. Once you hang around the kinds of dude that would qualify as "Chad" you realize very quickly their lives aren't all they're cracked up to be. Tall photogenic white dudes are still getting catfished on Tinder, and still going after uggos IME. The athletic ones also realize how much of their attention and lifestyle is based on their body and their workout schedule can be regular and expansive enough to consume much of their free time. The ones with money peacock in a way that clearly doesn't bring them joy, same for their women, it always comes off as this weird obligation to me.

If you wanna live that Chad life you gotta grind and flex for it and the time you spend doing that is probably at least equal to the time enjoying it, if not greater. I don't envy that kind of lifestyle at all.

Title	Average men of PPD: do you think you’re inferior to Chad?
Author	twopeas3296
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Comments	19
Date	February 11, 2020 10:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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