If he truly loves you, it means he loves you as a unique individual and would not want to be with anyone else.

He’s not with you for convenience, or waiting for an opportunity with a hotter girl. You’re not someone he settles for when he realises he’s getting older and can’t do any better.

Making you feel wanted and appreciated comes naturally. Putting the dishes away, remembering anniversaries, flirting with you like you’re still dating... and just putting effort in in general!

When a HVM chooses you it should genuinely feel like you’re the only woman in the world. You’re not a distraction from games, or competing with porn stars, or second best.

You’re the only one he wants. Not because you’re the “best he could get” but because he loves who you are. There could be supermodels asking him out and he’d still chose you.

Meanwhile a LVM will show you what he thinks you are: a placeholder, second best, a live in maid.

You will not feel valued by someone who sees you as a replaceable commodity. Who is only with you for what they can get. As a means to an end.