Intro:

Society sure moves fast…

Just 5 years ago, you could follow the Sidebar recommendations to only text for logistics and do just fine.

Focus on the interaction. Don’t worry about fancy text tricks.

Well, 5 years later, that information is out of date.

You can’t just text for logistics anymore for younger women. It doesn’t work.

If you don’t believe me, go ahead and try classic RedPill text-for-logistics text game on a Gen Z woman today. I guarantee you, you won’t be able to get her to go out with you even if you did everything right in the initial approach

So unless you want to be stuck banging 35 years or older women, you better make sure your text game is up to date and current with modern times.

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Your Ultimate Goal with Text Game:

Your ultimate goal is to get the girl to meet with you in person. The home run is if you can get her to come to your place, but even a drinks date is good.

Nothing else matters.

Do not become text buddies with her, it will never lead to anything good. Sex only happens in person.

This is one thing the old style of texting for logistics game got 100% right. Get her out in person. The problem is it’s a lot harder to get these Gen-Z and millennial girls out nowadays since it’s so easy to be entertained in their little virtual worlds.

Not to mention they pretty much all heard these crazy stories from their friends and social media about girls getting pumped and dumped by Chad so they’re a lot more resistant to getting fucked by a stranger now, even if he’s hot.

Sure you can bang a bunch of lower value girls from dating apps, but why do that when investing in text game can consistently convert girls your league or higher?

You actually need to have some texting skill now, you can’t just expect the initial interaction to do all the work for you.

This is especially true post Covid-19.

You really think a prime 20 year old girl will risk going out with someone she barely even knows nowadays if you just text for logistics without laying any groundwork?

Standard Text Game Progression:

There are 4 potential stages a girl is in at any point once you get her number.

Stage I: Not interested and Radio silence

Stage II: Not interested but still texting back

Stage III: Slightly interested but not enough to meet up

Stage IV: Interested enough to meet up

As you can see, texting for logistics works perfectly fine once you’re in Stage IV. The problem is, most younger women are not going to be in Stage IV unless you already laid some ground work.

There’s too many distractions these days. In person meetups are harder than before. Sure it’s probably easier to ask a low value girl to come over and fuck than ever before, but to get a standard date, definitely takes more work.

Your Strategy for every Stage is to move them further down the Stages until they are in Stage IV. That’s it. Nothing else matters.

Do not skip any steps – EVER.

You can FUCK UP surefire leads by not going through the Stages in order. There was a cute mixed girl I met at a convenience store that went from not responding to asking what I was doing on Halloween night right out of the blue! Score! Except, I moved too fast and asked her over to my place immediately and was stuck with nothing that night since I didn’t move her down the stages naturally.

You will scare younger girls off if you move too fast. Follow the steps and you won’t have that problem.

Strategy for every step:

Stage I: Not interested and radio silence – Ah, the worst place you can possibly be in after you get a girl’s number. She’s not even texting you back.

First of all you can greatly reduce the chances of that happening by NOT sending a boring first text in the first place. You know, the standard: “Hey, nice meeting you in Psychology class today. What’s your schedule looking like for this week? I know this awesome bar herpa derpa derpa derp”

Believe me, every other guy is sending that exact same kind of text so you do nothing to differentiate yourself.

The best first text to send is something that gets her in a good mood.

You want her to subconsciously associate you with good feelings every time she opens your message.

Memes are perfect for this purpose.

That’s right Memes.

There’s 2 types of memes that work: funny memes and motivational memes. You can find them in Facebook groups or Reddit subgroups or even just google search.

All you gotta do is make sure the meme is relevant to your initial interaction in some way. For example, if she says she’s a teacher, google ‘teacher memes’ and send one of the funnier memes you find.

This immediately sets you apart from other guys and shows you’re a happy, chill guy, not needy for her attention at all. You’re just here to spread good vibes.

And if she doesn’t respond to your text? Send another meme in 3-7 days. Don’t be needy and send a meme every single day. Just once a week is good.

Every time a girl stops responding, you always put them on what I like to call “the Meme follow up list”. Your goal is to get them to associate you with good vibes so they’re excited to open your messages every time you send them.

It’s ok to double text if the later text is a meme because you’re just sharing something funny, not asking for anything in return.

So anyways, if the girl doesn’t respond, send another meme every 3-7 days. If she does respond, it’s on to Stage II.

Stage II: Not interested but still texting back – this is where the girl is actually responding to you but most guys kill it by moving too fast and asking them out immediately.

Your goal in this step is to get her to the Hook Point, where she starts opening up about herself and most importantly, asking you questions about your life.

In order to hook her, you must ask her open-ended questions about herself and “force” a connection with her by relating it to your own life.

You do this by making a statement about her, an educated guess, then asking an open-ended question based on that guess.

“You have an intellectual vibe about you. What are you studying right now in university?”

I’ve tested everything from gamey lines to witty lines. This works best. Nobody else is doing it intentionally, forcing a connection with her this way.

And the true beauty of text game is that you can just Google whatever it is she tells you about herself, even if you don’t know anything about the topic!

If she says she’s studying nursing, you can google nurse stories + reddit and find tons of first hand reports from nurses on Reddit that can’t be faked.

You just say, oh cool, my sister (or my best friend) is also a nurse and then give a fake anecdote from your Reddit research.

Then you keep asking her open-ended questions this way, only revealing what you wish to reveal and nothing more.

Remember, it’s about law of least effort. If you’re just hitting her up with witty text messages all the time, she’s going to subconsciously realize you don’t really have anything better to do with your life.

If you actively build this connection, even though you’re taking more time, it looks like you’re just naturally having a conversation.

Witty game lines take less effort but appear to require more effort on your part

Building an artificial connection takes more effort but appears to require less effort.

It’s all about the appearance, not the reality.

If you did everything correctly, pretty soon she will reach out and ask you questions about yourself. A lot of girls will even ask you for a picture unless you traded instagrams since they have so many other guys hitting them up they don’t remember what you look like.

Stage III: Slightly interested but not enough to meet up – And now you’re here. She’s investing in you, but not enough to go out yet.

The most important part of this Stage is to not fuck up anything by actually opening up yourself.

Lots of normal guys will naturally want to reciprocate at this point. “Hey, she’s opening up! I better do the same and reveal all my weaknesses and vulnerabilities like a beta!”

No.

Everything you reveal about yourself is planned out. If it doesn’t lead you closer to fucking her in bed, throw it out.

She’s going to ask you what you do for a living, and you NEVER reveal the truth that you’re working in a boring 9-5 job. Instead, you tell her about what your dream is.

I’m working my butt off to get my own business off the ground, or I’m looking to go pro in XYZ field is 10 times better than, “I suck my boss’s dick at a boring office job”

If she asks for your picture, you better fucking make sure you have some good ones to send. None of that picture in the bathroom mirror shit.

High value pictures only. Pictures of you with hot girls, pictures of you in nice restaurants, pictures of you doing adventurous stuff, leading other men, etc. It doesn’t hurt to pay a professional photographer to get these. It’s not that hard.

Pretty soon, it’ll be time to ask her to go out with you, and you’re not gonna use any gamey lines or other witty texts.

Instead, you’re going to use Empathy to get her to come out with you.

Doesn’t matter if you actually care about her or if you’re dark triad like me and need to fake it.

Empathy is your most powerful tool for closing over text and securing the in person meeting. Just send her the following text word for word after she opens up about something.

“Listen come on over to < bar near your house> and let’s talk about it. Otherwise I’ll make other plans”

After that, she may come up with some objections. And if she objects in any way, you must address the objection or she won’t convert.

If she says it’s too far away, reschedule to somewhere closer to her house or offer to pick her up if you have a nice car.

A lot of the times, she won’t actually respond and you’ll get radio silence. This is because most girls these days are cowards and too scared of even saying their real objection.

In that case, it’s your job as a man to move things forward and bring their hidden objection into the limelight.

“Hey, I get the feeling you’re still on the fence about me, that I might break your heart or something. I get it, we don’t have to do anything you aren’t ready to. But let’s just see how things go. We’re just chilling.”

Just make an educated guess as to what her real objection is and address it for her.

If all goes well, you’re now in Stage IV. If not, there must be some other hidden objection in her mind she’s not telling you.

Try your best to guess from her vibe what that is and keep overcoming these objections as best you can until she changes her mind.

“Hey, I totally understand. You probably just broke up with your boyfriend. Listen, it’s ok, I get it, it sucks, come over to <bar near your house> and let’s talk about it. Either way, let me know asap cuz my other friend wants to hang out too”

A girl’s mind is like a lock. You only need to “pick” the right combination of objections, and it will open. Keep trying and don’t give up after the first failure.

Stage IV: Interested enough to meet up

And now, you’re in the promised land.

You can text for logistics now and be all set.

You don’t need to do all this fancy text game anymore once you’ve fucked a girl good and she’s your fuck buddy. Just text for logistics like they recommend in the side bar and you’re good to go.

Text game is for converting new girls, not for maintaining existing plates.

Lessons Learned:

Don’t absorb everything in the sidebar as scientific fact

Test everything.

The fundamentals are all good. But society is moving very fast these days.

Not all of the information is going to work for you because it might already be out of date.

Don’t be that guy whose still using Yahoo mail and Internet Explorer in 2020.